Umshado eNkosini, noma Kungani udinga lomshado esontweni

Omunye izimiso ezingcwele abadumile - lokhu lomshado njengoba indoda nomfazi, futhi umakoti nomkhwenyana esontweni. Kusukela ezinsukwini Russia lasendulo zonke umbhangqwana osemusha kufanele aqiniseke ukuhlanganisa ifindo esontweni. Young okuphiniwe wemfanelo phambi kukaNkulunkulu kanye neBandla, futhi wathembisa ukugcina godsend ukuphila sobunye. Namuhla, kuyinto inqubo ozikhethela. Abantu abasha abakwaziyo okudingayo ukuze umshado esontweni, ukhululekile ukuba azinqumele isidingo lelisakramente.

Okokuqala, umuntu kufanele sithembeke umlingani wakho kanye nawe. Kunoma ikuphi akunakuba ukushada ngenxa nje yokuthi ingxenye isiko nomndeni, kodwa futhi ngenxa fashion yamanje salokhu inqubo!

Kungani udinga emshadweni osesontweni?

Kuyadingeka ukuba isibusiso sikaNkulunkulu somshado. Lo mbhangqwana enikelwe imfihlakalo lomshado, ukwamukela ngomusa kaNkulunkulu, ebasiza ukuba ekwakheni isibopho somshado eyodwa umcabango nothando. Kodwa mhlawumbe umgomo obaluleke kakhulu, okuyinto udinga lomshado esontweni kuyinto Fusion ezingokomoya komphefumulo nomzimba wezinhliziyo ababili abanothando futhi, yebo, ukuxhumelela esizayo noma izingane yokuziphatha kobuKristu ekhona. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umshado kuhilela ithemba labantu ababili abathandanayo futhi, yebo, eNkosini.

Abantu abaningi akuzona Kucacile ukuba siqonde ukuthi kungani udinga lomshado esontweni, abantu ngephutha sikholelwe ukuthi lokhu kuyinto isiqinisekiso ezibalulekile zomkhaya inhlalakahle nenjabulo, kanye nenkululeko ephelele ebunzimeni zokuphila. Akukhona ngakho! Wedding ayikhiphi izinzuzo umndeni ezivuna. Kukholakala ukuthi sizoshada ku umphefumulo wabo kumelwe uye ngokusebenzisa kwakho konke ukulingwa, olungiselwe kuye ukudalelwa, futhi uxazulule zonke izinkinga phikisa. Khumbula, umshado - kungcono isitifiketi sakho umuzwa okufanele abadala! Abantu abakhetha ngalesisimanga kufanele bazazi zonke umthwalo isikebhe sakhe sothando.

Yini okufanele ngiyazi?

1. ukuthweswa umqhele kumele uqaphele kahle ukuthi umshado zenkolo okufanele kanye futhi for a lifetime.

2. Kukholakala ukuthi impilo entsha ukuthi kuza emva komshado kuhilela ukuhlanzwa okuphelele izono, kanye nokuvuselela kwangaphakathi komphefumulo womuntu, + ngakho imfihlakalo yemihlatshelo nokuvuma isono, zombili ngesikhathi senkonzo.

3. Intsha abantu okusheshayo izinsuku ezintathu ngaphambi isakramente. Ithanda ngesikhathi Ebolekwe ukungayi ocansini (kanye indlwabu), cabanga okungokomoya kuphela.

4. Umakoti kufanele sithenge ingubo esikhethekile Ukuya emshadweni (yokuthunga ekhethekile, musa wazala emuva, emahlombe futhi izingalo kuya izindololwane). Ngaphezu kwalokho, akufanele kube abomvu egqamile futhi kumnyama. Umakoti awukwazi ukufihla ubuso bakhe, ngoba obala kuNkulunkulu futhi othandekayo wakhe. Ukuhlomisa umakoti - kuyafana emshadweni.

5. Kukhona ikhalenda imishado ekhethekile. It ibalwa izinsuku, ngokuvumelana nezimiso isonto, izimiso ezenziwayo, imishado aphethwe. Lezi futhi izinsuku noma kunjalo ayikwazi ukwenza lokho.

6. Isikhathi esetshenzisiwe kule nqubo, ngokuvamile akukho imizuzu engaphezu kwamashumi amane. Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ubani uya ukumenywa isakramente abangane nezihlobo.