Ungaba kanjani hero? Amathiphu wabaqalayo

Njengoba iHero yeSoviet Union yathi: "Amahhashi awazalwa - aqala." Le ndoda yadabula impi yaseRussia-Finnish, yabona konke okwesabekayo kokuphila kwangaphambili kwe-Great Patriotic War, ngakho uyazi ukuthi ukhuluma ngani. Kodwa kanjani ukuba yiqhawe manje, lapho kungekho khona izimpi noma izinhlekelele? Kulula - udinga ukufundisa indoda.

Ubani amaqhawe?

Ezingqondweni zabantu abaningi banamuhla, amaqhawe bangabantu abasindise isintu enhlekeleleni yemvelo. Ukubona okulinganiselwe okunjengokuthi "ngiyabonga" i-Hollywood blockbusters, lapho indoda elandelayo ehle kakhulu enomomotheka omibalazayo ivikela umhlaba kumaZombie wegazi, bese kuthi wonke umuntu amdumise. Lokhu kwenzeka kuphela kuma-movie. Ekuphileni kwangempela, amaqhawe abantu abavamile abavame ukubonakala okukhangayo, isikhundla esiphakeme sezezimali noma ulwazi olujulile kwisigaba sesayensi. Laba ngabantu abaye benza izenzo lapho abanye badlulile khona.

Ngingasho kanjani nje, ngibheke insizwa engenamakhaya: "Omunye uzomthatha." Futhi kunzima kangakanani, ungaphambuki empilweni encane, futhi umthole ikhaya elihle. Yebo, lokhu akusona isenzo somhlaba jikelele, kodwa amaqhawe angempela awadluli ngalabo abadinga usizo. Abalindi ukudumisa noma ukubonga, amaqhawe asiza ngoba afuna kanjalo. Futhi uma umuntu esezibuze ukuthi angaba kanjani iqhawe, udinga ukukhuluma kancane futhi enze okunye.

Amathiphu

Ukuze ube hero, kudingeka usebenze ngokwakho. Ema-movie, leli hero lihlale linesitha esifungile, empilweni yenketho enjalo ayinikeziwe. Kodwa ungahlala uthola umuntu esimweni esiseduze, okuziphatha kwakhe akujabulisi. Kuye akudingeki ukuba ulwe noma uzame ukufundisa kabusha - akusilo ubuqhawe, kodwa ubuwula. Kufanele nje uqaphele izici ezimbi zobuntu bakhe futhi ungalokothi wenze lokho akwenzayo. Isibonelo, ukuhleka, ukuqamba amanga, ukucasula ababuthakathaka.

Ngakho, uba kanjani amaqhawe? Okokuqala, baqala ukuzikhandla, okungukuthi:

• Kumelwe silwe nosuku lwethu. Ngokuvamile ungabona isithombe: umndeni udinga usizo, futhi umuntu ongakunikeza, uyazama ukungena futhi anikele ngezinsizakalo zakhe. Esikhathini isichazamazwi hero sika akufanele kube igama elithi "lihlazo". Uma kunethuba lokusiza, udinga ngokuhlakanipha ukunikela ngezinsizakalo zakho, umuntu odinga usizo uyokwamukela ngenjabulo.
• Uyabalulekile. Ungakhathazeki ngokwakho. Ngisho noma umuntu engenalutho, uyakwazi ukusiza nokuveza ukusekelwa. Isisekelo salo yintliziyo enomusa kanye nekhono lokuzwa ubuhlungu bomunye umuntu.
• Ngaphansi kokulalela. Sekukhulunywe kakade ukuthi kunabantu abaningi abazodlula inkinga engavamile (yeka noma encane). Yilaba bantu abangakwazi ukukhuluma ngemuva kwe-muck. Unganaki. Kuyinto nje ukukhanya komona, kusukela ekuqondeni ubuthakathaka bomuntu siqu nokungabi nalutho.

• Uhambo lwamamayela angu-1000 luqala ngesinyathelo esisodwa. Qala ngezenzo ezincane. Ungavumeli wonke umuntu, kodwa owodwa kuphela, kodwa ngosuku olulodwa abe yiqhawe: hlela, usize ngezikhwama ezinzima, ukondle isilwane esingenamakhaya. Lona impendulo yombuzo wokuthi ungaba kanjani iqhawe empilweni yangempela.
• Thuthukisa. Funda kabanzi mayelana nokuthi ungasiza kanjani ezimweni ezahlukene. Funda ukunikeza usizo lokuqala, uthole ukuthuthukiswa ngokomzimba, ufunde izincwadi.

Ukuphila Phezu Konke

Ungaba kanjani hero? Ukusiza ekwenzeni inhliziyo. Awudingi ukushiya usizi lomunye umuntu noma ufune inzuzo yakho. Kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi impilo yomuntu ingaphezu kwakho konke. Futhi, mhlawumbe, usizo olusifike ngesikhathi luyoba yinto eguquguqukayo eyokushintsha kuze kube phakade ukuze kube ngcono.

Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isimo siyini, into esemqoka akukuthi uzivelele wena nabanye kwabanye engozini yokufa. Ukuphila kwangempela akuyona umdlalo wekhompyutha ongahle umiswe futhi ugcinwe. Ngomuntu womunye umphefumulo awunikeziwe. Ngakho-ke, ukuze ube yiqhawe, umuntu kufanele abe nenhliziyo enhle, ukukhuthazela, amandla nokuhlakanipha.

Ngingumzekelo

Iqhawe langempela ngeke liziphathe njenge-self-confidence egoist, okumele wonke umuntu kufanele, ngoba usize umuntu. Amaqhawe awafuni imivuzo nenkazimulo, ahlale ezwa ukucela usizo futhi angalokothi azibekele. Futhi ukuphendula lo mbuzo, ukuthi ungaba kanjani iqhawe, ungasho lokhu okulandelayo: yiba isibonelo esihle sokulingisa. Ngobuqotho, umusa, ubuhle, ukunakwa ngemininingwane, ukuzwela, ukuzinikezela - lezi zimfanelo azikwazi ukuthengwa ngemali, zingakhulelwa kuphela. Futhi amaqhawe ezinsuku zansuku zonke enza izinto ezinjalo: kuqala azifundise ngokwabo, bese eseza abanye.

Wonke umuntu angaba iqhawe, into eyinhloko ukukholelwa kuwe nokwandisa isandla sokusiza abahluphekile.