Umkhaya e Umphakathi Modern

Umkhaya nomshado emphakathini wanamuhla akuzona imiqondo ziyigugu njengoba ngaphambi. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi basuke devalued ngokuphelele, noma ukuthi disparage kubo njengoba amanani ulungisiswa. Kuyinto imfihlo ukuthi minyaka yonke inani labantu abahlukanisayo emadolobheni ezisemadolobheni ukhula, futhi, ngenxa yalesi simo, kuthathwa ngokuthi impucuko yethu ifinyelele esigabeni lapho umshado izingqondo zabaningi akuyona ukuphela kodwa indlela. Njengoba umgomo - umqondo uzinze ukuthi kuyaqabukela uyashintsha, kodwa izindlela - kunalokho, isimo sikuvumela ukushintsha kuye ngezimo, lokhu futhi sibonakala izibalo sad: munye umshado kalula kuthathelwe indawo ngenye, ukuziphatha "akekho umuntu Irreplaceable," futhi kulesi sigaba, futhi ukuthi izingane zikhula zingakwazi nhlobo ubaba noma umama, ngeshwa, kuyinsakavukela besikhathi sethu.

Ukuze sicacise isimo futhi wenze kufinyelelwe iziphetho ezinembile, ukuchaza eziyisisekelo nemisebenzi umndeni ezikhathini zanamuhla.

Umndeni emphakathini wanamuhla futhi umsebenzi zokuzala

Ingqikithi lo msebenzi ukuzala. Kuze kube manje, amazwe athuthukile abe nenkinga yokuhlala kwabantu. Kuyinto obuqinile emshadweni bayakwazi ukuyixazulula, lapho izingane zizalwa emndenini nge ngokubambisana kubhaliswe ngokusemthethweni. Nokho, akubona bonke abakwazi uqukethe inqwaba yezingane, okuyinto kungani lwenteke Uhlelo usizo lwezimali omama ezinkulu nobaba. Ngenxa izinguquko ezinkulu emkhakheni wetisebenti, kule mikhakha yezimboni nezomnotho, kukhona ukwehla amazinga okuphila abantu abaningi, kuba into ethile ebiyisithiyo ukuqaliswa ubudlelwano emndenini egcwele olusebenza. Abesifazane bavame ukukuthola ukusebenza njalo elilinganayo amadoda, okuholela ukwehla izinga lokuzalwa kanye nokuqedwa isibopho somshado. Ngokuvamile inkinga umndeni emphakathini wanamuhla kubangelwa ukuntula kwakhe ikhono ukuba izingane (ngenxa yezizathu zezimali noma ngenxa yezinkinga zempilo), noma ukuba manqikanqika, ogxile ukwesaba kwengqondo.

Futhi kuvimbela ukugcwaliseka umsebenzi okuzala ka umndeni imishado ekuseni lapho umbhangqwana basenza ngezinga elithile abadinga usizo nokuvikelwa kanye nezingane. Izinkinga ezibhekene intsha yanamuhla, futhi ngakho abasakwazi eziyinkimbinkimbi, futhi lapho lo mkhaya abasha ebhekene ezengeziwe, ngesimo kokuqhuba ukuphila futhi ukubhekana nezindaba zezimali ke ngokuqinisekile ngezinye izikhathi wenza isehlukaniso, uma abantu unganelisekile indima abondliwa noma uma kuba ngabo umane kungamukeleki.

Futhi, izinkinga umsebenzi zokuzala kuyinto umbuzo asizalwanga ngokuphinga, abaningi babo bathunyelwa umntwana ekhaya kusukela lokuthi omama abakwazi uqukethe bebodwa.

Umndeni emphakathini wanamuhla futhi umsebenzi kwezemfundo

Umkhaya ekuqondeni ephelele ephathelene ne-ukuzinza. Yingakho kuba (futhi, kuhle) a yisiboniso imbewu enhle, okuyinto lukhula ezimweni ezinhle ngaphansi kokuqondisa nokuvikelwa yabazali bazo. Njengoba sekunama-uhulumeni, uhlaka lomthetho futhi efaka inani amalungelo nezibopho, ozinikele izibopho emshadweni ezinika ukuphila ohloniphekile abantwana abazalwa emndenini.

Uma abantu njalo ukushintsha bomshado, izingane zizalwa kulezi ubudlelwano, kuyoba nzima kakhulu ukuthola namandla ngenxa yokuntuleka ukwesekwa womzali wayo. Ngeshwa, emphakathini wanamuhla, lokhu mkhuba sekuvame kakhulu.

Ukuqaphela umsebenzi kwezemfundo kube nzima yokuthi emikhayeni eminingi yesimanje ophathina, njengoba umthetho, bayalingana, kodwa abesifazane athwale imithwalo yemfanelo eyengeziwe ngenxa isidingo imali futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo bekhulisa izingane zabo kanye yokuziphatha yokuphila.

Okubi nakakhulu, lapho izingane ukuba bahambe ngokwabo ngenxa njalo umsebenzi sabazali.

Umndeni emphakathini wanamuhla futhi umsebenzi okuzivuselela

Ochwepheshe abaningi banomuzwa ukuthi umshado kwesigamu impumelelo yakhe umsebenzi. Njengoba indoda - ukuba abe yisidalwa sobudlelwane, futhi sidinga baxoxa ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo, cela iseluleko, kusho ukuthi-ke kubaluleke kakhulu lapho kukhona labo abazimisele ukusekela ezikhathini ezinzima futhi nobani ubuhlobo ithemba.

Umndeni emphakathini wanamuhla, ngenhlanhla, namanje enze ngokugcwele lo msebenzi ezikhathini eziningi. Bambalwa abantu uyavumelana ukushada ne nakulawo akusho uzethemba noma akudingeki-ke.

Noma kunjalo, kunezizathu izinselele eziningana ezibhekene umndeni, ngokuqalisa ukusebenza lo msebenzi. Ukuthi yizinto ezihlobene isiko ezivamile of ubudlelwano emndenini, akha unezinselele ezinzima kunalezo yokudlanga emphakathini yakwazi ukwanelisa amagugu akhuthaza ukushintshana okuqhubekayo abalingani, etshumayela imali njengoba ukubaluleka oyinhloko ekuphileni, okuyindawo ohlupheka ngoba owesifazane wamshaya ukulwela amalungelo futhi amadoda, abesaba ukuthi esibambisene yabo kuphela kudingeka lokhu "main" Inani. Ngokuqinisekile Kulokhu, umusa kanye nokuthuthukiswa zokuziphatha ukwazi ukwenza umkhaya oqinile, nokuhlangana kwemicabango iqembu iyunithi umphakathi futhi ehloniphekile ngaphandle zezingane ezilahliwe futhi omama abangabodwa.