Wedding - kungcono ngoba ugcina isiko elithile? Iyini imfihlo yomshado na? ' Imithetho Wedding eSontweni Lobu-Orthodox

Ngesikhathi emcimbini wedding imisuka ngempela zasendulo, kuhlehlela emuva IX-X eminyaka, futhi hhayi kuphela wokuqukethwe enhle, kodwa futhi athwala anencazelo ejulile. Wedding - kuyinto isiko ngokujoyina indoda kanye nowesifazane phambi kukaNkulunkulu ngoba uthando kwaphakade nokwethembeka, okwenza umshado isakramente, ebhekisela nenhlalakahle engokomoya.

Ingqikithi yalo lomshado

Kuleli zwe lanamuhla, ngeshwa, abantu abaningi ngokungalungile ahumushe okushiwo isakramente, futhi basonta kuleli emikhosini isonto njengoba umcimbi imfashini kanye amahle ezingaba kukhanye up ngosuku lomshado ngokwesiko. Ngaphandle ngisho nokucabanga ngalokho umshado - lokhu akukona okokugcina icala nje. Ukuthatha lesi sinyathelo kumele kube kuphela labo abakholwa nephakade komshado emhlabathini esibhakabhakeni. Futhi ukwenza isinqumo esinjalo kungaba kokuba kungokuvumelana, njengoba isinyathelo bayazi futhi kahle kubhekwe. Akufanele sibakhohlwe ukuthi umkhuba ihlobene omunye amasakramente ayisikhombisa, okwaphumela emseni uMoya oNgcwele zidlulele kubantu, futhi kwenzekani bengabonakali.

imithetho lomshado

Nokho, uma ubuhlobo e yebhangqa, nemizwa ejulile eside ziphumelela nokulangazelela ukwenza emcimbini kuhlaziywe kahle, khona-ke kufanele bajwayelane izimo okuyizinto esisemqoka umshado eSontweni Lobu-Orthodox. Regulations ziyabophelela:

1. Isisekelo umshado isitifiketi somshado.
2. Iqhaza main elithile lomkhaya anikwa umyeni wakhe, ngubani makamthande kanjalo umkakhe ngokungenabugovu. Inkosikazi kufanele ngoba elalela umyeni wakhe ngokwethembeka okuhle.

Kungumsebenzi bendoda ukugcina ngokuqondene umndeni isonto. Ukuphela avunyelwe kuphela uma eziphuthumayo, isibonelo, ushintsho womshado noma esimweni lokugula ngengqondo. By the way, lona wamuva nakho kungaba imbangela yokwehluleka in the wedding.

Endulo kwakukhona ngokwezifiso, lapho umfundisi osemusha bafaka sicelosikhalo mayelana lomshado, wamemezela ukuba umkhandlu kazwelonke, futhi kuphela ngemva kokunyamalala isikhathi, uma abekho abantu abangakwazi wazise mayelana nakwenzeka umshado, emkhosini owawuse.

Inani lemishado sokuphila komuntu ayikwazi ukudlula kathathu.

Ngu emkhubeni uvunyelwe kuphela umbhaphathizo abancane babo, ngalinye kumele libe esiphambanweni pectoral.

Uma omunye umbhangqwana oshadile akazi nje ukuba abhapathizwe noma cha, kubalulekile ukuxoxa ngale ndaba lo mpristi. Njengomthetho, asabele kahle kungenzeka nge kwemvume abasha ukuba babelethe futhi bakhulisa izingane, ebe elandela isiko Orthodox.

Imikhawulo yobudala: indoda kufanele okungenani ube neminyaka engu-18 ubudala, nowesifazane akuyona esingaphansi 16.

Wedding - iyona bomdabu emkhubeni yobuKristu, ngakho-ke akuvumelekile ukuba abantu abathi inkolo ehlukile (zamaMuslim, zamaJuda, amaBuddha, njll ...), Kanye abangakholelwa ukuthi uNkulunkulu ukhona.

Ukuvinjelwa onikezwe lomshado uma kwenzeka ukuthi umakoti nomkhwenyana ukuze izibopho zomkhaya, ngisho kwesizukulwane sesine. Futhi engadingeki imishado phakathi godparents futhi godchildren.

Uma othile kusukela kwabasanda kushada kuso-umshado, umshado akuvumelekile.

Kodwa ezimweni ezinjalo, njengoba ukukhulelwa yenkosikazi, noma uma kungekho isibusiso sabazali abashadayo akuzona isizathu sokwala emshadweni.

Lapho kungenzeka azokuqhubela lomshado?

Ngokusho ikhalenda Orthodox, umshado kungaba kwenziwe unyaka wonke, ngaphandle izinsuku Omkhulu yokuHlawula - Christmas (kusuka 28 Novemba kuya ku-6 Januwari), Omkhulu (amasonto ayisikhombisa ngaphambi kwe-Easter), Petrova okuthunyelwe (kusukela ngoMsombuluko wesibili ngemva kwePhentekoste lika kuze 12 July), Assumption ( kusukela ngo-August 14 kuya ku-27), Shrovetide, ngosuku olwandulela ngamaholide omkhulu esontweni. yemikhosi yomshado aphethwe ngoMsombuluko, ngoLwesithathu, ngoLwesihlanu nangeSonto. Kodwa, ngokwenkolelo edumile, ngoLwesithathu nangoLwesihlanu ayifanele isakramente. Futhi kangcono ukugwema umshado 13.

Kodwa umshado esijabulisa kunazo ziyinkathi ngemva kokuwa Wekuvikela Ubhapathizo ukuba Shrovetide ebusika, phakathi Petrov futhi le Dormition Fast ehlobo, Krasnaya Gorka entwasahlobo.

Imibhangqwana eminingi abafuna ukushada ngosuku olusemthethweni sokubhalisa umshado, kodwa awukwazi ukuyibiza kwesokudla. Abapristi bavame ukubakhalima laba abasha abavela izenzo ezinjalo ngokuxhamazela. Okuhle kunakho konke ukuthi, lapho umbhangqwana uthembisene ukushada ngosuku esenzeka ngalo emshadweni wabo noma ngemva kokuzalwa izingane. I kamuva kwenzeka, kulapho uzoqaphela lesi senzo. Unyaka lomshado kuyoba umcimbi ongasoze walibaleka, okuzokwenza ukufakaza ubuqotho umuzwa nokuqiniseka izibopho zomkhaya.

Amalungiselelo umshado

Okubaluleke kakhulu yinqubo ukulungiselela lo mkhosi ngokuthi umshado eSontweni Lobu-Orthodox. Imithetho bukhona.

Into yokuqala kakhulu okudingeka uzenze - ukunquma ngokuphelele nesonto futhi isonto nompristi ngubani bazocula emcimbini. Lena ngempela umsebenzi wemfanelo, ngoba ukukhetha ukwenza umphefumulo. Eliselincane lesonto kufanele kube ukhululekile futhi ujabule, ngakho nje lonke inqubo uzoba ongowenani elikhulu ngempela. Ingabe kube isonto elincane noma lombhishobhi ngokubabazekayo, kuncike ngokuyinhloko izifiso abasebasha, wonke umkhathi nendawo ngcwele kumele ngokuvumelanayo ukulingana hhayi kuphela okushiwo okungokomoya kulo mkhosi, kodwa futhi ukuhlangabezana isimo sengqondo umbhangqwana osemusha onezingane wanquma ukuxhumanisa isiphetho sabo kuze kube phakade.

Nge uyise, futhi, kubalulekile ukukhuluma, ukukhuluma ngezinkinga yenhlangano hhayi kuphela, kodwa futhi ukubheka nomunye, singathola esivumelana ngakho - futhi kubaluleke kakhulu isiko. Too abapristi abaningi ukukhokhela ukunakekelwa okukhethekile ukuze ingxoxo kanye kuyilabo ababesanda kushada, kuyenzeka ukuthi wazi uyephuza noma ukuhlehlisa inqubo ke iseluleko umpristi kufanele ilalelwe.

Noma kunjalo, lokho kubalulekile, hhayi bonke abapristi Unelungelo ukuqhuba umshado, isibonelo, kwenqatshelwe ukwenza ukuphuca ukhakhayi futhi kuncike enqabelo lwezincwadi zeBhayibheli. Kwesinye isikhathi isiko ngesicelo umbhangqwana osemusha angachitha umpristi kwelinye isonto noma isonto elithile, isibonelo, uma kuba uyise ongokomoya.

izici yenhlangano ka isiko

Umpristi kuyadingeka ukuze bevumelana ngosuku nesikhathi okuyinto yabela lomshado Orthodox. Imithetho afune ukuphila isonto kuso. Ngezinye izikhathi ebandleni ngesikhathi esifanayo ungathola atjhadileko embalwa, lokhu ehilelekile futhi kuyadingeka ukuxoxa. Asikho isidingo sokukhathazeka uma izithombe zomshado kanye isiqophi sizochitha opharetha ezimbalwa ukuthi kwakungekho befuna, futhi akazange konakalisa lonke emcimbini.

Kwesonto ngaphambi komshado abasha kufanele uqale ukuzila ukudla: ungadli inyama, ungaphuzi utshwala, ungabhemi, wokudeda nobuhlobo bobulili. Ngaphambi lomshado umbhangqwana kumelwe ayokhulekela, ukuvuma nemihlatshelo.

Kuyadingeka ukuba banakekele ngaphambi kokuthenga izithonjana uMsindisi futhi UnguNina KaNkulunkulu, okuyinto kwakumelwe lingcweliswe, wedding izindandatho, okuyinto zisesikhathini isiko kufanele inikwe umpristi, amakhandlela, amathawula ezimbili ezimhlophe futhi amaduku ezine. Kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi ngokuvumelana canons isonto kufanele uthenge izindandatho umakoti zegolide, isiliva umakoti. Njengoba ojwayelekile, yokufuna zonke izimfanelo ezidingekayo sabelwe ofakazi.

Isiko of ukusetshenziswa umkhuba wokukhulekela lomshado imifanekiso Ubuye izimpande zomlando wasendulo. Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, abazali abusise izingane zabo ukuba ukusetshenziswa kwezithombe ezingcwele: indodana - LikaKristu UMsindisi, indodakazi - Mary, enika ngaleyo ndlela isiqondiso lungile dlela.

Ukuze ubambe wedding emcimbini kuyisiko ukushiya umvuzo, imali kufanele ucele umpristi. Uma umbhangqwana akudingeki ikhono zezimali ukukhokha yonke imali ngokugcwele, ungakwazi ukutshela. Ngezinye izikhathi, lemali akusho wakwambula, noyise inikeza ukunikeza izipho ibandla, ngokwezinga, okuyinto unikeza ithuba esanda weds.

Ukukhethwa izingubo umakoti

Njengoba for the wedding dress bakamakoti ukuthi uyayifaka emshadweni eSontweni Lobu-Orthodox, imithetho zimi kanje:

• ingubo akufanele kube kakhulu ifomu-kufaneleka noma esifushane, kodwa aluhlaza kakhulu futhi zokubhukuda langa, futhi, ngeke zisebenze;
• Noma ngabe yikuphi akufanele uyembulile emahlombe, entanyeni noma ingalo phezulu endololwaneni;
• Ungasebenzisa isembatho utawufaka izingxenye wadalula umzimba;
• ingubo okufanele kubomhlophe noma omunye umbala shades eliphaphathekile;
• ikhanda uma kudingeka ukuba kukhishwe camera, lisebenzisa isikhafu noma umgubuzelo;
• Awukwazi ukusebenzisa esikhanya kakhulu ukwakheka kanye egcwele amakha;
• esikhundleni isixha lomshado ezandleni umakoti ukuba umshado ikhandlela.

Kufanele banakekele kusengaphambili mayelana izicathulo, okungcono kufanelekile izicathulo ne avaliwe phambi fascia nge izithende ongaphakeme, ngoba emcimbini wedding ihlala isikhathi esingangehora kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umakoti kufanele azizwe ekhululekile phakathi naso sonke lesi sikhathi.

Kukhona nganekwane ethakazelisa kakhulu. umakoti kufanele nodwendwe eside. Ngokusho yetinsita ethandwa, isikhathi eside kuyoba loop - isikhathi ngaphezulu kuyoba abasha ndawonye. Uma umugqa esemsebenzini singanikezwanga, kungaba bufakwe ngesikhathi emshadweni kuphela.

Futhi, lapho umshado senzeka eSontweni Lobu-Orthodox, imithetho zisebenza kuwo wonke izivakashi ukubukeka samanje. Abesifazane kufanele ibe izingubo noma iziketi amadolo hooded futhi akufanele denude entanyeni nasezandleni, inhloko kudingeka vala nge iduku noma isikhafu. Emcimbini, umshado awukona ngempela phambi kwabo bonke Abantu Ababekhona Emshadweni, kungaba abantu abakholelwa ngempela ngemfihlakalo isiko futhi ubheke le nqubo ngenhliziyo yonke. Ukuze athobele izenzakalo ukuhleleka okunjalo kungcono ukuba khona, futhi kuphela beze edilini.

wedding emcimbini

Wedding njalo iqala kuphela ngemva kwenkonzo. Emkhubeni unezigaba ezimbili: eyokuqala - ngubungcono, lomshado - lena esigabeni sesibili. Esikhathini esidlule, base bahlukana isikhathi. Ngemva kokuba lo mbhangqwana isithembiso kungashiya uma kunesizathu esihle, umshado ungase uthathe indawo kuphela uma imizwa ziqinile nangobumhlophe benhliziyo, ngoba indoda nomfazi bekhetha nomunye, hhayi kuphela empilweni emhlabeni, kodwa kuze kube phakade. Ngo emcimbini lanamuhla, kokubili izingxenye emcimbini ezenzeka ngosuku olulodwa.

isithembiso

Ukwendiselana senzeka emnyango wesonto. Umakoti uthola kwesokunxele umkhwenyana. Umpristi ufunda ngomthandazo kuqala, bese ubusisa umbhangqwana kathathu futhi ubanikeza ezandleni amakhandlela elikhanyayo. Nalapha Uthandaza futhi eyingoduso izindandatho abasha. Izindandatho ziyahlukahluka onesandla lezikhathi abasha bakamakoti isandla ezintathu, ngenxa indandatho yegolide yomkhwenyana ivuliwe isandla kule abasha, futhi isiliva indandatho ngomunwe wakhe wakusasa. Kuphela manje lo mbhangqwana ungakwenza azibiza umakoti nomkhwenyana.

lomshado

UmPristi uthola ambalwa ethempelini silindelwe etafuleni nasethawuleni emhlophe. Indoda nowesifazane ucelwa ukuthi sezifikile lapha wona khulula, azikho izithiyo ezingakuphazamisa ekusakazeni emshadweni. 'OFakazi beye bakhetha ezandleni imiqhele futhi ebenza Phezu kwamakhanda umakoti nomkhwenyana. Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi le akulula kangako, ikakhulukazi uma ofakazi, kudze nabasha, futhi emcimbini kuba imizuzu hhayi ngaphansi kuka amane amasonto ezisemadolobheni, uma lo mkhosi esiqhutshwa yesigodlo, bese esingaphezudlwana kwehora. Ngakho-ke, kuyinto efiselekayo ukhethe ofakazi ephakeme. Ngemva komthandazo abasha sikhuthazele nendebe yewayini okufanele baphuze kathathu njengoba iwuphawu lokuthi kusukela manje konke izohlukaniswa ambalwa ngokulinganayo - nenjabulo nentukuthelo.

Kuyadingeka ukuba axwayise umakoti: ngesikhathi zokuphuza indebe yewayini kungaba isimo lapho umgubuzelo kuyoba close kakhulu eduze ikhandlela futhi okhela. Ukuze ugweme lokhu, kuba efiselekayo ukuze udlulele ukhathazeke nemigubuzelo obuphelele, okuyinto akufanele kube likhulu kakhulu.

Izandla abasanda kushada tie ithawula elimhlophe futhi ahaqe emhlabeni yesikhulumi kathathu. Ngalesi sikhathi, ukucula ekwayeni yesonto. Umpristi kuholela lo mbhangqwana esangweni YeNkosi ye-altare futhi ifundeka ngawokwakha lokuphila okuphakade ndawonye. Ngemva komshado, zonke izimenywa uqale ngihalalisele abasha, futhi uzozwa umsindo izinsimbi, ephawula lokuzalwa womkhaya osemncane.

Uma abasha banesifiso ukuthwebula eside inkumbulo lomshado, izithombe namavidiyo kungaba kwenziwe nge kwemvume umpristi. Into efanele ukuze bavumelane lapho kufanele opharetha njengoba kungcono ukuba bame noma ukuhambisa. Ngokuvamile, in the nangapha amasonto amancane namakhulu ethize ukukhanyisa ngokwanele, ngakho, ukuze izinga amavidyo kamuva wadumala, kuyinto efiselekayo ubheke onguchwepheshe omuhle. Kukhona amacala lapho sigameko akuvunyelwe nakancane ke, ukuhlala umcimbi esimnandi zomlando umndeni, ungathatha izithombe ngemuva lombhishobhi noma ithempeli.

wokugcotshwa

Kunenye mkhuba wasendulo, okumele abe okukhulunywa ukuze senze abanye ukucaciseleka zomlando - wokugcotshwa. Lo mkhuba okwenziwe ngesikhathi somkhosi we wokugcotshwa mithi, futhi liqala ke Ivan Grozny. Umqhele, esasetshenziswa esikhangisweni se Kulokhu, wehlela emlandweni ngaphansi kwegama laziwe kubo bonke - the Cap ka Monomakh. Kuyadingeka izenzo ngemfanelo babe bartenders, zikhipha futhi intonga. Futhi inqubo ibe sacral okuqukethwe main ingxenye okwakukhona chrismation imfihlakalo. Kodwa lutho oluhlangene umshado lo mkhosi abuzange.