Ngabe indoda nomfazi bangaba yizintombi? Ake sibuke ndawonye.

Isiphakamiso sokuba ngu-godparents sibonakaliso sokuthi waqashelwa ukuthi ufanelwe ukuveza indoda entsha, ezalwa nje ekuziphatheni kobuKristu. Ngakho, kubazali bakho esikhathini esizayo ukukholwa kwakho akungabazeki. Kodwa kaningi isibalo sabazali bomuntu oyedwa ingane iba yisikhubekiso phakathi kwabazali nesonto. Zingaki okufanele zibe khona? Ngabe indoda nomfazi bangaba nezingane zodwa? Bangaki abazali abangokomoya abangakwazi ukuba nabo?

Umbuzo wukuthi umyeni nomfazi bangaba ngabazali bakaNkulunkulu ngesikhathi esifanayo, bahlupha izingqondo zabantu base-Orthodox futhi babangela izingxabano ngisho nasezifundeni zenkolo nasezingxabano phakathi kwabapristi. Ngokusho kwe-Canon Orthodox, ukuze umkhuba ukubhekwa njengomuntu ophelele yimithetho yonke, kunelungelo lomzali oyedwa owaziyo ngokomoya - ngenxa yezingane ezisencane kufanele zibe nguNkulunkulu, futhi amantombazane - unkulunkulukazi ngokulandelana. I-godfather yesibili akudingeki ukuba yikho, kuphela lapho isicelo sabazali.

Abapristi bama-Orthodox bayaphikisana kakhulu ngalesi sihloko. Ngokungaqondile, umama kanye nobaba kuphela wengane angeke abe ngunkulunkulu. Kusukela ekubukeni kwabaphikisi bokuba nomama nomfazi emshadweni wangempela, abashadile, emva kokushada, bayinto eyodwa, futhi uma bobabili bobabili, lokhu akulungile. Kodwa lokhu akukwazi ukuba yisithiyo kubo ekubhapathizweni kwezingane ezahlukene ezivela emndenini owodwa. Abasekeli bokuthi umbhangqwana oshadile ungaba yizintatheli ezifakazela ukuthi i- Synod Engcwele yenza izincazelo emthethweni kaDisemba 31, 1837. Bathi ngokwe-Trebnik, owamukelayo uyanele, kuye ngokuthi ubulili buka-godson, okungukuthi, asikho isizathu sokukholelwa Othandana nabo ngabantu abanoma yiluphi ubudlelwane obungokomoya ngakho-ke banqabela ukuba bangene emshadweni phakathi kwabo.

Kungenzeka ukwakha impendulo kumbuzo ukuthi umyeni nomfazi bangaba onkulunkulu, kanje. Uma umshado wabo ubhaliswe kuphela ehhovisi lokubhalisa, futhi ungangcweliswa yisonto, cishe cishe umpristi weSonto Lobu-Orthodox ngeke aphikisana neqiniso lokuthi abashadile babhapathizwa bobabili, ngoba ngokwemithetho yesonto umshado wabo awubanjwe ezulwini. Okufanayo kusebenza kumacala alandelayo lapho umuntu engaba abazali abangokomoya - unkulunkulu nomfazi bangaphetha umshado wabo emva komhlangano wokubhapathizwa, futhi baqhubeke behlala nabo.

Abazali banamuhla, bafuna ukuthi omazi - nkulunkulu basondele emndenini we-godson, bese ukhetha abamukeli phakathi kwabahlobo noma izihlobo. Inombolo evamile yabankulunkulukazi emkhakheni wezocansi ezimbili ezahlukene. Kuyinto engavamile ngubani olawula eyodwa godfather. Isizathu salokhu asikho okungokwengeziwe ngokomoya njengento ebonakalayo. I-christenings ibeka abazali abavuthiwe ngokomoya hhayi okungokwenkolo kuphela nokuqonda, kodwa futhi nezinto ezibonakalayo - isibonelo, kufanele bahalalisele ingane engokomoya ngamaholidi, ngakho-ke, banikeze izipho. Futhi-ke, kucatshangwa, ukuphumelela isiphambano noma unkulunkulu, kungcono ingane.

Emaphandleni enombuzo wokuthi umyeni nomfazi bangaba yizintombikazi, isimo sinzima nakakhulu. Ngokuvamile emizaneni kungabhekana ngisho nangokwesiko lamane amane noma ngaphezulu. Bakhetha imibhangqwana emibili noma emine, futhi ungakhathazeki ngemibuzo enjalo - okulungile noma engalungile, ngokwezenkolo. Kodwa uma imibuzo ye-Orthodoxy ibalulekile kuwe, kungcono ukuthi uxoxe nompristi, bese ukhetha omazi. Futhi kungcono ukuzikhethela hhayi ngekhwama, kodwa ngenhliziyo. Abantu abakholwayo ngempela, ngisho noma bengewona onkulunkulu, bazohlala bemsekela ingane yakho ngesikhathi esiyinkimbinkimbi futhi bamqondise endleleni yangempela, nokuthi ngabe bayindoda nomfazi akubalulekile yini. Ngokuba ingane yakho nomlingani we-godparent bayoba u-godfather ngokuzenzakalelayo.