Ingabe umlingani wakhe ushiye okokuqala? Noma enye i-banal ekuqaleni, ingxabano iphelile enkantolo yesehlukaniso? Futhi manje, ngokucindezela phansi, ucabanga ngakho konke, uyaqonda ukuthi ayikho impilo ngaphandle komuntu othandekayo, indlu ayinalutho? Ingabe kukhona indlela yonke yokubuyisela umyeni emndenini uma isehlukaniso sesivele senzeka?
Ukuhlola okulungile kwalesi simo - ukuqinisekisa izenzo ezifanele
Zama ukuqonda isizathu esiyinhloko sokuhlukanisa kwakho. Mhlawumbe, wena nomyeni wakho nihlukana noma ningehambisani nezimo zenu zokuphila? Isizathu esihlukile - ukubonakala empilweni yakhe komunye owesifazane, kodwa, kufana nokulahlekelwa yithakazelo nokuhlonipha umkakhe. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuhlaziya ngokucophelela zonke izenzo zakho kanye nezimo zengqondo kumyeni wakho wangaphambili. Mhlawumbe uvele nje ekhathele ukuqhuma nokuxabana okuqhubekayo kusukela ekuqaleni.
Ngakho-ke, ngemva kokuqonda okungahambi kahle, uzothola indlela yakho yokubuyisela umyeni emndenini. Uma ungakaze usebenze empilweni yakho, sekuyisikhathi sokuqala umsebenzi wakho. Ngokuphambene nalokho, uma ngabe lo msebenzi uthathe isikhathi sonke nemicabango, kufanelekile ukucabanga ngokuthuthela kwelinye inkampani noma ngisho nangokushintsha isimo sokuqashwa. Zama futhi ukuthi usebenze kumlingiswa wakho - ngokuba nomusa kakhulu futhi uzwela ngeke neze ulimale, zama ukulahla amaphutha awakhathaza umlingani wakho wangaphambili.
Indlela yokubuyisela umyeni wakhe emva kokuhlukanisa? Lungisa konke okwakukhona
Uma ukuwa komshado wakho kungenxa yezinkinga ezithile zasekhaya, zama ukwenza okusemandleni akho ukuxazulula. Ukuhlanzwa kwezindlu nokwehlukana kwempahla kunomthelela omkhulu esimweni sezulu emndenini. Lapho kuba khona abantwana, kubalulekile ukucabanga ngenhlangano yokukhuliswa kwabo. Uke wakwazi njalo ukuhlala nomyeni wakho kaningi? Uma impendulo ingalungile, sekuyisikhathi sokufundisa izingane zakho ukuvakashela izihlobo noma ukuthola umfana oza ngempelasonto. Ungakhohlwa ukwenza wena. Mhlawumbe ufuna ukushintsha ngaphandle, ukwenza umsebenzi othakazelisayo ngaphezu komsebenzi oyinhloko noma ukuhlukanisa isikhathi sakho sokuzilibazisa. Ukuphila okuthakazelisayo kuyindlela enhle yokuphazamiseka ezinkingeni zakho. Xhumana kaningi kaningi nabangani, sebenzisa isikhathi ezindaweni ezithakazelisayo futhi ungazishiyi ukubonakala okusha.
Indlela yokubuyisela umyeni emndenini: nini isikhathi sokusebenza okusebenzayo?
Ngakho-ke, manje ungabuye wabizwe ngokuthi owesifazane othakazelisayo futhi ophumelelayo, kodwa oshade naye owaziwa kanjani ngakho? Ayikho isu ehlose indlela yokuthola isithakazelo somyeni wakho ngeke isize uma ungaqala ukukhuluma futhi. Indlela engcono kakhulu uma kukhona izingane ezivamile nawe, futhi ubaba ufuna ukuxhumana nabo. Uma lokhu kungesiwo isimo sakho, ungazama ukubheka imihlangano "engahleliwe" noma uphakamise ukuqhubeka nokuxhumana ngokuqondile. Kodwa khumbula: uma ufuna ngempela ukufunda ukubuyisela umyeni emndenini, omunye wemithetho esemqoka ukwaneliseka. Ngisho noma usagula futhi ulimele, ungabonakali ubuthakathaka bakho kumthandi wakho. Zama ukukhuluma ngomusa nangokuthula, mhlawumbe ufuna ukukhuluma ngokuningiliziwe ngempumelelo yabo, kodwa lokhu kufanele kugcinwe. Umbiko onjalo ungafana nokuziqhenya. Okukhethwa kukho konke ukuxhumana ngezihloko ezingathathi hlangothi kanye nokuchitha isikhathi okuhlangenwe nakho okuthakazelisayo.