Ukudumazeka - umuzwa yokuzisola mayelana hhayi zigcwaliseka

Igama elithi "inkathazo" - kuyini? Akunakwenzeka ukuthi wake uke wacabanga kaningi ngale ncazelo. Nakuba umuzwa ukuphoxeka zonke nakho ekuphileni abaningi yami izikhathi kusukela ebuntwaneni.

A inkathazo - kungcono ...

Ngokwesibonelo, ingane iye yanquma zakwazi ukujabulisa abazali bazo ukugeza izitsha, noma ukuzama ukwenza yokuhlanza efulethini, kodwa ekugcineni umama wamemeza kuye, njengoba wayengenayise intukuthelo ezimbi, nezinyane lembuzi akusebenzanga njengoba ungathanda. Yiqiniso, ingane ehlelwa umuzwa kokuthukuthela noma intukuthelo. Noma, ngokwesibonelo, ingane ubusuku bonke ukulungiselela isifundo, kodwa lapho kwakudingeka alandise ngosuku olulandelayo, ukulahlekelwa, akhohlwe lokho okufundile futhi wathola "izindlela ezintathu". Shame ... Lo muzwa uba nazo abadala, lapho benza wonke umzamo ungakwazi ukuthwebula okuthile okubalulekile, kodwa ekugcineni kodwa akwenzeki lutho. Hhayi wavuma eyunivesithi, akazange athathe isikhundla esinedumela ... Umuzwa ukukhungatheka ingakhula ibe nkulu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi futhi ekugcineni zibe izakhiwo ezahlukene nokudumazeka empilweni iyonke.

Folk amazwi aphathelene isilungulela

Kukhona Izaga ezahlukene ezichaza isimo umuntu owasinda ukuphoxeka. Ngokwesibonelo, "zokudonsa izinwele zami", "luma izindololwane zakho", "bakhwela ezingangeni ukukhungatheka," nokunye. D. Hhayi isimo emnandi kunazo uyavuma.

A inkathazo - Kubuhlungu ukuthi kwenzeka akuyona othandeakayo indlela yomuntu. Nokho, ngokuvamile kakhulu ke akafuni ukuba awavume amacala abo ngalokho okwenzekileyo: hhayi yonke imizamo, hhayi elicwengisiswe, akuyona kucatshangelwe yonke imininingwane. Ezimweni eziningi, umuntu ezama sisole omunye umuntu, bathi, akulona iphutha lami, kanye nosebenza nabo, abangane, izwe, ngisho nesimo sezulu. Yiqiniso, zonke lezi zici ukudlala indima, kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke incike kumuntu.

Ukushikashikeka ukudumazeka

Kuyacasula - umuzwa omubi, okumele combated. Uma kungenjalo, angakhula abe uyesaba izakhiwo. Akufanele uqambe amanga phezu kombhede futhi kwakumcasula konke futhi wonke umuntu, ngemva kwenye ukwehluleka. Njengoba Bathi, izinyembezi Ngeke kusize. Kufanele sihlaziye isimo ngokucophelela futhi ngazama ukuthuthukisa isimo. Uma singeke siphumelele ukuphindela ulungise, khona-ke akufanele acasuke. Kwenzekeni, kwenzeka. Konke lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho. Kuyadingeka ukuba bafinyelele iziphetho bese uyazama hhayi ukwenza abaningi balaba amaphutha. Futhi, akudingeki isikhathi esiningi, "skrola" engqondweni isimo, ukuze ngicasuke nakakhulu. Cabanga ngalokho ukuphila kuyokulethela ezihlukahlukene ngaphezulu amathuba emihle. Ungaphuthelwa kubo, ukuzisebenzisa ngokugcwele!

Ngikufisela inhlahla! Ake umuzwa ukudumazeka uzisole neze mnyama imicabango yakho!