Umshado we-Osetian

Imishado ihlala isikhathi esizwakalayo futhi engakhohlwayo empilweni yabantu ababili abasha. Isakramente yomkhosi womshado uye wakha inani elikhulu lamasiko nemikhuba enemibono eminingi njengabantu bezinkolo ezahlukene kanye nezizwe. Ngakho-ke, isibonelo, umakoti waseNigeria ngaphambi kokuba umshado uthande kakhulu, ngoba umakoti omncane uyamukelwa ukuba abuyele kubazali. Umlobokazi waseNgilandi kumele agqoke okwesibhakabhaka izingubo zakhe, umkhwenyana waseJalimane ufaka ukolweni emaphaketheni akhe, futhi eRussia umkhwenyana akavunyelwe ukubheka izingubo zomshado ngaphambi komshado.

Amasiko omshado weza kithi kusukela esikhathini esedlule futhi abaningi babonakala beyizinqubo ezijwayelekile ngaphandle komthwalo we-semantic. Noma kunjalo, imikhosi ngayinye injalo ibaluleke kakhulu, nakuba ihluka ngesikhathi. Kuyaqondakala, ngoba ukuphila akumi. Umshado wase-Ossetian unemikhuba yawo namasiko, kodwa nawo ayenze izinguquko eziningi futhi namuhla akufani nalokho ngaphambili.

Sekungamakhulu eminyaka, kwakhiwe amasiko omshado e-Ossetia. Okwamanje, umshado ungaphetha ngisho nokuvumelana kwemibono yabantu ababili abasha, kodwa maduzane ukuthola intombazane kumkakhe kungaba kuphela emva kokukhokha umakoti, noma umkhobi wase-Ossetian. Ngokufanayo, kwakungavunyelwe ukushada noma ukushada nomuntu onobunye nobuzwe obuhlukile.

Okwamanje, imindeni eminingi yase-Ossetian iqotho kakhulu kulokhu. Futhi, ukubusa kokudala sekukhohliwe esikhathini esidlule, ngenxa yokuthi izingane ezincane azikwazanga ukuhamba ngaphansi komqhele ngaphambi koodadewabo nodadewabo abadala. Konke lokhu kushintshile phakathi neminyaka futhi kufakwe efomini.

Kodwa akuwona wonke amasiko ayenze ushintsho, kunezinye izinto abantu base-Ossetian abaye bawahlonipha iminyaka eminingi. Imikhuba yaminyaka eminyaka engapheli ingabonwa ezinyathelweni zomshado. Njengomkhuba, umshado wase-Ossetian uqala nge-matchmaking. Izihlobo ezihlonishwa kakhulu zomkhwenyana ziya endlini yomakoti ukuze zenze isipho esisemthethweni. Ngisho noma abazali bomlobokazi bevuma ukuthi indodakazi yabo ibizwa igama lomkhwenyana, ayamukelekile emhlanganweni wokuqala, lokhu akushiwo ngokuvulekile, kodwa nje kunikezwa ukuqonda. Lokhu kwenziwa ngoba bathumela abakwa-matchmakers endlini kayintombi kathathu.

Emva kokuvakasha okwesithathu, ngempendulo enhle, usuku lomshado lunikeziwe , imininingwane yomshado iyaxoxwa, izivakashi ezimenywe emshadweni, futhi umuntu oletha inkunzi yomhlatshelo ukhethwe. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, kufanele kube netafula elinama-pie amathathu emhlanganweni onjalo. Omunye umkhuba ukukhokhela umakoti ngezihlobo zomyeni, okuthiwa ukuqiniswa kwesivumelwano mayelana nokugubha esikhathini esizayo.

Esikhathini esidlule, isikhathi phakathi kwe-matchmaking nomshado sahlala isikhathi eside kakhulu. Lokhu kwakungenxa yokuthi umakoti wayeqoqa idowla, futhi umkhwenyana wayehamba emsebenzini ukuze anikeze umakoti. Kungenxa yakhe ukuthi umkhuba wokuba umakoti wabonakala ukuze ungalindi isikhathi eside.

Ngaphambi nje komshado, umkhwenyana nabangane bakhe abangcono kakhulu bavakashele indlu yomakoti, bamlethe izingubo, nezihlobo ngamaswidi. Kodwa isizathu esiyinhloko sokuvakashelwa yindandatho yomshado, leyo mfana enikeza intombazane yakhe ethandekayo. Ukuvakashelwa okunjalo ngokuvamile kuyimfihlo.

Umshado wase-Ossetian uhlukile eqinisweni lokuthi kwenzeka ngesikhathi esisodwa ezindlini ezimbili.

Ngesikhathi sokuvakashela umkhwenyana nomshado wakhe, okubandakanya indoda enhle kakhulu, umngane nomama ogama lakhe lingumyeni, indlu yomakoti intombazane emndenini kanye nezihlobo zendoda yakhe yesikhathi esizayo inikezwa ngezipho, igolide kanye nokuhlobisa. Emva kwalokhu, ngemvume yamalungu omndeni omdala, ugqoke ngengubo yomshado, kanti umzalwane unikezwa indima yalowo muntu owehlisa isembozo. Intombazane ithathwa yizingalo futhi iholele ekugodweni komshado. Ngemuva kokuba labo abasanda kushada baphume emotweni, umakoti uveza amaswidi, amapayipi noma imali evimba abafana.

Umdwebo eHhovisi Lase Registry uphenduka ngokuhlelekile ube yiqembu endlini yomyeni. Esikhathini esedlule, izivakashi cishe azizange zihlale etafuleni futhi uma zisebenzisa utshwala, ngakho-ke ezincane kakhulu, labo abasanda kushada abazange bathinte utshwala nhlobo. Imidanso yase-Ossetian emishadweni yayiwumhlobiso oyinhloko. Imidanso enjengokuthi "uSimd" ne "Chepena" yaziwa wonke umuntu ohlonipha isi-Ossetian.

Namuhla, umshado wase-Ossetian awufani neze. Lo mkhosi waqala ukuhlanganiswa netafula nokuphuza, isizukulwane esincane sihlela ngisho imincintiswano eyingqayizivele, ngubani ozophuza ukuthi ngubani. Ekugcineni, wonke umuntu udakwa ngokungalungile.

Usengakwazi ukuchaza amasiko ase-Ossetian isikhathi eside, kodwa into esemqoka kuzo zonke lezi zifundo ukuthi zidluliselwa ezizukulwaneni ngezizukulwane. Futhi umshado wase-Ossetian ukufakazela lokho.