Ubani igama lale ndoda ongamthandi abantu?

Ezweni lethu kukude abantu izindaba abakwazi uthando. Abanye bakubiza ngokuthi Narcissism, kuyilapho abanye abasibiza ngokuthi ukuzazisa, Narcissism - a term ungacabanga nokunye okuningi. Kunengqondo ukuphetha ngokuthi ngesikhathi samanje, ngaphandle lezi zimfanelo ongalifinyelela - uphoqa ibhizinisi, kanye nobudlelwane siqu ngokuvamile eligoqiwe ngendlela yokuthi ngesidingo sokubonisa ukuzibamba ukuze singathwesi get yizinkulumo ukucindezeleka nokwesaba sokuvalelisa. Kodwa njengoba besho, zonke ezinhle kufanele kube ngokulinganisela, futhi singanakwa ukuntuleka noma yimuphi umuzwa okufanele ifane patsi. Nokho, ngezinye izikhathi abantu abaqapheli ukuthi ukuba matasa kwabo ngezindaba ngokwabo, ukungathandi abanye kakade iphenduka ibe isifo sokuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Yilokho esiyikho manje futhi sizobe ukukhuluma.

Ngokuvamile, rose kubonakala kithi unjengomuntu ongamthandi abantu. Umuntu onjalo fixated kakhulu ku uqobo, kungaba udonga lwangaphandle, noma ulwazi, intuthuko engokomoya, nokunye. I uyigovu ingqondo yomuntu ekahle, okufanelekelayo kunazo zonke, khona-ke nguye. Zonke bonke abanye abantu, kuhlanganise nalabo kuyamphahla, ngisho uthando, kukhona uhlobo "yizigqila." Yena okholwa ukuthi ngabe zikhona kuphela ukuze amnike imfudumalo nenjabulo.

Ngokuvamile, umuntu ongamthandi abantu abamzungezile, has a izwe ncishana kakhulu kwangaphakathi, yalelozwe ewumngcingo, wokulahlekelwa ezingokomoya 'idla yodwa. Ngisho naphakathi ezinomsindo, ukukhohlisa komuntu onjalo uzizwa enesizungu kakhulu kuphela ngoba ecabanga ukuthi akunjalo (yena) kungaba wehlele wonke umuntu. Abantu abanjalo akuvamile ukusekela izingxoxo ezizuzisayo futhi ngisho ngoba esitolo kwabo ulwazi kungahle kungabi ngokwanele, kodwa ngoba nje asazi kanjani ukuxhumana. Kuyinto kule ndoda, ongamthandi abantu njalo ukuhlupheka, nakuba isimo sabo kafulawa ayizange ukholwa, ngisho kunalokho - uyakuthabela nalo.

Uma izibalo ziqhubeka eminyakeni, ne izifundo ezifundiwe, konke lokhu kuthuthukisa misanthropy. bengqondo Abaningi ukubiza okunjalo ukuphambuka isifo ezakha kakhulu ezweni lanamuhla, okuyinto ngezinga elingakanani eziyizici ngamunye wethu. Umuntu namuhla, abantu ngeke onothando, iphutha le umphakathi efanayo. izikali Special like ubuntu disorder labawatfolile esifundvweni nobe ezweni lethu, lapho division zibe kwezakhi nomphakathi kakhulu zibonakala ngokucacile, lapho abantu benamandla futhi imali, kwaphoqa emhlabeni wonke amanye, kanti isixuku esikhulu, esikhundleni salokho, iqala ukuvela umphefumulo inzondo. Ngakho, umuntu oyedwa kungaba zonda amaphoyisa kuphela isamba esingu-wakhe ngaphandle ekupheleni, futhi enye, emthukuthelele zonke Izinsiza, iqala buthule zonda ukukhanya okumhlophe.

Ngalesi mkhuba belusizi ukuthi ukuncela izwe lethu, abaningi bethu baye ukhohliwe ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuthanda umuntu. Futhi akusiwona emayelana nomndeni noma izihlobo, futhi, njengoba besho, kuya Comer kuqala. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela lezo zinto kancane ukuthi ongayenza ukuze ungahlosile abadlulayo. Ngokwesibonelo, othile wakhala esitimeleni noma usize ukuletha imali ubhasikidi sokudla esisindayo. Phawula ukumomotheka ngokuthi ungayinika uya emkhunjini, umdayisi, wezinwele, futhi ungakhohlwa ukunikeza ajabule nxazonke.