Ukuziphatha okudlulayo - sibhekene nosuku ngalunye?

Lisho ukuthini igama elithi "ukuziphatha okuphambene nokuziphatha" ngokuvamile kuthiwa izazi zengqondo, abasebenzi bezenhlalakahle, abameli kanye namaphoyisa. Noma kunjalo, sibhekana nalesi simo ngokuqondile noma ngokungaqondile cishe nsuku zonke, futhi abaningi bethu baziphatha ngale ndlela ngesikhathi besakhula. Kuyini ukuziphatha okubi, kungani kuvela nokuthi kubonakala kanjani - ake sibheke lesi sihloko ndawonye.

Kuyini ukuhlubuka?

Ukuziphatha ngokweqile yizono ezingekho ngaphansi kwesibambiso sobugebengu: ukwehluleka okuncane, ukwebiwa okuncane emakethe noma emakethe, ukulwa ngaphandle kokulimala okukhulu, ukuwela emgwaqeni endaweni engafanele, ukuphuthuma emsebenzini. Amacala amaningi okuphatha ahlobene nezenzo ezimbi.

Uma ingane yakho ingumfana wesikole:

- ayisebenzisi ubusuku ekhaya;

- usebenzisa utshwala;

- ukulwa, ukuhlupha emgwaqweni kubantu abadala;

- ushiya esikoleni;

- aphula amabhentshi nokuguqula, ubhala ezindongeni;

- ukhetha imali ephaketheni,

Khona-ke kungokwesigaba sama-delinquents.

Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukuziphatha okuphambene nokuhlukumeza kuyahluka.

Ukulahlekelwa yikuphi ukuziphatha okuphambene nomkhuba, ongavunyelwe umbono womphakathi. Ukuziphatha okuhlukumezekayo sekuvele kulahlwe ngumthetho. Ibeka emkhakheni ekuziphatheni kobugebengu, futhi umngcele unquma ukuba khona kwesijeziso sobugebengu. Uma intombazane ibhalisiwe namaphoyisa, uyadala. Futhi uma efika etilongweni, uba yisigebengu.

Njengoba ubona, ukuziphatha okungahle kwenzeke kungase kube ukuqala kwempilo yobugebengu. Ngokuvamile umehluko uneminyaka kuphela, ngoba kungenzeka ukuheha umlandu wobugebengu obugebengu obuthile ngemva kweminyaka engu-14 kuphela. Ukukhula kwentsha kuvela eminyakeni engu-12-13 kuya ku-18-19, ngakho-ke ukuziphatha okuhlukumezayo kufana nokuwa ngokuphelele kule nkathi. Ngokusho kwe-UN, uhlobo oluthile lokungaziphathi kahle okunjalo lwaphawula ngaphezu kwengxenye yesithathu yabantwana.

Esinye sezibonelo ezivame kakhulu zokuhlukumezeka kungukulimaza. Intsha inqabile ukubhubhisa izikhumbuzo, ishaye amawindi, izihlalo zokusika. Okungenani izikhathi eziningana emaphephandabeni kukhona imibiko yamathuna amancane kanye nama-tombstones aphukile - konke lokhu kungokwesigaba sezenzo zokuhlukumeza.

Kungani intsha iziphatha ngale ndlela?

Ngokuvamile, lapho sibhekene nezimo ezinjalo, sicele umbuzo othi: "Kungani benza lokhu? Yini abangenayo? "

Njengoba izazi ze-psychologists seziqalile, ukuziphatha kwentombazane ye-teen delinquent kwenzeka ngezizathu eziningana ezibalulekile:

- ukungahlali komphakathi;

- ilukuluku nesifiso sokubona lo mdlalo;

- ukungakwazi ukubikezela imiphumela yezenzo zabo;

- isifiso esinqunyiwe sokuzimela.

Intsha ibhekene neqiniso lokuthi umphakathi udinga ukuba benze imisebenzi ethile. Abangakulungeli ukulalela, emphakathini bengakavuthi, kuyilapho bakholelwa ukuthi izwe aliniki lokho okufanele bakwenze. Ngakho kukhona isifiso sokuhlubuka, ukubhubhisa, ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zomphakathi.

Iyini isithombe esivamile esingokomqondo somuntu owephula umthetho?

Ihlukaniswe yizici ezinjalo:

- ukuzethemba;

- ubutha emagunyeni;

- ukungcolisa;

Intukuthelo nobutha;

- ukuzithiba okuzinzile.

Abanye balaba bantu banesithunzi sokuzithoba kanye nesithombe esibi. Abanye basekela ngokuzethemba ukuzethemba, bephika ukuthi kunezinkinga futhi bangaxhumani nezithombe ezizimele nezenzo zabo ezimbi. Abasha abanjalo abafuni ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo kulokho abakwenzayo, futhi bakholelwa ukuthi "bacasulwa" ngabanye abantu nezimo.

Kwamanye amacala amacala ahlukumezayo azinikele ngenxa yezinzwa ezijulile, ukwesaba noma izinkathazo.

Ngimiphi imigomo i-delinquent ye-adolescence ephila?

Ukuziphatha kwezinkampani zasemgwaqweni kuhluke kakhulu kulokho okuvunyelwe ngokuvamile. Osemncane ohlanganyele eqenjini elinjalo, esebenzayo futhi eqina kakhulu ufunda amanani aguquliwe.

1. Gcina umlomo wakho uvaliwe.
2. Yiba nzima futhi uphikelele
3. Ake sishintshe.
4. Ukwazi ukuthola imali.
5. Ikwazi ukukhipha.
6. Hlonipha izigebengu.

Uma ngaphezulu "okulingana" kwentsha kule namba yamagugu, kungenzeka ukuthi ukuziphatha kwakhe okuhlukumeza kuyokhula kube yisigebengu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.

Isikole manje sesiphelile ukuba isikhungo sezenhlalakahle, ngakho-ke yonke imithwalo yemfanelo iwela kuphela kubazali nezihlobo eziseduze zentsha. Yiziphi izindinganiso ezikhuthazwa emndenini, ingane ekhuluma naye ngaphandle kwendlu, yiziphi izinhlelo azibukayo, ukhuluma ngani kaningi? Ukuhlaziywa kwazo zonke izingxenye kuzokwazi ukuphendula: ukuthi yini ongayilindela esikhathini esizayo, nokuthi ngabe kunezizathu zokukhathazeka namhlanje.