Womuntu ekuphileni kudingeka imfundiso yokuziphendukela Frome

Kule minyaka 100 eminyakeni emkhakheni wezokusebenza kwengqondo, inani elikhulu izikole kanye izitayela, izifundo kanye ezama ukuchaza izidingo ekuphileni ngamunye. Ithuluzi elibalulekile ukuze uthole ukuhlaziya izimo zenhlalo yomphakathi ngokwengqondo yokuziphatha kwabantu emphakathini, kuyinto ukuqhathanisa olunzulu ubudlelwane ipharamitha yesifundvo kute izwe kanye nabantu. Eric Fromm umangalele ukuthi ukuziphatha umuntu enempilo emphakathini ngenxa ukuqaphela ukuthi ngenxa izici zayo zemvelo, ufuna ukusungula yokukhulumisana emphakathini, ukunqoba ngokwakho, singagxila impilo yami, ukuze babonakale, ukwakha uhlelo ayo ekuphila nekutiphatsa.

1. ekuphileni kudingeka usungule izixhumanisi

Kukho konke ukuphila kwakhe, umuntu uyaqaphela noma ngokungazi uhlose hlanganani nabanye abantu. Ngokusho Eric Fromm, kukhona 3 kuphela izindlela ukuhlangabezana nalesi sidingo ukuphi. Ungahambisa nemithetho kanye nezidingo kunoma yiliphi iqembu noma umuntu uya komunye, kungenzeka ukuba linqobe othile, ungakwazi ukuthi umataniswe nabantu noma kumuntu ngamunye ngokusebenzisa uthando. Kulokhu, Frome ngokuya theory yayo neyobuntu wathonyelwa umcabango yezenhlalakahle yokuthi ngokungadingekile wahlangana ngokusebenzisa amandla noma ukuzithoba izidingo zabo ekuphileni. Kuyinto uthando kuphela indlela engcono ukugcina ubuqotho nemvelo, amandla angaphakathi kanye ukuzethemba.

kweqembu Social zabantu emandleni imodeli - kuhambisa kunephutha, ngoba asikwazi ukuhlangabezana ngokugcwele lesi sidingo. Ngenxa ohlangothini anolaka nesenzakalo budlelwane emkhatsini isigqila kanye obusa kancane balahlekelwa "Mina".

2. ekuphileni kudingeka banqobe yena

umqondo Complex isifiso ukudala.

indlela Sizuzise kuyinto ngenqubo zokudala futhi zako e yobuciko, isayensi, inkolo. Man ngokwemvelo uzama abonise ukuthi yena, njengoba hlobo lwezinkawu, yehlukile ezilwaneni. Ngakho-ke, abantu badala tikhungo tetenhlalo ezibonakalayo ezenziwa ngokungakhathali, izinkambiso zokuziphatha, ngezindlela ezingafani, Positioning uthando njengoba le yisandla yohlobo lwazo.

indlela engenangqondo izidingo yilona ukubonakaliswa ekuhlaselweni okunonya. Zokubulala, turning nezinye njengomhlatshelo, ubona ukubaluleka yayo obonisa amandla alawula, unganakile ukhulisa zombango.

3. womuntu ekuphileni idinga rootedness

Ukuzizwa omele egcwele olusebenza inhlobo yayo, umuntu kubalulekile ukuqonda izimpande zawo. isibopho Ngakho-ke, njengoba enamandla komama nengane. Wavuma ukubakhokhela Freud, Fromm wavuma khona in the psyche izifiso kwezihlobo zezingane, kodwa wagomela ngokuthi udaba lwabo akuyona ngokocansi futhi isifiso enganakile ukubuyela esibelethweni enombono imile izimpande, ikwazi ukuba nomuzwa ogcwele nokuvikeleka.

indlela Sizuzise singagxila kuyinto ukuhamba wemvelo ebeleni likanina, ngokubambisana neNhlangano asebenzayo nezwe ekuthuthukiseni okuzivumelanisa amakhono sifinyelele ubuqotho ngabanye ngokuya ngokoqobo waqonda.

indlela abakhiqizi kuyinto ukulungisa ingqondo yakhe ibanga elilinganiselwe unina, ngaphandle isifiso ukuzimela. Abantu ahamba kule singumuntu ongazethembi, egcwele ukwesaba kwangaphakathi, encike kakhulu.

4. izidingo existential self-ungubani

Imvelo esingokwemvelo yomuntu ukwakheka ezimele umqondo wabo siqu "Mina", umphumela okuyinto ukugcwaliseka yokuthi "nginomthwalo wemfanelo ngokwami." Kulula ukuhlonza nezikhungo ezahlukene: isimo, isizwe, inkolo, ubungcweti, iqembu kwezenhlalo, nendawo yokuhlala. Ku-imodeli lula ukuhlonza amanga usongo conformism global, isazela umhlambi, engaphansi okuqondene esixukwini, wasiyisa lapho ubuntu kuphela izwi, ulahlekelwa okushiwo umgomo lichaza ukuthini lucebe.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi kufihliwe esimweni lapho umuntu engalali ithuba uzwelane ngothile noma ngokuthile. Ungalahlekelwa engqondweni yakhe. Abantu abangenalukholo abanazo izinkinga ezingokwengqondo, bayakwazi iziveze esixukwini, kuyilapho behlangabezana nalezi zimpawu zokuhlola engokoqobo.

5. izidingo existential ohlelweni yamanani

Indoda elingenalo isiqondiso sokuziphatha, eshayela phakathi kwezinye ukuphila njenge wekati abayizimpumputhe. Inani uhlelo kudala, njengoba umgogodla ukuziphatha kwabo, imithetho esekelwe okuyinto siphile ukuphila ufeze noma destructively ngokuya Fromm. Umlando uyazi eziningi abantu abaye lwakhe babulawa ukuze kulondolozwe sabo salesosikhathi.