Ungashada kanjani i-oligarch?

Naphezu kokuthi abantu abacebile manje sebeya ngokuya, kunzima kakhulu ukuthola umuntu okhululekile futhi olungeleyo phakathi kwabo. Yingakho ukubiza komphefumulo "Ngifuna ukushada! Kulabo abacebile! "Futhi ahlala engakafiki.

Kodwa ingabe kukhona indlela yokwenza iphupho lakho ligcwaliseke? Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukucabangela izici ezimbili ezibaluleke kakhulu. Okwokuqala ukuthi indoda - i-tycoon yamafutha - ingaba yinto ehluke ngokuphelele nobuntu owakwazi ukukudonsa emcabangweni wakho nazo zonke izinhlobo ze-antics zakhe nama-whims (lapho umuntu ojwayelekile angakwazi ukuhlela khona "ukuhlanza ubuchopho" obuphindwe izikhathi eziningana) kuzomele akhuthazele.

I-nuance yesibili yukuthi ukusesha kanye "nokukhamba" okwalandela kobuchopho buka-oligarch kuyinkimbinkimbi kunzima futhi ende. Kuphela ezimweni ezihlukile abantu abanolwazi abanolwazi abaphethe ukufuna "ukuphanga" okufunayo. Futhi ngokujwayelekile, kufanele usebenzise umzamo omkhulu futhi, uma ulindele isikhulu sakho sihlezi embhedeni, awukwazi ukulinda umuntu ompofu ompofu.

Ngakho isiqubulo salabo abangakwazi ukushada umuntu ocebile kumele sibe isenzo, umsebenzi onzima kanye nomzamo omkhulu. Futhi ukunqoba kufanele kwenzeke kuphela ngokuvumelana ne-algorithm ehlelwe ngokucacile. Okokuqala, udinga ukunquma ukuthi ungabhekana nobani oligarch ongathanda. Ngokwemvelo, kulokhu i-miniskirt kanye nezinyawo ezinde ezitaladini ngeke zisize, ngethemba lokuthi lo muntu uzoshaywa ubuhle bakho futhi awele ngezinyawo zakho ngezigidi ezinemibala ebomvu kanye nendandatho enedayimani elikhulu. Eqinisweni, lokhu kuguquka kwezehlakalo kuvela endaweni yefantasy. Ama-oligarchs awabukeli omkawo, ehamba emigwaqweni.

Abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi akudingekile ukucabangela ngokucophelela uhlelo lokushada ngokushesha umuntu ocebile, futhi ngokushesha abalekele kuma-nightclub kanye nezindawo zokudlela ezifashisayo. Yiqiniso, amadoda acebile asezindaweni ezinjalo, kodwa ekuqaleni azikho kakhulu futhi azifuni uthando lokuphila. Ziswane ngokwanele futhi zithandana nesikhathi esisodwa. Kuwesifazane owaziwayo ezindaweni ezinjalo, kaningi ababona umfazi omuhle wendlu, noma, ikakhulukazi, umfazi ozayo, amphathe nje njengento enhle yokuzijabulisa. Kukhona okungafani kulo mthetho, kodwa akuvamile ukuthi kwenzeke.

Enye iphutha elikhulu labo abangakwazi ukushada nendoda ecebile ukufuna isihloko sakhe sokububula kwinethiwekhi yomhlaba wonke. Izingosi zokudana zigcwele izinhlobo eziningi, kodwa, ngeshwa, amadoda acebile futhi ngaphandle kwe-Inthanethi azi ukuthi ukuphela kwabashadile abangaba khona. Okuwukuphela kwendlela ongayithola lapho kukhona umfelokazi ocebile osemdala, ngemuva kwakhe isithungu sezizindlalifa. Noma umuntu onokukhubazeka kokuziphatha noma ngokomzimba. Futhi oshadile, akuyona indlela yokuqala noma yesibini, okwamanje, ayikwazi ukwanelisa.

Ngakho kufanele ngenzeni? Indlela yokushada umsizi? Ungabatholaphi? Njengendlela yokuxazulula le nkinga, ungazama ukuvakashela imininingwana eyaziwayo ehlukahlukene, izenzakalo zosizo, amaqembu aphezulu emiphakathi, amaqembu avaliwe noma imiphakathi yabaqoqi abahlukahlukene. Abantu abacebile bavame ukuhlala ezindaweni zokubhuka eziphakeme, ukuya emhlanganweni noma ezinkomfa. I-hitch kuphela ukuthi kulezi zindawo intombazane evamile evela endaweni eyikude kunzima kakhulu ukungena. Ngaphandle kokuba inceku, kodwa akukho oligarch izoyithatha ngokungathí sina.

Ungazama futhi ukubhalisa ku-club elite yezemidlalo. Ngokwemvelo, lokhu kuyabiza kakhulu, kodwa ngale ndlela owesifazane unomunye ikhadi lesigodlo emzimbeni wakhe - umzimba wakhe, ngoba akekho umuntu ongamelana nomuntu omuhle futhi ubuhle bangaphandle.

Kulabo abangakwazi ukushada nendoda ecebile futhi abangenayo indlela yokuvakashela izindawo zokuphumula eziphakeme, ungazama futhi ukhethe ukhetho oluningi. Okokuqala, ungathola umsebenzi enkampanini enesakhiwo esingaba khona. Ngokushesha uzohlangana naye, futhi uma ubheka kahle - nge-hairdo enhle, ehlanjululwe futhi ephumelelayo, yiyo yonke amathuba okuyokhunjulwa futhi okunye okuzovela kulokhu kuzovela.

Ukulahlekelwa okungaphansi kokukhetha ukuzama ukungena endlini njengokulondoloza indlu. Yiqiniso, uma nje umuntu engathathi izindlu ezinjalo, kodwa ungamlindela endlini ngephutha futhi uxoxe ngokuthi ulahlekile noma udidekile ikheli. Zama ukuqhubeka ngokuqhubekayo ingxoxo, ngokwesibonelo, ngobuqotho futhi ngevevely uchaza ukuthi uwedwa ngokuphelele edolobheni futhi awunayo umuntu ukuphendukela usizo. Ngokuvamile lezo zindlela zikhishwe ngempumelelo.