Phakathi imikhosi eminingi, amasiko kanye namasiko awo, akhishwe kuwo wonke umhlaba, indawo ekhethekile kuhlala ilungelo lokho okubizwa ngomlobokazi busuku bokuqala. Isiko iwukuba ukuphika ubuntombi likamakoti, owayesanda nje wadlala lomshado futhi kuyodingeka Ngobusuku bokuqala esihambele uthando. Umkhwenyana beyibonakala labasibekela bese kuba kumuntu wangaphandle ukuthi kwenzekani, futhi defloration likamakoti, noma, ngaphezulu nje, kakhulu ubuhlobo bobulili lokuqala ekuphileni kwakhe kwenza omunye umuntu.
Njengomthetho, kuba nkosi feudal, umninindlu izigodi kanye labantu, ophilayo umhlaba wakhe, noma umholi isizwe esinabantu abaningi, noma umnikazi wezwe, esesikhundleni serfs angamakhulu amaningana. Kunoma yikuphi, umkhwenyana umakoti kokuthola isikhathi eside intombi. Futhi emazweni athile ngokuqondile at the wedding umakoti kwadingeka ukuba enze ubuhlobo bobulili iphendula zonke izimenywa besilisa. Ngemva copulation umuntu touted wakhe isipho. Ngemva le ngxenye elisondelene the wedding emcimbini sobungane umkhwenyana nabangani bakhe ku uMlobokazi umugqa baba aqinile.
EYurophu lehla ngokushesha inani phakathi neNkathi Ephakathi kwesokudla ebusuku Yaqala livikeleke umthetho. Kukholakala ukuthi njengombusi wazo, noma ngisho yinkosi encane izinduna wanika lona wesifazane osemusha uhlobo isiqalo empilweni, mathupha ekwenqabeleni omsulwa. Ezimweni eziningi, umakoti siwusekela ngokugcwele ilungelo Ngobusuku bokuqala, kusukela kuleso sikhathi ezikude umuzwa zezinkolelo-ze nezicatshangelwayo ongokwenkolo abangu ngakho uqeda ukuthi bazoba ngabelusi lihlonishwe injabulo uma darling wabo wadabula embhedeni yomunye.
emakhulwini amaningi eminyaka kamuva isithombe ishintshile. Bayanda kwakunokwenzeka ukuyohlangabeza umyeni, ongazange afune ukwabelana umakoti zakho ozithandayo kanye nezikhulu abadala bewubale, enika ilungelo Ngobusuku bokuqala. Wakhetha ukusebenzisa ukuze asule, ukukhokhela ubuqotho umkakhe. Emazweni amaningi eYurophu nase-Asia alale umakoti esikhundleni nezinye izenzo isiko. Mister kwadingeka ukuba awelele embhedeni nge amanga umakoti noma yokwelula umlenze bakhe bawelela ngaphesheya kwesifufula embhedeni. Kuthathwa okulingana ocansini.
Futhi ngezinye izikhathi ebusuku kuqala abasha akanikezi ukubonakaliswa eziningi kangaka esinomsindo enzima ukuphila iqhaza enqubeni lomshado, ukuthi umakoti yajabulela give up esihlalweni sakhe ukuba umngane noma ngisho umuntu othile owayedlula. EMakedoniya, isibonelo, ukuthumela abashadayo egumbini lapho kwakufanele bahlale ubusuku yabo yokuqala nomkhwenyana akunika ilungelo lokuqala lomshado ebusuku, kubangani eziningi ephakanyiswe umsindo zicatshangwe, beat e-pan ne-beat ngezinduku ezindongeni. Wabe asibekela umnyango owawuholela kwelinye ikamelo washiya ukuze ubuyele emuva ngqo imizuzu emihlanu uvule umnyango ucele uma konke ivuliwe, lapho amashidi ne iminonjana igazi, futhi kungani eside kungekho izindaba ngakho.
Futhi lapho ishidi etholwe, futhi abesifazane asebekhulile wawubuyisela kusibuyekezo vseobscheee, injabulo emshadweni izivakashi kwakungesona isiphelo. Ngakho, ilungelo onegazi ebusuku wokuqala namanje wathatha umkhwenyana. Bedsheets hang out endaweni egqamile, bese waphula eziningi izimbiza, "njengoba shards, ngakho izingane eziningi kuyoba abasha." Futhi adingekayo, amagrafu, kulendawo, izicukuthwane namanye anjengawo, ukubamba iqhaza ngokulinganayo emcimbini wedding, nakuba ayisekho abadlali njengoba isiko, kanye esikhethekile, ukuthi ayiwathiyi ukuzijabulisa nabo.