Ukuziphatha ihlongandlebe - ukuphambuka kusuka kuyinsakavukela

In the 80s kwekhulu elidlule, igama elisha ohlelweni umthetho USA - "ukuziphatha ihlongandlebe". Lokhu kusho ukuphambuka kusuka kwezinkambiso yokuziphatha bamukeleke umphakathi (kusukela Latin «delinquo» -. «Ukuphambuka"). Nokho, incazelo grudging enjalo akuvezi zonke ezicashile lo mqondo eziyinkimbinkimbi. Ngo yobugebengu it is zaziye zibhekwe kunalokho njengoba "ukuthambekela ukoniwa" kuka mkhankaso wafeza.

Yini ngokuvamile ukuthini igama elithi "ukuziphatha abangalaleli '? Lesi siqu wokwenza okubi abantu usakhula, okuyinto abangazange okwamanje angene esigabeni ubugebengu amacala obugebengu. Kodwa lokhu akulona ukuziphatha nemikhuba ehlanekezelwe Ibhekwa ukuphambuka ezincane kusukela kwezenhlalo kanye kwezinkambiso zokuziphatha bamukeleke umphakathi unikezwa. Nokho, umngcele phakathi imiqondo emibili ezingaphezu kuka engenamali, okuvame ivumela abahlaziyi ukuthatha ngenye nenye.

Yini icala kungaba elichaza ukuziphatha ihlongandlebe kwabancane? Ngaphakathi kakhulu nomqondo ukuphambuka kusuka kuyinsakavukela zingahlukaniswa zibe izingqimba eziningana, kuye ngokuthi sina icala.
Ngakho, ukuziphatha ihlongandlebe - ukuthi emsebenzini esikoleni futhi ukuntula inhlonipho ontanga nothisha, futhi uxoxe ngamaqembu ngokungafanele ezifana entsheni, ayesephambuka kwezinkambiso zokuziphatha zomphakathi.
Kwangathi isicelo salesi sigaba kanye namacala obuphathekayo ezingenangqondo neziyingozi: ephanga, ukweba izinto ezincane, ukulwa, nokweqa ekhaya, utshwala nokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa. Zonke lezi zenzo elenziwa abadala, kukhona isigebengu futhi kuhilelani necala lobugebengu. Injongo ukwehlukana ukuziphatha ihlongandlebe ka criminogenic siku ukunakekelwa izingane, ngomzamo bazivikele lemimoya hhayi uwabhala phansi ngaphambi kwesikhathi e eziningi izigebengu zangempela. Yingakho isijeziso izenzo ezenziwa yintsha - kwasinda sina - ihlukaniswa njengoba misdemeanors.

Yiziphi izici ezenza abantu intsha ukuba ukuziphatha ihlongandlebe? Lona umbuzo eyisisekelo kabani Impendulo ingase ingabi emkhathini ngokwengqondo umndeni kwentombazane. Ngakho, ukunganakwa abazali ezibakhathazayo futhi izifiso, noma, kunalokho, overprotection, ubudlova kanye ngokungaqondi, noma ukuyekelela nokuzitika zonke izifiso zakhe, ukuphikisana njalo phakathi uyise nonina, futhi-ke, uthando yanoma yiziphi abazali yotshwala noma yezidakamizwa . Lezi izimo kuthiwa esikhulu a yokuba umuntu omdala eziyinkimbinkimbi, okubangela uhlobo yombhikisho, lapho unesibopho iningi zokubonisa ubuhlongandlebe. By the way, odokotela bengqondo abaningi bathambekele cabanga ukuziphatha nemikhuba ehlanekezelwe amantombazane mkhuba ovamile, ukusabela ukuze izinguquko ezaba khona kwezenhlalo emphakathini.

Yini okufanele ibe zokuvimbela yokuziphatha abangalaleli kuthomba, nokuthi kungenzeka nhlobo? umbuzo nzima kakhulu, impendulo okuzokwenza ingabi yobuciko: ngonanzelelo imfundo izingane, ngazo zonke izindlela ukudala elibazungezile lenemphilo ngokwengqondo. Yebo, kungcono Izikhumbuzo, kodwa ayikho enye indlela. Ngokuvamile ukuziphatha nemikhuba ehlanekezelwe kuyinto search for okwamanje ukudalwa ezincani "Mina". Futhi kukhona eyodwa kuphela indlela yokuphuma: ungaphazamisi, bese uzama ukumsiza azithola ekuso futhi indlela yakhe.