Ukuphikisana kwamanga ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Indlela yokuhlukanisa kusuka kwangempela?

Ngokuvamile, ukukhulelwa kwamanga okungamanga (Brexton Hicks) kuvela ngenyanga yokugcina yokukhulelwa. Kodwa, kwenzeka futhi ukuthi zenzeka ngesikhathi semasonto angu-24. Akukho lutho olwesabekayo kubo, umzimba nje ulungiselela umsebenzi omkhulu - ukubeletha.

Ngaphambili, ukulwa okunjalo akubuhlungu, okuhlala isikhathi esingaphezu kwemizuzu emibili. Bavela ngomsebenzi wengane, kanti lesi sibeletho siphumelela kancane, njengokungathi siphendule, bese siphinde sithathe isikhundla sokuqala. Kulokhu, ukulwa kwamanga ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa akuholela ekuzalweni okungakabiphi, kepha umane nje ukuphendula komzimba ekuhambeni kwe-fetus. Uma ukuphikisana kuphinda, owesifazane udinga ukuphumula, alale futhi alalele umzimba wakhe. Uma konke kushabalala, khona-ke asikho isizathu sokukhathazeka, kodwa uma sekuphumula, ukunciphisa kuqhubeka, futhi ngisho nangemvamisa ekhethekile, kuyadingeka ukuba ubize ngokuphuthumayo i-ambulensi. Mhlawumbe lokhu kungukuqala kokubeletha ngaphambi kokuzalwa, okungahle kumiswe.

Ngenyanga yesishiyagalolunye, isibeletho sizwela kakhulu ukunyakaza okusebenzayo komntwana, okufudumala ukufudumala. Kule ndaba, imisipha yesibeletho ivame ukufika. Lokhu kungenzeka izikhathi eziningana ngosuku futhi akuhlali isikhathi eside kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, lesi sibeletho senza uhlobo lokuzivocavoca - ukulungiselela ukubeletha. Intamo yakhe kancane kancane ihlehliswa.

Kodwa futhi kwenzeka ukuthi ngokusho kwemizwelo ebuhlungu, ukulwa kwamanga ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa cishe akufani neqiniso. Isibeletho sihlukumeza kakhulu, lokhu kungezwani kuhambisana nokuzwa okubuhlungu. Zingenziwa isikhathi eside, ziba namandla futhi kaningi, kepha ngesikhathi esisodwa zonke ziyeka. Omama abaningi banamathemba empini kanjalo futhi baya esibhedlela. Kulokhu akukho lutho olwesabekayo. Asikho isidingo sokwesaba ukuphazamisa odokotela ngeze, empeleni emisebenzini yezibhedlela zokubeletha kaningi kunezimo lapho izinsolo ezithinteka zime ngokushesha lapho kufika owesifazane esibhedlela. Lokhu kuvamile. Cishe, kulokhu owesifazane uzohlolwa, ashiye ukulala ubusuku esibhedlela, futhi ekuseni uzovunyelwa ukulinda ukuqala kwangempela komsebenzi wezabasebenzi.

Kunomsebenzi wamanga ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa ahluke kulezi zinto? Into ebaluleke kakhulu yi-periodicity. Amanga ayingqayizivele, ayikho njalo kubo, kuyilapho okwangempela kuqhubeka nesimiso esicacile ngokuphazamiseka kancane kancane. Ukuhlukanisa inqubo yangempela ekucabangeni, udinga ukuzola futhi uhlale phansi noma ulale phansi endaweni ekhululekile. Thatha ucezu lwephepha, ipeni kanye ne-watch. Gxila futhi uqale ukurekhoda, ukurekhoda isikhathi esiqondile sokuqala kokulwa ngalunye. Umphumela uzokuphendula impendulo yimuphi uhlobo lwezimpi. Kungaba impela ukuthuka lapho owesifazane ezwa ukuphikisana okuqinile kwabesifazane abakhulelwe amahora amaningana, kodwa bayeka. Lokhu kuphazamisa kakhulu, umama ngokuvamile ulindele ukuhlangana nomntwana, kodwa ngokuzumayo yonke into yayithule. Yiqiniso, uma kukhona ukusola kokuqala komsebenzi, ungalindi, futhi ngokushesha uye esibhedlela.

Ngakho, izibonakaliso zokuqala zomsebenzi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa yi-periodicity. Ngendlela, kungaphawulwa ukuthi ukuhlukana kwangempela kwemizwelo kuhluke kunamanga, yingakho abesifazane abachazwa kalula bahlukanisa amanga nabangempela. Ukuqala imisebenzi yesizukulwane kungabonakali ukuthi kungabonakali, izinyathelo zokuqala zibuthakathaka futhi zingabonakali kalula, kancane kancane zanda. Lokhu ubuhlungu bokudonsa, okuyinto, mhlawumbe, obunikezwa emuva ephansi. Akusikho konke okudingekayo ukuthi isikhathi sokuqala sibe yimaminithi angu-20, ngokuvamile impi iqala ngokujwayelekile imizuzu emihlanu nangaphansi. Uma ikhefu lincane kakhulu, ukudiliva okusheshayo akupheli futhi kufanele nje uye esibhedlela masinyane. Kubesifazane abakhulu kakhulu lokhu kwenzeka kaningi.