Nomfazi oyedwa ngenkuthalo bakhuthazwa imithetho yesimanje kanye indlela yokuphila. Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi imibhangqwana enhle akhona kuphela nesembozo omagazini futhi izimakethe, kuyinto ngemibono eqinile. Nethabo umshado - indoda nomfazi owahlangabeza nomunye esikoleni (umfundi) ebhentshini, kanye nenzalo yabo. Umuntu omdala lwesithathu ngokungangabazeki engadingekile. Ngakho umndeni ibonwa e ukwazi mass. Nokho, izinto akuzona elula kangaka empilweni, nasemishadweni kakhulu ahluleka kuyo, futhi kwezinye izimo kwenzeke noma "elivulekile ngomqondo" izintaba noma amanoveli sina. Budebuduze ukufuna: ukukhumbula uthando futhi ukuphila komkhaya ka enkulu yethu. U-Alexander II, Nekrasov, Pushkin, Tiutchev, Block, Mhlophe, Mayakovsky, Vysotsky ... Idylls babungekho. Uthembekile imibhangqwana monogamous - ngaphandle kunokuba umthetho. Ukuze lobo buhlobo imodeli lapho noma amadoda amabili phakathi owesifazane (Block, White futhi Lyubov Mendeleeva) noma umyeni has, ngaphezu umkakhe, futhi lover (noma athathe unkosikazi wesibili - ngokwesibonelo, njengoba Ivan Bunin), kukhona ngisho eside "umndeni Swedish". By endleleni, it akusho kuba ukuphinga ocansini. Triangle kungaba uxhumano nomsebenzisi ubudlelwano ezahlukene - kokubili kaPlato futhi ezivusa inkanuko, kuhlanganise bi- futhi zobungqingili (Henry Miller, Juni umkakhe nesithandwa sakhe). I umehluko obalulekile kusuka ukungathembeki ivuliwe. Le mibhangqwana ungathola ezihlukahlukene imizwa, isibonelo, omunye angahle azame alondoloze umshado, futhi ngenxa yokupha inkululeko ukuze umlingani (isibonelo: Mayakovsky unxantathu - ULily Osip Brik). Kodwa wonke amalungu umbimbi zithatha ke ngesikhathi esithile ubudlelwane.
izibonelo eziningi. Akufanele yini ngenze ukumlandela - wonke umuntu uyazinqumela. Kulezi zici kubantu senqabe "ubunikazi" phezu umlingani, ngakho ngomqondo it is Izinyunyana ephefumlelwe. Ukulahla umhawu onobugovu, bathola akuwona kuphela umuzwa omusha. Lezi onxantathu bayaguquka, futhi psyche ngayinye abahlanganyeli. Phela, uma kukhona umncintiswano, kumelwe zingalawulwa. Kungase ahlinzeke futhi exchange abalingani (okubizwa ngokuthi "jika"). Kodwa Kungatholakala imisho njengo "intombazane imibhangqwana." Futhi njalo umqalisi we "isithembu" uyindoda. Ngokuvamile, lokhu kukhetha ubudlelwano enhle ngithanda abesilisa nabesifazane namantombazane. Imibhangqwana ngokuvamile ngifuna hhayi kuphela ukwehluka, kodwa ilunga eliphelele inyunyana, okuyinto zinganikezwa futhi phakathi nezinsuku, kanye namaholide. Niyaphola amasayithi Avame ukutholakala izikhangiso ezifana "ngifuna umbhangqwana oshadile" - futhi uqaphele ukuthi akuyona kuphela mayelana nobuhlobo bobulili. Kunezindlela ezihlukahlukene ukuhlola lesi simanga, kungenzeka ukuba Uyamhlonipha yini noma ukuthunyelwa futhi ukungabi nasimilo Ukukhululwa. Kodwa imibhangqwana, unquma isilingo esinjalo yinhlonipho. By the way, emiphakathini empumalanga ibhaliswe ngokomthetho isithembu ngokuvamile - okusho ukuthi has unelungelo lokuphila. Ngokombono begazi buka, lobu buhlobo futhi babe balungisiswe. Zalisa nabesifazane eziningana, iduna kunomthelela ukwehluka zofuzo of uhlobo lwe. Izinkinga ezimbi kakhulu kungase kuphakame kusuka "ukuthweswa umqhele" ngababili, okuyinto Orthodox noma enkolweni yamaKatolika inqabela ubuhlobo obunjalo engahlosile. Futhi kusukela iphuzu Ngenxa kwezikhulu zikahulumeni izishayamthetho kuyinto nesimo esinzima. Ngakho-ke, imibhangqwana enjalo akakwazi bahlele ubuhlobo nomuntu wesithathu.