Izindinganiso zokuziphatha, amanani nemithetho

Izindinganiso zokuziphatha zifana nezomthetho ukuthi bobabili badlala indima yendlela enkulu ngendlela yokuziphatha komuntu okulawulwa ngayo. Izindinganiso zokuziphatha ziyizinto ezingabhalwanga ezakhiwe phakathi namakhulu eminyaka. Emthethweni, imithetho imisiwe ngokusemthethweni.

Imasiko Yokuziphatha

Izindinganiso zokuziphatha, izindinganiso zindlela ezibonakalayo zokuziphatha. Ukuzikhethela kwabo kubangelwa ukuthi banquma ukuqonda nokuziphatha kwabantu kuzo zonke izigaba zokuphila: ukuphila, umndeni, umsebenzi wezobuchwepheshe, ubudlelwane bomphakathi.

Izindinganiso zokuziphatha nezokuziphatha ziyisimiso semithetho esinqumayo ukuziphatha kwabantu, ukwephula okwenza umonakalo emphakathini noma eqenjini labantu. Zakhiwe ngesimo sezenzo ezithile zezenzo. Isibonelo:

• Udinga ukunikeza indlela kulabo asebekhulile;
• Khonzani lapho uhlangana nomunye umuntu;
• Yiba namandla futhi uvikele labo ababuthakathaka;
• Ukufika ngesikhathi;
• Khuluma ngokwemvelo nangokuzithoba;
• Gqoka lokhu noma lezo izingubo, njll.

Isisekelo sokwakha ubuntu obuphilile

Izindinganiso nezindinganiso zokuziphatha ezingokomoya zihlanganisa isithombe somuntu ophelele ngomqondo wokuhambisana nesibonelo sokuzinikela. Kuyinto kule portrait okufanele umuntu alwele. Ngakho-ke, imigomo eyinhloko yesenzo esithile iboniswa. Ngendlela ekahle, isithombe sisetshenziswa njengoJesu ebuKristwini. Wazama ukubeka ubulungisa ezinhliziyweni zabantu, wayengumfel 'ukholo omkhulu.

Imithetho yokuziphatha nemigomo idlala indima yokuqondisa impilo yomuntu noma lowo muntu. Ubuntu bubeka imigomo yayo, lapho ohlangothini lwawo oluhle noma olubi lubonakala khona. Abantu abaningi bafuna injabulo, inkululeko, ulwazi lwezincazelo zokuphila. Izindinganiso zokuziphatha zizisiza ukuba zilawule ukuziphatha kwazo, imicabango nemizwa.

Ukuziphatha kusebenza emphakathini ngesimo sezinto ezintathu zesakhiwo, ngasinye sesinye sezinhlangothi zokuziphatha. Lezi zakhi ziyizenzo zokuziphatha, ubudlelwane bokuziphatha nokuziphatha okuhle.

Ukuziphatha esikhathini esedlule nangamanje

Lezi zenzakalo zaqala ukuvela esikhathini esidlule. Isizukulwane ngasinye nomphakathi wabantu bazenzela ukuqonda kwabo okuhle nokubi, izindlela zabo zokuhumusha izimiso zokuziphatha.

Uma siphendukela emiphakathini yendabuko, sizobona ukuthi lapho isithombe sokuziphatha sithathwa njengokungaguquki, empeleni samukelwa ngokungabikho kwenkululeko yokuzikhethela, into ebonakalayo. Indoda yaleso sikhathi ayikwazanga ukukhetha phakathi kokwamukela nokwamukelwa kwemikhuba evamile, kwadingeka ukuba ilandele ngokungenasisekelo.

Esikhathini sethu, ngokungafani nezomthetho, izindinganiso zokuziphatha zibhekwa njengezincomo zokuthola injabulo yedwa kanye nomphakathi oseduze. Uma ngaphambili isimo sokuziphatha sichazwa njengento ethize evela phezulu, enqunywe onkulunkulu ngokwabo, namuhla kuyinto enjengenkontileka yomphakathi yangasese, okuyinto efiselekayo ukulandela. Kodwa uma ungalaleli, empeleni, ungagwetshwa kuphela, kodwa ungabizi ukuphendula kwangempela.

Ungayamukela imithetho yokuziphatha (ngokwakho okuhle, ngoba iyimanyolo ewusizo for the sprout of umphefumulo ojabulayo), noma uyayinqabela, kodwa iyohlala enembeza wakho. Kunoma yikuphi, umphakathi wonke uhambisana nemigomo yokuziphatha, futhi ngaphandle kwawo, ukusebenza kwawo bekungeke kwenzeke.

Izinhlobonhlobo zokuziphatha

Yonke imigomo nemigomo yokuziphatha ingahlukaniswa ngokomzimba ngamaqembu amabili: izidingo nezimvume. Phakathi kwezidingo kukhona izibopho nemisebenzi yemvelo. Izimvume zingabuye zihlukaniswe zingenandaba futhi zide kakhulu.

Kunomphakathi oziphatha kahle, okusho uhlaka oluhlanganisiwe kakhulu. Kukhona nemithethonqubo ye-nonspoken esebenza ezweni elithile, inkampani, inhlangano noma umndeni. Futhi, kunezilungiselelo ngokuhambisana nokuthi iyiphi indlela yakhe yokuziphatha eyakhiwa ngumuntu ohlukile.

Ukuze ufunde isiko lokuziphatha hhayi nje ekufundiseni, kodwa nangomkhuba, umuntu kumele enze izenzo ezifanele abanye abamukele futhi bazamukele.

Mhlawumbe ukubaluleka kokuziphatha kuyaphakanyiswa?

Kungase kubonakale ukuthi ukulandela imigomo yokuziphatha kubopha umuntu ngendlela elula. Kodwa-ke, asizibheki njengeziboshwa, sisebenzisa iziyalezo kudivayisi ethile yomsakazo. Imikhuba yokuziphatha iyisimo esifanayo esisisiza ukuba sakhe impilo yethu ngendlela efanele ngaphandle kokungqubuzana nonembeza wethu.

Izindinganiso zokuziphatha zihambisana kakhulu nezomthetho. Kodwa kunezimo lapho ukuziphatha nomthetho kungqubuzana. Ake sihlaziye lo mbuzo ngesibonelo somthetho "ungabe." Ake sizame ukubuza umbuzo othi "Kungani lo muntu noma lowo muntu engasoze aye ukweba?". Uma kwenzeka isisekelo sokwesaba inkantolo, isisusa asikwazi ukubizwa ngokuthi ukuziphatha. Kodwa uma umuntu engaboni, ngokusekelwe enkolelo yokuthi ukweba kubi, isenzo sisekelwe ezimisweni zokuziphatha. Kodwa empilweni kwenzeka ukuthi umuntu uyibheka njengesibopho sakhe sokuziphatha sokuthi, kusukela kumbono womthetho, ukwephulwa komthetho (isibonelo, umuntu uthatha isinqumo sokuba umuthi ukusindisa impilo yomuntu ozalwa).

Ukubaluleka kwemfundo yokuziphatha

Ungalindeli ukuthi isimo sokuziphatha nesimilo sizozikhulisa. Kudingeka nokwakhiwa, ukuqashelwa, okungukuthi, ukuzisebenzela wena. Ngokulula, kanye nezibalo kanye nolimi lwesiRashiya, izingane zesikole azifundeli imithetho yokuziphatha. Futhi, ukungena emphakathini, abantu ngezinye izikhathi bangase bazizwe bengenamandla futhi bengenakuzivikela njengokungathi beze ebhodini ekilasini lokuqala futhi baphoqeleka ukuba baxazulule ukulinganisa okungakaze kubonwe ngaphambili.

Ngakho wonke amazwi athembekile ahlanganisa, agqilaza futhi akhiphe isigqila esivela kumuntu, afanelekile kuphela uma imigomo yokuziphatha ihlanekezwa futhi iqondiswa ekuthandweni kwezinto ezithile zeqembu elithile labantu.

Isiteleka senhlalakahle yomphakathi

Esikhathini sethu, ukuthola umgwaqo ofanele ekuphileni kokukhathazeka komuntu umuntu kakhulu kunokuhlukumeza komphakathi. Abazali bakhathazeke kakhulu ngokwenza ingane ingcweti enhle, kunokuba umuntu ojabule esikhathini esizayo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukungena emshadweni ojabulisayo kunokuba ukwazi uthando lwangempela. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukubeletha ingane kunokuqaphela isidingo sangempela sokuba ngumama.

Izidingo zomthetho eziningi zesikhalazo hhayi ekusebenziseni kwangaphandle (uma wenza kanjalo, uzothola impumelelo), kodwa kumsebenzi wokuziphatha (udinga ukwenza ngendlela ethize, ngoba lokhu kuchazwe ngomsebenzi), ngaleyo ndlela ube nesimo sokubheka njengokubheka ngokuqondile Futhi umyalo ongenamthetho.

Izindinganiso zokuziphatha nokuziphatha kwabantu zihlobene kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, ukucabanga ngemithetho yokuziphatha, umuntu akufanele awaveze ngemigomo, kodwa ayenze, eqondiswa yisifiso sakhe.