Izici kwenqondo kuthomba

Emphilweni wonke umuntu, kodwa kunalokho ingane lapho kufika isikhathi lapho uqala ukuqaphela ukuthi izwe ngobubanzi okuningi kuka imibono yakhe, nezwe lakhe iqala ukushintsha, ingane iyeke iziveze izingane, kodwa basalokhu bengakakwazi uhlukanise ngokwabo njengabantu abadala. Lesi simo sibizwa ngokuthi kwenkathi yenguquko, noma okuqukethwe kwesayensi - ukuthomba, lapho umzimba wengane ukulungiswa kwashintsha ngokuzumayo ngo-isakhiwo bokuphila ukuthuthukiswa psycho-ngokomzwelo. Physiologists ngokuvamile okuthiwa ashiwo izenzakalo eziningi ngalesi sikhathi ehlome "ukuqhuma hormone", kuphumele ukuziphatha kwengane ethize. Nokho, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo yezingane ukunikeza izizathu zazo kungani uthuthukisa izimfanelo ngokwengqondo intsha.

Ngalesi sikhathi, ingane ibonakala umqondo lokho okubizwa ngomlobokazi ukuvuthwa, uqala khona ayo "Mina", izimfanelo zakhe siqu futhi ihlose ukusungula amazinga amasha zokuziphatha yokulingisa izithombe omdala. Izici ngokwengqondo ukuthuthukiswa intsha enjalo ukuthi isihloko eshintsha umqondo nesifiso sabo isimo senhlalo emphakathini kuholela yokuthi ingane ivame ukuba zizenzele izinqumo zazo, ukubamba iqhaza ekuphileni komkhaya ngaphansi nemibandela ilungu omdala emphakathini. Kulokhu, ukuziphatha ziyangqubuzana ingane kuholela yokuthi kukhona ngezici ezinjengobumnene ukuzinikezela ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukungabi isinyathelo, abantu abaningi abasinaki futhi ubudlova, ukuphakanyiselwa nesizungu gqwa esikhundleni nomunye ngaphandle kwesizathu. Ngokuvamile lokhu kwenza ukuba abantu abadala e badideke. Futhi ngokuvamile abazali nothisha zithatha ke okungalungile isikhundla omdala, hhayi ngamalungelo alinganayo, okwenza kukhule kakhulu ubuhlobo omdala nengane.

Bavame ukuthi yobusha a nolaka futhi uncoordinated ukuthi intsha kudingeka iqondise futhi ubatshela indlela senze futhi lokho ukwenza. Nokho, kuyinto sibi futhi engayinaki izici ngokwengqondo intsha, uma ingane athathe isinyathelo kuqala ukuzibekela imigomo siqu nokuzama ukuyifinyelela, musa bazame ukumvimba, noma kungaba umculo, umdanso, ezemidlalo noma yini. Kaningi kuyenzeka ukuthi ngezithukuthuku kwetifundvo intsha esikoleni uthanda ukwenza into ayizintandokazi zakho abazali nothisha basabela Akakwazanga, ezama kabusha kulolu cwaningo, uma ucabanga ukuthi kubalulekile ukuba ke. Ngokuvamile, abantu abadala baxhumane intsha, hhayi ikhumbula izici ngokwengqondo intsha, okuphumela ekwakhiweni ukwazi okuthiwa ingane nzima, obani-ke abasuke belwa nabo ngentshiseko. izici ngokwengqondo intsha zikhathazeke kuhluke iziphathimandla malformation, ngakho nemiklamo ukufaka esibalulekile. Baqala uthole izimpawu okuthiwa yokuba umuntu omdala, owabonakaliswa ukubhema, utshwala, ukudla izidakamizwa futhi ukusetshenziswa inhlamba. Ngakho, bazama ukuba bagomela ngokwabo phakathi ontanga amadala. Ngokuvamile, bashiya ngokuba nobuhlobo obuhle emkhayeni eduze, eduze ukuthi kamuva lapho usukhulile wabonakaliswa ukungakwazi ukwakha ubudlelwano ezifanele nabobulili obuhlukile futhi ukwakha ubudlelwano emndenini.

Odokotela bengqondo batusa ukuthi abadala ngonanzelelo izingane zabo, intsha, acabangele izici ngokwengqondo intsha, kokubili ekhaya futhi namaqembu omphakathi. Lokhu kusebenza othisha esikoleni, izihlobo nabanye abantu abadala abasebenza emphakathini esikoleni.

Kudingeka sihlakulele amandla ashukumisayo afanele e intsha, ukuba sizisekele ukuzibekela imigomo ekuphileni kanye ukwamukelwa eyabo "Mina" njengomuntu ngamunye, uyakwazi ngenhloso omdala nokufeza entsha.