Zonke izingxoxo yimpumelelo kukhona ukufana. Thola ukuthi yini

Chris Anderson, inhloko elikhulu kunawo Fonda Ted, obhekene inhlangano izingqungquthela, izimpilo zabo ngizwile eziningi izinkulumo. Futhi wakwazi ukubona ukuthi yenza ukubukeka zomphakathi oluvelele ngempela. Manje silungele ukwabelana amathiphu ezine ongazisebenzisa ukuthuthukisa isethulo sabo nasekubekeni izinkulumo zasobala. Anderson uthe umgomo wakho oyinhloko njengoba umuntu khuluma ke, kungaba ukuqala nokudalulwa imibono yakho ezingqondweni izilaleli zakho. Kodwa akugcini lapho. Kufanele lidluliselwe ngendlela ukuthi ushintshe indlela abantu walalela izinkulumo, aqonde emhlabeni, futhi kungase sinomthelela wesenzo okwengeziwe esikhathini esizayo. Ngokwemvelo, lokhu akulula, ngakho Anderson futhi wabelane yilezi amathiphu ezine. Babukeka lilula, kodwa ebasebenzisa umkhuba akusebenzi njalo phezu Zama kuqala. Ngakho-ke, isici esiyinhloko kulokhu lo mkhuba. Udinga njalo ukuqhuba ezwakalise inkulumo kancane abangane, usebenzisa zonke lezi izimfihlo. Okuwukuphela kwendlela ungakwazi impumelelo.

Khuluma umcondvo lobalulekile cishe ingxenye eyodwa kuphela

imibono Express akulula, kanye uwathatha. Ngakho-ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi bagxile indlela ukuchaza ngokucacile kakhulu umbono oyisisekelo kulezi ngosizo izibonelo, imininingwane acacile kanye nobujamo. Njengoba uqhubeka inkulumo yakho, qiniseka ukuthi konke okushoyo ngenxa kuye kwahlotshaniswa omunye umqondo eziyisisekelo noma kunjalo. Ukugcizelela kufanele njalo kube entweni eyodwa.

Bandakanya abantu

Kufanele ucele imibuzo enochuku ukuthi ngokhela isithakazelo abalaleli futhi isizathu sokuba nesithakazelo encwadini umbono wakho.

Khuluma ulimi izithameli zakho

Kufanele ugweme amagama anzima ezikhethekile kakhulu ukuthi ngeke yizilaleli zakho. Kunalokho, zisebenzisa izingathekiso izincazelo ukuthi izilaleli zakho kalula. Enye yezindlela eziphumelela kakhulu ukwenza izwi lakho litholakale kubantu abavamile - kungcono umkhuba phambi abangane bese ubacela ukuthi baveze imibono yabo bese wabelane inkulumo yabo udidekile.

Zibuze lo mbuzo: "? Obani okuyobazuzisa umqondo wokuthi"

Ingqikithi "imibono kuwufanele ukwabelana" ukusiza othile noma ugqozi kunoma ubani. Uma ubona ukuthi umbono wakho - kungcono nje ngendlela ukukhulisa ukuzethemba futhi hlekisa akhe khe ego, kungase ukuze izilaleli uyoqonda ke ngendlela efanayo, ngakho-ke ngeke aze ashiye uphawu yakho ku ezinhliziyweni zabantu. Kungokufanayo kufanele kwenziwe uma izingxoxo ezibalulekile aphethwe.