Umkhawulo ilungelo lobuzali futhi sibancisha

Ngeshwa, kukhona imindeni lapho uyise noma unina (noma kokubili) ukhohlwe ngokuphelele mayelana nezibopho zabo sabazali. Baqala ukuba ingahlanganyeli ekukhokhweni ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso, ngokuvamile ukuphuza idlalisa izingane hlukumezile. Ezimweni ezinjalo, kungani uhulumeni engabathandi iphendukele izinyathelo ezinqala.

Umkhawulo ilungelo lobuzali - kuthatha kude eyingane kusuka oyedwa noma bobabili abazali ngaphandle sibancisha la malungelo. Isizathu esiyinhloko lendlela yokubona ingasebenzi ingozi kuphakama lapho ushiya ingane nomama nobaba kuzimo, ukuthi yokugcina zizimele. Futhi, umkhawulo ilungelo lobuzali isetshenziswa ezimweni lapho khona ingane nabazali kungaba yingozi ngenxa yokuziphatha kwabo okungalungile.

Ifayela isimagalo kobuphofu izivimbelo ilungelo lobuzali ungavala isihlobo. Le nqubo singasetshenziswa kokubili umama kanye nobaba, noma kokubili kanyekanye. Inkantolo bangase bakuthole kudingekile ukuba ukhokhe nesondlo abazali izingane.

Umkhawulo ilungelo lobuzali - ukushonelwa amalungelo Ukufundiswa isimilo somntwana zonke nezibonelelo ukuze amnakekele. Kulokhu, abazali kumelwe siqhubeke sisekela kuye nokunikeza izindawo. Ezimweni lapho umkhawulo ilungelo lobuzali waphoselwa ku bobabili abazali, ezincane idluliswe iziphathimandla sivikelwe noma izihlobo eziseduze ngubani Kumele udwebe ku sephiko lalo. Ngemva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha lo ukwahlulela kubhekwa kunjalo lapho ilungelo lobuzali kuyofakazela ibuyiselwe noma unomphela ichithwe. Kodwa izinyathelo kuqala kudingekile ukunikeza inkantolo ubufakazi, kuwubufakazi umzali sishintsha kangcono (ukufunda abalingisi, imibhalo, njll).

Bancishwa amalungelo sabazali, lapho umkhawulo wabo akuzange elamukelekile. Lusebenza a izinyathelo zomthetho ezimweni lapho izithakazelo kanye kwengane ingaphansi buyingozi ku sebatali.

Izizathu ekunqanyulweni ilungelo lobuzali:

• Non-nokukhokhwa ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso.

• Ukwehluleka umzali ukuthatha ingane esikhungweni iyiphi zezingane (isib, esibhedlela) iyatholakala ngaphandle isizathu esizwakalayo ke.

• Ukuhlukumeza amalungelo abo ngokwanele. Ngokwesibonelo, lapho abazali bebeka ingane ukuba ngihambe ngicela noma vimbela isitimela.

• Ukuphathwa kabi (ngengqondo noma ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba).

• Ukwencika abazali (noma omunye wabo) utshwala noma izidakamizwa.

• Abangela umonakalo enkulu empilweni noma lokubulala ingane yakhe noma omunye umuntu oshade naye.

Uma inkantolo bancishwa amalungelo komzali oyedwa noma bobabili abazali, balahlekelwa ithuba iqhaza bekhulisa ingane. Futhi, umama nobaba ingalela singalokothi sithintane no-izingane. Uma nje lokho kwahlulela onikezwe umzali oyedwa, ingane igcinwe ngaphansi kweso lomunye. Esikhathini Lokusakaza isijeziso umama nobaba, isiphetho ezincane ozonquma nokuqashwa. Ingane ingaba ayakunikwa ezinye nomndeni noma isikhungo kuchazwa (kuye ngokuthi isimo sempilo kanye nobudala).