Cela ngokufanele intethelelo: ukuthi ungasho kanjani "sorry" ngesiNgisi

Ukuzibusa kunoma yisiphi isimo kuyinto ehlukanisa umuntu ofunde kahle. Emhlabeni wonke, ebangele noma yikuphi ukuphazamiseka, umuntu kufanele axolise. Futhi ucele ukuthethelelwa kokukhathazeka, isibonelo ngokubuza umbuzo noma ngokusebenzisa, uzozibonakalisa ekukhanyeni okuhle kakhulu. Njengoba uye waya phesheya noma nje ukhuluma nezikhulumi zesiNgisi zendabuko, ungabona ukuthi bacela intethelelo kaningi kunawe nami. Kungani lokhu kwenzeka, kanye nezinketho zokuthi "uxolisa" ngesiNgisi, yiziphi izimo ezisebenzisa lezo noma imishwana, sizocabangela esihlokweni sethu. Lesi sihloko silula, kwanele ukufunda imisho embalwa futhi ukhumbule izimo ezivame kakhulu nezifanele zokusetshenziswa kwazo.

"Ngiyaxolisa" ngesiNgisi: siveza kahle ngokwethembeka

Cishe uyazi ukuthi amagama avamile kakhulu kithi kuthiwa "sorry" futhi "ngithethelele". Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi owokuqala usetshenziswa uma wena, uthi, kakade unento yokuthethelela. Isibonelo, wena ngengozi uqhume umgibeli ekuthuthweni, wawela ezinyaweni zomuntu. Kulesi simo, kungcono kakhulu ukuthi: "Ngiyaxolisa." Uma uphenduka ngokuqinile kwesenzo, uthi: "Ngiyaxolisa". Futhi kwezinye izimo, ungasebenzisa izinkulumo eziphakanyisiwe ngezansi.

• Ngiyaxolisa ngoba ukuphazamise wena - Uxolo ngokukuphazamisa.
• Umama ugula. Umama ugula. Ngiyaxolisa ukuzwa lokho - Ngiyaxolisa ukuzwa lokho.

"Ngiyaxolisa ngokukhathazeka" ngesiNgisi singaboniswa kwelinye igama, okungukuthi "ngithethelele". Uma ufuna ukucela, isibonelo, ukuthi isikhathi sini, ukuthi ungaya kanjani endaweni ethile, ukuphazamisa ingxoxo yomunye umuntu nokunye, ngakho-ke kuyadingeka futhi kufanele usebenzise le nhlanganisela, isibonelo:

• Ngiyaxolisa, ngisiphi isikhathi? "Ngicela ungithethelele, ngisiphi isikhathi manje?"
• Ngiyaxolisa, singayithola kanjani kuTrafalgar Square? "Ngiyaxolisa, sifinyelela kanjani eTrafalgar Square?"

Khumbula! Esikhathini lapho uhlehlisa ngengozi, "sorry" ngesiNgisi kuzovezwa ngokuhlanganiswa "kokungithethelela".

Yiqiniso, kunezinye izinhlobo zokuxolisa ngokuhlonipha. Ake sicabangele izimo ezinjalo.

Ngabe ungabe usho kanjani "sorry" ngesiNgisi

Esimweni lapho ungazange uzwe khona, noma ungaqondanga kahle, kuyofaneleka ukubuza: "Ngithethelele?" Lokhu okulinganayo okuseRussia kusho ukuthi: "Ngicela ungiphendule (ungakuphinda uphinde uyiphinde)?" Igama elithi "ukuthethelelwa" ngokwalo livela emvelaphi yesiFulentshi futhi lingasetshenziswa njengebizo kanye nesenzo. Ngendlela, leli fomu lokuzithoba libhekwa njengelicwengisisiwe futhi lihlanjululwa. Izibonelo:

• Ngicela uxolele - ngicela ukuxolela.
• Ngithethelele - Ngithethelele.

Cabanga ngengxoxo:

- Liyini igama lakho eligcwele? - Ubani igama lakho (isib. Igama negama)?
- Sriniwasan Lakshminarashimhan - Srinivasan Lakshminarashimhan
- Ngithethelele? - Ngiyaxolisa?
- Lindela, kungcono ngizokupela ngakho - Lindela, ngingcono ngikupela.

Uma ngempela uzosola ...

Elinye igama - "uxolisa" - lisetshenziselwa icala uma icala lakho libi kakhulu, noma uletha ukuxolisa okusemthethweni. Kumele ngithi leli fomu lisetshenziswe ngokungajwayelekile kakhulu inkulumo evamile yokuxoxa. Izibonelo:

• Ngiyaxolisa ngomonakalo imoto yami eyabangela isithuthuthu sakho.
• Ihhovisi lethu lizovalwa ngoLwesibili. Inkampani ixolisa nganoma yikuphi ukuphazamiseka - Ihhovisi lethu lizovalwa ngoLwesibili. Inkampani iyaxolisa ngokuphazamiseka.

Manje uyazi ukuthi ungasebenzisa kanjani igama elithi "sorry" ezimweni ezahlukene. Ukuhumusha ngesiNgisi sale nkulumo kuzohluka. Qinisekisa ukuthi ukhumbule umehluko phakathi kokuthi "uxolisa" futhi "ngithethelele", kanye nokusetshenziswa kwenhlanganisela "ngokuxolela". Ngempela, umuntu kufanele abe nenhlonipho njalo futhi yonke indawo.