Izingxabano phakathi kwabantu: okuyisisekelo, izimbangela kanye ne-typology

Izingxabano zomphakathi yizingxabano ezivela emkhakheni wabantu ekusebenzisaneni kwabo kwengqondo nezenhlalakahle. Ngokusekelwe kulokhu kuqonda, kuyacaca ukuthi kunoma imuphi umphakathi kungenzeka ukuthi kwenzeke ukuthi kwenzeke kangakanani. Ikakhulukazi uma ucabangisisa ukuthi yiziphi izimbangela zezingxabano zomuntu siqu kanye ne-typology yabo.

Izinto ezidingekayo ukuze kwenzeke kwazo zingahlukaniswa ngamaqembu amakhulu amathathu:

• I-Psychological;
• Umuntu;
• I-socio-kwengqondo.

Izimbangela zengxabano zengqondo ziholela ekwakheni ukungalingani. Lokhu kwenzeka lapho:

• Kukhona ukuphikisana emigomweni yokuphila, izisusa, izinhloso, umbono, amanani;
• Imibono yezombusazwe, ezombusazwe, ezibalulekile kanye nezinye izinto azihambisani;
• Abantu abahlanganisi ngokusho kohlobo lomqondo nomlingiswa.

Ukungqubuzana phakathi kwabantu kungase kuvele ngenxa yezizathu zomuntu siqu, ezisekelwe ekuziphatheni komuntu ngamunye . Izidingo ezinjalo zingabangela ekubukeni kwazo:

• Abahlanganyeli empikiswaneni bahlolisisa ukuziphatha kwamanye (s) njengokungamukeleki nokungalungile;
• Abanye abantu banezinga eliphansi lokukhulumisana - abaziboni ukuthi kuyadingeka ukubona indlela yokuphuma kwalokhu noma leso simo sokuphikisana ;
• Phakathi kwezimfanelo zomuntu siqu, umuntu kufanele ahlukanise lokho okuvimbela ukuxhumana: ezingeni elilingene lokuzinza kwengqondo, izinga elingezansi noma eliveziwe lokuthandwa ;
• Ukutholakala kohlobo lwe-choleric lokuziphatha phakathi kwabahlanganyeli empikiswaneni, noma ukubonakaliswa ngokweqile kwezici ezithile zomlingiswa.

Iqembu lesithathu lezinto ezibangela ukungqubuzana, ezenhlalo-kwengqondo, likhulu kakhulu. Phakathi kwezizathu eziyinhloko kungabonakala okulandelayo:

1. Ukuphazamisa nokulahlekelwa kolwazi esimweni sokuxhumana kwabantu;
2. Izindleko ekusebenzisaneni kwabantu azilinganisi kahle, okungukuthi, umuntu uqala ukuzizwa engakhululekile ekukhulumisaneni nezinye;
3. Kunezindlela ezahlukene zokuhlola ubuntu nomsebenzi womunye umuntu, kanye nokuhlelwa kwamanani;
4. Kungenzeka ukuthi kukhona ubudlelwano obuyinkimbinkimbi phakathi kwabantu, isifiso somuntu onamandla, nokungahambisani.

Izinhlobo zezingxabano zomphakathi zingahlukaniswa ngokuhambisana nezigaba eziningana.

Okuvame kakhulu yi-typology yensimu yesicelo, ngokusho ukuthi bayahlukanisa:

• Ukungqubuzana ezindaweni zomphakathi (emgwaqweni, esitolo, ezokuthutha zomphakathi, njll);
• Umndeni,
• Ukungqubuzana enhlanganweni.

Izingxabano zomphakathi zingabuye zihlukaniswe ngokusho kokugqugquzela ukuziphatha kwabahlanganyeli bayo. Izingxabano zezinsiza zihlukanisa uma abantu "behlukanisa" okudingekayo ukuze umuntu asinde. Izingxabano ezibalulekile zixhunyaniswa nokukhona kwezinkolelo zamasiko ezehlukene, izinkolelo, izinkolelo, ukuhlolwa kanye nezimo zengqondo.

Ukuthakazelisa ngokwanele ukuhlukaniswa ngokwemigomo yeqiniso nokuqina. Ngokuhambisana nalo, singakwazi ukuhlukanisa:

• Ukungqubuzana okungahleliwe, lapho ukuxhumana okungalungile kuphakama ngokuhambisana nezimbangela ezishintsha kalula;
• Kukhona ukungqubuzana kwangempela futhi kungase kube "ukudonsa";
• Mayelana nefomu elichithiwe, umuntu angakhuluma uma ingxabano yangempela ifihliwe omunye, engabonakali;
• Ukungqubuzana kwesikhashana kungase kube "isikhathi sokulala" isimo isikhathi eside, kodwa ngokushesha noma kamuva kufanele sinyamalale, noma sikhule ibe yinye eyiqiniso;
• Inguqulo yamanga ikhona ngenxa yamaphutha ekuqondeni nasekuboneni.

Lapho uxazulula noma iyiphi inketho, isikhundla esiyisisekelo sizoba yilokho bonke abahlanganyeli kudingeka bahlale phansi "ithebula lokuxoxisana". Uma kwenzeka abantu bezama ukuzichaza ngendlela eyakhayo futhi bavumelana phakathi kwabo, izingxabano zomphakathi zingaxazululwa.