Mayelana nalokho abanikeza emshadweni wesiliva

Umshado wesiliva uba uhlobo lomngcele, uqale i-countdown entsha emphilweni ehlangene. Naphezu kweminyaka engamashumi amabili nesishiyagalombili ndawonye, abashade emphefumulweni bazizwa bebancane, bathandana nabantu bomunye nomunye. Yini indoda nomfazi abazinikezana ngomshado wesiliva ? Yebo, indandatho. Futhi ukushintshaniswa kwendabuko yamasongo, manje isiliva, kubonakala sengathi kufanekisela ukuvuselelwa kwemizwa yabo. Isiliva iyinsimbi enhle, futhi abantu ababili abaye baba ngabomdabu futhi bavivinywa kahle uthando lwabo ngekhulu lesine leminyaka bahlala ndawonye, bafanelwe ukugqoka ngomunwe ongashiwo ngamagama. Kuyinto yesiliva egcizelela ukuhlanzeka kobuhlobo nobuhle bemicabango.

Sekuyiminyaka ende eyaphila, lo mbhangqwana wakwazi ukugcina abangane bobusha nokuthola eziningi ezintsha, ezihlangene, ezitholakala emcimbini wokugubha ubuzwa umbuzo wangempela, yini enikezwa ngomshado wesiliva? Yini ebhekwa njengesihle kunazo zonke kule nkinga? Abangane nezihlobo babe nesikhathi sokutadisha okuthandwayo kwabashadile bejubili futhi balungele ukwenza konke okusemandleni ukuze bajabulise. Inzuzo engekho emthethweni inikezwa, yebo, emikhiqizo yesiliva. Unganika isipho esihlangene: izinkezo zesiliva, isevisi, izithombe, ozimele ahlukahlukene, njll. Kungcono uma zizinto ezikhethekile. Phela, abenzi bomkhosi bafanelwe isipho esinjalo.
Izingane nazo zibuzwa ukuthi zinikeza umdlandla wokuthi zinikeza emshadweni wesiliva? Unganika amabhlocwe esiliva, isibonelo, indandatho, amacici noma uchungechunge lomama wakho, amakhophilinkini noma ugwayi ubaba wakho. Bonisa umcabango, ucabangele ukuthanda nokuthandwa kwabazali, futhi ngenxa yalokho, wena ngokwakho uyamthanda isipho esikhethiwe, okuyoba kuhle ukupha, futhi okuzojabulisa kakhulu amaqhawe. Futhi ungenza okungenjalo ... Yenza okuthile okungavamile, hhayi ukushaywa! Leli yijubili labazali, sibajabulise. Akudingekile ukunikeza izipho ezibizayo, kumnandi ngokwengeziwe kuzoletha izinto ezenziwe ngokwabo. Futhi kuyoba yini - unquma. Isibonelo, ungakwazi ukuhlobisa ikhaya ngemvula yesiliva, i-mother-of-pearl balls, bese uthumela amaphosta okubingelelana. Futhi iphephandaba elidongeni elenziwe yedwa lizoholela abazali ukuba bajabule ngendlela engacacile. Ukuhlakanipha ngomshado wesiliva kuhlanganiswe nama-collages ahlukahlukene, okuhlotshiswe ngamathoni we-silvery, kuzokwenza lolu suku abazali bakho bangalibaleki ngempela. Ngokukhethekile bayojabula ukuthi konke lokhu kwenziwa ngezandla zabantwana babo abathandekayo, hhayi nje ukuthenga imali. Futhi akukhathaleki ukuthi yiziphi ezinye izimenywa ezinikezela emshadweni wesiliva, isipho sakho sizoba yisandla sobuciko esingenakuqhathaniswa futhi sizohlala iminyaka eminingi.
Kukhona ukujwayele okuthile ekunyusweni kwentengo yezipho eminyakeni. Isibonelo, uma ukhumbuza lokho okunikezwayo ngomkhosi wokugubha umshado, okuthiwa i-calico, bese ubona ama-analogi athile. Abashadile bazinikana ngalolu suku ngamashekhi - nokuthi isiphi isipho esilula futhi eshibhile, ngakho imizwa ayihlolwanga yisikhathi. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, izipho ziba ngaphezulu kakhulu futhi zizinzima, futhi izinsuku ezinjalo zokugubha usuku lokugubha iminyaka engu-25 kanye nokugubha iminyaka engu-50 kuthiwa yizinsimbi eziyigugu - imishado yesiliva negolide, ekhombisa amandla emizwa ngezipho kanye namasiko.
Akubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi "abasanda kushada" bayothola ngejubili yabo yesiliva, ngoba into eyinhloko ukugcina ububele bemicabango ezinhliziyweni zabo eminyakeni ezayo ukuze baphile ngokuthula nokuvumelana nomndeni wabo. Futhi uthando, njengesigqoko sezinhlamvu, olufakwe kuhlaka lwesiliva, ngeke lujabulise kuphela abashadile, kodwa bonke abantu ababazungezile. Umphefumulo ukhululeka emizimbeni ephazamiseke lapho umbhangqwana oqinile - u-chevalier onamahloni ehlangana, njengokungaqapheli imibimbi ekhohlisayo ebusweni bomuntu othandekayo wakhe, umbuka ngokumangalisayo, futhi uzizwa njengendlovukazi engaphenduki, emphendula ngesisa. Ngoba nje bayajabula. Futhi kungaba njalo eminyakeni engu-25 elandelayo, futhi kuqhubeke!