Ukulethwa Late: noma unezingane ngemva amane?

Namuhla, ukulethwa ngasekupheleni libizwa lokuzalwa lokuqala ngemva engamashumi amathathu nanhlanu. Kodwa manje elidala umbelethisi ukubukeka askance ngesikhathi amantombazane amabili nanhlanu ngubani abelethe okokuqala, ebabizela starorodyaschimi ngasese. Baphi laba eyeqisayo?

Endulo kwakuyinto evamile ukuba azale engamashumi amabili. Uma kungenjalo abesifazane awela isigaba losers esiyingqayizivele. Amsongela ukuba sola zomphakathi, ngoba injongo eyinhloko izingane ukuba ngaleso sikhathi kwaba ukunxenxa of amasosha - engashiyi mntwana, nanzuzo yalutho isimo owesifazane onjalo. NgeNkathi Ephakathi isimo lithuthukile hhayi okuningi - amantombazane futhi sashada ekuseni, kube abalingani emdala, owaqala wacabanga yini ubulili, futhi kuphela ngaleso sikhathi ngezindlela zokuvikela.

amandla Soviet phakathi Bedrock yayo zokuziphatha lapha, okumangalisayo futhi uyingqayizivele. Kakade engamashumi amabili nanhlanu ka owesifazane wokuqala nengane iwela le "okuyihlazo" isigaba. Kulesi starorodyaschimi definition cishe sasifana nokuthi spinster, kusale abameleli abaningi besifazane ukuze athwale nganoma iyiphi indlela ababengenza ngayo.

yoma Stormy, ngokuqinisekile kwaletha emazweni post-Soviet emoyeni Western. EYurophu lehla ngokushesha inani ukuzalwa kuqala uye kancane kancane "ewela" ngoba amathathu uphawu, engu-umama akazange kulahlwa. Kunalokho, ngasekho zukulwane babebhekwa njengabantu kuwuphawu lokuvuthwa, yazuza isikhundla elithile emphakathini, iholo esitebeleni umndeni, nokunye. D. Lesi sikhundla kuyosheshe kube ngokwanele beqonda kuyi-Union, kahle, ingasaphathwa ku eligadulayo 90-s-ke nje awazange asinakekele, ngoba owesifazane ziba ezibalulekile zebhizinisi, ngumama baphokophelele kwenkathi ethile. Ngisho nangaleso sikhathi, izizukulwane iminyaka engu-45 akulona beqonda okuthile okungavamile. Manje Mama izinkundla ngakho egcwele abesifazane iminyaka engamashumi amane ubudala, abenza noma uhlela ukukhulelwa noma baxoxisana izingane zabo colic. Lokhu kuthambekela ebonisa ukuthi zukulwane akuzona njengoba othandwayo ukukhetha sisiqaphela isigamu enhle lwesintu. Futhi amazinga wenzalo kulonyaka akusho yehle.

Kuhle kokusho futhi ukuthi zikhathi ezimbi ukuthi ukulethwa ngezinye izikhathi ngasekupheleni akuyona abesifazane kukho, futhi hlobo ithuba. Ukukhokhela amaphutha intsha, noma ngezinye izizathu abakwazi okukhulelwa ngaphambi, abesifazane bamatasa bahlanza uhlelo zokuzala ukuze ngobudala amane, bese umbuzo ngokukhetha isikhathi ukulethwa akufanele ke - ngokushesha ngcono.

Kuyinto isici ngempela kuyaqondakala kwezidingo ngasekupheleni - ekuthuthukiseni isimo sezimali noma ushade yesifiso jikelele yingane. Kulokhu, kamuva izizukulwane nazo, akuyona into engajwayelekile - manje imibhangqwana eminingi ixazululwe ngoba ukwenza kanjalo. Futhi phakathi kwabo osopolitiki ethandwa, izinkanyezi show ibhizinisi, ibhizinisi wesifazane.

Odokotela ambiguously ukulinganisa nokubeletha ngasekupheleni. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, iningi empilweni kamama akakhulumi esivuna zilethwe sekudlule - yobudala engamashumi amane nowesifazane aqoqana umlando nje kweqembu kwezinso izifo zabesifazane, kodwa futhi kwezinso kwenhliziyo, excretory kokudla. Lokhu isici njalo uphendule impilo ingane futhi isimo empilweni kamama phakathi nenkathi yokukhulelwa nokubeletha. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, lapho ebeletha ngoba engalutholanga ngasekupheleni ukunikeza umama eziningi ithemba lokuthi ukuthi angamvusa ngokwanele ingane, hhayi ukonga on zokucathula, ukuhlinzeka izidingo ezingokomoya ingane. Ngenxa omkhulu plus lapha yengezwe wemfanelo owengeziwe we uyise wengane - ngokuvamile ukulethwa sekwephuzile upapa - yithuba elihle bona ubuyise yakhe ngokugcwele.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ziyini izizathu for kwezidingo ngasekupheleni, unina kufanele baqonde ukuthi engu-ayisithupha naye kuyoba ngisho, eqinisweni, osemusha lidinga usizo omkhulu. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, usizo kungase kudingwe nabazali. Izizukulwane yakamuva kakhulu ezilotshwe yobudala engamashumi ayisikhombisa, kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kubalulekile ukuba aprofethe ngokumelene ingane ukuba yedwa?