Ungabamba kanjani umshado futhi ungahambi uphule?

Ukulungiswa nokuziphatha kwemikhosi yomshado ibhizinisi elimnandi kakhulu, kodwa linkinga futhi lidinga ukufakwa kwezimali ezinkulu. Kodwa kuthiwani uma isabelomali esikhishwe iholide akuyona enkulu? Yenqaba umshado? Akunakwenzeka! Kungenzeka ukuthi ubambe umshado ojabulisayo ngemali encane kakhulu.

Ngakho-ke, uma ucabanga ukuthi ungabamba kanjani umshado futhi ungaphuki, kufanele uthole amaphuzu ongayilondoloza.

Umzuzwana wokuqala yinani lezivakashi. Ngokuvamile, izivakashi eziningi zimenywa emikhosini yomshado, zikhona izihlobo kuze kube sesizwe sesi-7, abangane kanye nozakwabo. Kodwa uma isabelomali somkhosi siwumuthi, kuzodingeka ufike ohlwini lwabavakashi ngokubaluleke kakhulu. Kumele ucatshangelwe kahle ukuthi ngubani ozojabula kakhulu ukubona kulolu suku eduze kwakho futhi ungakhathazeki ukuthi umzala noma umzala wakhe angakhubekiswa uma bengamenyiwe. Ekugcineni, umshado uyisiholide kwabashadile abasha futhi banquma kuphela ukuthi bangaqhuba kanjani umshado nokuthi ngubani ongamema edilini.

Umzuzwana olandelayo ungagcina ukhetha ihholo ledili. Phela, izindleko zedili zixhomeke emazingeni esikhungo esikhethiwe. Ngendlela, emahishini amaningi kunomkhawulo wokungenani umyalelo wesigidi esisodwa, kuyilapho uma kunqunywe okungenani, kuyokwenzeka ukuletha ukudla okulula kanye neziphuzo ezithengiwe ngaphandle kokubeka uphawu lokudlela.

Okulandelayo, kufanele ucabange ngohlelo lokuzijabulisa. Ngokuvamile, umshado womshado umenywa kumphathi wezinsizakalo, kodwa uma udinga ukusindisa, kuzodingeka ukwenze ngaphandle kwalo. Kodwa ukuthi ungabamba kanjani umshado ngaphandle kwe-toastmaster, mhlawumbe uzomangala? Kunezinketho ezimbili. Owokuqala ukunikezela lo msebenzi kumuntu ovela kubangani abajabule nabenhlangano. Ukuze konke kuhambisane kahle, kuyodingeka ukuthi ulungise iskripthi, esizohlinzeka ngemisebenzi yokuzijabulisa - amadansa, imidlalo, imincintiswano. Okwesibili - ukuziphatha kweholide kungathatha abashade nabo ngokwabo noma abazali babo, isibonelo, umamazala omusha nomamazala. Nokho, zombili lezi zikhetho zingase zifanele. Uma zingekho izivakashi ezanele ephathi futhi sezijwayele ukuxhumana. Ukuze imishado nenani elikhulu lezivakashi ngaphandle komphathi wezinsizakalo zomsebenzi ongenakukwazi ukwenza.

Enye indlela enhle yokulondoloza imali ukuhlobisa ihholo nezimoto ngokwakho, ngoba lokhu kusemqoka ukubandakanya abangane nezihlobo ezincane.

Futhi kuthiwani uma kungekho imali eyanele yomshado, futhi akudingeki ucabange ngokuhleleka ihholo ledili? Kulokhu, kufanele ucabange ukuthi ungabamba kanjani umshado ngaphandle kwedili? Esimweni esinjalo, ungenza nge-buffet elula emvelo, ukunikeza izivakashi izivakashi ze-champagne, izithelo, i-candy kanye nama- sandwich amancane noma ama-patties. Ngokuvamile, umshado onjalo ukhethwa kulabo abasanda kushada, okwathi ngemva kokubhalisa kuhamba isikhathi sokuzalwa.

Uma kwenzeka ukuthi kungekho isifiso noma ithuba lokumema izivakashi eholidini, kufanelekile ukucabangela ukuthi ungayisebenzisa kanjani umshado ndawonye. Ngendlela, iholide elinjalo lingasithakazelisa kakhulu futhi alikhunjulwe. Okokuqala, awudingi ukuchitha amandla amaningi ukuhlela umkhosi wendabuko wendabuko; okwesibili, akudingeki ucabange ukuthi ungabamba kanjani umshado ukuze ujabulise zonke izivakashi. Lapho ukhetha ukhetho lomshado, laba ababili kuzodingeka benze into eyodwa kuphela - okufunayo. Ufuna ukungena nge-parachute? Noma ugibele ibhaluni ye-gondola? Noma ubalekela emvelweni? Yenza lokho umphefumulo wakho ufisa, ungakhohlwa ukuthatha izithombe noma ukudubula izikhathi ezingakhohlwayo ekhamera.

Ngendlela, uma sikhuluma ngezithombe, yilokhu okushiwo umshado, okungafanele kusindiswe, ngoba izithombe namavidiyo azohlala emndenini osanda kuwenzelwa ngenkumbulo, ngakho-ke kumele kwenziwe ngendlela ephezulu.