Ucasukile: aqedwa ososayensi bezinzwa ukutholakala

Kasibili ngijabulile ngaso sonke isikhathi kunabantu kuphela, okungenampilo ngokwengqondo. Bese kokutshelwa ngokukhubazeka kwengane - a rarity. Bonke abantu enempilo iyaya ucasukile ngezikhathi ezithile. Okufanele ukwenze esimweni esinjalo? Ezinye izinqubo zikuvumela ukushintsha isimo for ngcono.

Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuthuthukisa isimo semizwa yakho - ukuthola orgasm. Ngakho ucansi ukusiza abadabukile. Ososayensi bezinzwa bathi lapho ithola injabulo yobulili isimiso semizwelo, okuyinto unomthwalo kwemizwelo, umzuzwana, ivaliwe uyivula futhi. Lokhu "kabusha" ivumela ubuchopho ukushintsha umuzwa wakho ezingeni zomzimba aphansi.

Ngemva lula isimo jikelele kungaba ukufuna izimbangela ucasukile. Ngokuvamile akusiyo ngisho nezinkinga zangaphandle, kodwa isimo sethu sengqondo ngabo. ucasukile cuphuluza imicabango emibi. Kufanele uqaphele ukuthi umcabango - kuba ngokoqobo, hhayi into esikhashana, banalo imvelo bokuphila futhi ohlelweni computer yethu. Kodwa ngisho kude izinhlelo abantu bazi ukuthi ikhompyutha ngaphandle ukuba kube nohlelo oluhle - nje insimbi.

Ukuze uqalise, mane nje bagcine futhi qopha lokho imicabango ukwenza isimo semizwa yakho siba sibi kakhulu. Uzophawula le harbingers ka ucasukile - inhliziyo iqala ukushaya ngokushesha, imisipha ngeke kube nzima nezintende zezandla ngeke ujuluke. Ngakho umzimba, umzimba iphendula emicabangweni ephambene. Ngokuphambene, imicabango eyakhayo yokunciphisa izingcindezi, ukunciphisa kwenhliziyo ukuphefumula kuba bushelelezi futhi kukalwa. ukuhlolwa yokuthola iqiniso afakazele ukuthi imicabango kanye isimo umzimba, okuyinto abangela isimo, kuhlobene eduze.

Kuthiwani uma ucasukile ngenxa imicabango emibi? Kudingeka sifunde uhlobo ukucabanga semvelo. Imicabango yakho omubi kudingeka kubhekwe njengendlela "ukungcola engokwengqondo imvelo", futhi ubumsulwa kuwufanele onilwelayo. Zonke abaye bazama ukuzindla, siyazi ukuthi kunzima kakhulu ukulawula ukucabanga kwakho, imicabango ukuza bebodwa. Yebo, kubonakala sengathi kweqiniso. Kodwa kufanele wazi ukuthi "izinto abazicabangayo" musa iqiniso ngaso sonke isikhathi yini. Futhi bonakalise kwemizwelo futhi umuzwa. Ngakho noma imuphi umcabango efikayo engqondweni yami, kufanele kubhekwe kabi.

Yingakho esiphethweni - ukuba anqobe isimo esibi nge imicabango emibi bengavumelani. Futhi kungcono ukuze ukubhale phansi wabonisana ukuphikisa kubo. Yini imicabango kuvame bonakalise kwemizwelo? Okokuqala, kuba izitatimende ukuthi siqale ngamazwi athi "njalo" nathi "awukaze." Ubuchopho, okuyinto magange kuvame, ungakwazi ukududuza, ukulungisa izimo lapho umqondo ayilungile. Ngokwesibonelo, indoda noma umfazi akusho ukuthethisa wena njalo owuthanda. Ezinye izindawo zobuchopho bathambekele konakalisa kwemizwa izitatimende zakho ukuthi uqale nge "njalo".

Uma ungazange khona incwadi ethi "Pollyanna" Eleanor Porter, uqinisekise ukuthi ufunda. Le ncwadi iqukethe indzaba intombazane ohlala kwezimo ezinzima wakwazi nibheka umhlaba kusukela iphuzu omuhle umbono, wagxila ebuhleni esikhundleni kwesibi. Futhi isimo sakhe sengqondo ukukhanya maqondana nokuphila, yena kwathelela nabantu emhlabeni. Yokuchuma umbono kunalokho belusizi zomhlaba. Futhi oFata beSonto Lobu-Orthodox ukubiza ukuthola izizathu zokujabula kunoma isiphi isimo.

Kuba yisikhathi futhi lapho ucasukile kaningi iyaya labo inomkhuba zimo kushiwo ngokuqondene nesici ngokukhetha okubi kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuziphatha kwabo kulesi simo nawe avuse izenzakalo ezibuhlungu. Lapho ushayela endlini, wena "silindele a" Yimpi, amathuba okuthi scandal ikhula kakhulu.

Ukuze kuvinjwe isimo udangele, ungakwazi zisebenza ku umkhuba, omunye ososayensi bezinzwa ukutholakala - ucasukile ebonwe umsebenzi we Nenkabazwe kwesokudla. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ucasukile kubalulekile ekuxazululeni izinkinga izibalo babhale imibhalo okunengqondo (isibonelo, i-blog), hhayi ukulalela umculo, ukubhala izinkondlo noma upende.

Ngakho yenza uhlelo lokusebenzisa iqoqo ezinhle imisebenzi noma vula ikhasi ibhulogi yakho - futhi uyozizwa kangcono, ngoba lo msebenzi uyokwenziwa ujike Nenkabazwe kwesokunxele, okwenza abantu ngabandayo okuhle ngendlela engakholeki.