Bangaki abantwana abasha balele ebusuku futhi emini

Kanye neminye imibuzo mayelana nokunakekela izingane, ngokuvamile abazali banesithakazelo ukuthi zingaki izingane ezisanda kuzalwa zilele. Omama nabafana abasha bavezwa injabulo eyengeziwe, ukukhathazeka nokungabaza. Ngokuvamile, abanye bakholelwa ukuthi ingane yabo ilele kancane, abanye bayamangala ukuthi okuningi. Eqinisweni, akunakwenzeka ukusho ngokuqondile nangokungaqondile ukuthi umntwana olele usana kangakanani. Kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala umuntu ngamunye umuntu ngamunye.

Ngokusho kwedatha ejwayelekile yezibalo, isonto lokuqala ngemuva kokuzalwa kwezingane zilele cishe amahora angu-24 ngosuku. Kuye ngezici zabo, ukulala kwezinsana kungase kube amahora angu-16 kuya ku-22. Ingane ivukela lapho elambile. Abanye abantu badla amaminithi angu-20 futhi baphinde baphinde balale, kuyilapho abanye bephapheme okwesikhashana, ukwazi izwe elizungezile. Phakathi nosuku, ukulala phakathi kokusondeza kufikela isilinganiso samahora angu-2-4. Ebusuku, izingane zingalala amahora angu-5-7. Ungavusanga umntwana ngaphambi kwalesi sikhathi. Phela, kuphupho izingane zikhula ngokushesha, zithole amandla, zithuthukise ubuchopho nazo zonke ezinye izinhlelo zomzimba. Ngakho-ke, uma kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usana lulele kangakanani, akasakhathazeki, adle kahle, unesihlalo esivamile kanye nokushisa okujwayelekile, ngakho-ke konke kuhambisane, futhi angakwazi ukuphumula ngokulinganayo njengoba umzimba wakhe udinga.

Izigaba zokulala kwezinsana

Kubalulekile ukuthi abazali bangazi ukuthi ubuthongo obusana bukhulu kangakanani, kodwa nokuthi ulele kanjani. Ukulala kwengane kunezigaba ezintathu: iphupho elibuthakathaka , ubuthongo obuqinile futhi obujulile. Isigaba sokuqala sihlala cishe imizuzu engama-30. Ngalesi sikhathi, umntwana akufanele aphazamiseke futhi amvumele alale ngokuthula. Ngesikhathi sesigaba sesibili nesithathu, ingane isivele ilele ngokushesha, ngakho-ke abazali bangaphatha izindaba zabo ngokuphepha ngaphandle kokwesaba ukumvusa.

Abanye omama bavakashelwe imibuzo ehlukahlukene mayelana nokuthi ingane ilele ngesikhathi sokudla. Kulokhu akukho lutho olungavamile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lesi simo sivamile. Lokhu kubhekwe ikakhulukazi ngokuncelisa. Okokuqala, umntwana uyamangala ukulala eduze komama wakhe, owayengenakuhlukaniswa naye zonke izinyanga ezingu-9. Okwesibili, ukuncelisa isifuba kumsebenzi wakhe wenyama, lapho ekhathele khona, futhi ngenxa yalokho, ulele. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi umntwana osanda kuzalwa uphuza ubisi obuningi emaminithini amahlanu okuqala, ngakho-ke akusizi ngalutho ukuwondla imizuzu engaphezu kwengu-20.

Yini enquma ubude bokulala ubusuku obusana

Kumele uqaphele ukuthi kungakanani ukulala okusalelwe ebusuku kusixhomeke endaweni. Ngakho-ke, isibonelo, ukulala eduze komama, ingane ayikwazi ukuvuka nhlobo phakathi kwamahora angu-9 (ngesilinganiso esijwayelekile esingu-5-7). Lokhu kuchazwa ukuthi ingane izwa imfudumalo, induduzo futhi izwa iphunga elinjalo lomuntu oyintandokazi nomuntu oyithandayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, nganoma isiphi isikhathi singakwazi ukunamathela esifubeni, ngakho ukulala kwakhe kuzoba ngcono. Noma kunjalo, ukuphumula ebusuku nezingane embhedeni owodwa kungaletha ukukhathazeka okuningi kubazali. Esikhathini esizayo, bangase bahlangabezane nenkinga, baqhubekele umntwana esikhungweni sakhe.

Ingane ngayinye inayo yonke into, kuhlanganise iphupho, kodwa bonke abazali abafanayo kufanele bazi izinga elilinganiselwe, bangaki usuku lokulala olusha.

Omdala ingane iba, isikhathi esincane esichitha ebuthongweni. Ezinsukwini zokuqala zokuphila uyakhula, athole amandla, bese kancane kancane eqala ukusebenzisa isikhathi esiningi ekuziqhelaneni nabazali bakhe nakho konke okukuzungezile. Ngenyanga yesibili, ukulala komntwana ngesilinganiso kuncishiswe amahora angu-16 ngosuku. Futhi ngomnyaka lesi sibalo sifike emahoreni angu-14.