Okubi isijeziso - bokuhlukaniswa ilungelo lobuzali

Umkhaya - nansi best ukuthi kungaba emhlabeni. Kumuntu ujabule mayelana neqiniso lokuthi wayeseholela elinde, sicabange ngalo, ujabule ukubuya kwakhe, ukuthi bangakwazi ukumnakekela iningi labo imigwaqo. Akukhona injabulo - ukuzwa, "Baba !!!" kusukela siyaphela ukuhlangabezana ingane?! Izingane - nansi best okungukuthi ezimpilweni zethu. Futhi njalo ihlumela amancane ithenda, zidinga ukunakekelwa, ukunakekelwa, ukunakwa.

Ngeshwa, idyll akekho kuyo yonke imindeni. Abanye abazali abaqondi noma ongayiqondi. Kukhona "umndeni nzima," lapho ayikho indawo uthando, uthando, amazwi amnandi. Lapho omunye noma bobabili kwabashadile musa ukufeza imisebenzi yabo sabazali noma ekuphatheni izingane zawo ezincane sinesihluku kakhulu. Futhi yilesi isisekelo lokujezisa yabazali.

Ikhodi Umkhaya sisungula okubi kakhulu isijeziso - bokuhlukaniswa ilungelo lobuzali. Uma lokhu isigwebo sisetshenziswa? Ingabe sikugweme? Yiziphi izizathu isicelo yayo? Yini elindele abazali ababephendukile?

Ukunqanyulwa ilungelo lobuzali yilapho abazali akuzona ezingeni efanele ukunikeza izingane lapho abanendaba ngempilo yabo, ukuthuthukiswa, engokwengqondo, engokomzimba noma zokuziphatha. Ngezinye izikhathi ukwenqaba sangamabomu abazali ukukhokha imali yesondlo - ngesisekelo isicelo lesi isijeziso.

Nokuswela ilungelo lobuzali uma:
- umzali, ngaphandle kwesizathu esizwakalayo, ushiye ingane zabo esibhedlela, esibhedlela noma ukusungulwa uhlobo kwezenhlalo;
- Abazali baka kwezingane ezihlukunyeziwe abe nodlame ngengqondo noma ngokomzimba, wenze umzamo ku ubuqotho babo kwezocansi;
- abazali (noma omunye wabo) aziwa yotshwala ezingalapheki noma imilutha yezidakamizwa,
- ubulelesi ngenhloso ihlobene ukuphila noma impilo yezingane noma oshade naye.

Ukuze bokuhlukaniswa amalungelo abazali ngokwanele okungenani eyodwa yalezi zifo. inkantolo kuphela unelungelo ukuphuca abazali amalungelo abo ngokwanele. Kodwa isikhalo enkantolo ukuba bokuhlukaniswa:
- omunye abazali;
- Ummeli;
- IKhomishana yokuThuthukiswa izingane;
- nokuqashwa.

Yini edingekayo ukuze ekunqanyulweni ilungelo lobuzali? Noma yimuphi umzimba okungukuthi umqaphi izithakazelo ingane ingane, kufanele zisebenze amandla wamajaji. Ukunqanyulwa ilungelo lobuzali - inqubo esemthethweni, ikhambi okuyinto isilungisiwe. Lokhu akumkhululi abazali imisebenzi ekhethekile, ezifana kwesibopho ezibonakalayo silondoloze ingane yabo.

INkantolo ngesikhathi isicelo enquma ukuthi ukuqoqa nesondlo kusukela abazali. Izingane ezivela lo mthwalo - ukukhokha nesondlo abazali asebekhulile - kukhona sokuthola. Ngaphezu kwalokho, bakwazi ukufaka isicelo impahla amalungelo, ilungelo lokudla ifa kubazali babo, ubunikazi impahla, kanye nabanye.

Ukunqanyulwa ilungelo lobuzali - lokhu akulona udilikajele, nakuba yokutakula kunzima kakhulu futhi kuyinkimbinkimbi. Ngemva kokushonelwa ukwethenjwa izingane zabo Kulula kakhulu futhi elula, kodwa ukubuyisela - kunzima. Inikeza ikhono alulame zingakapheli izinyanga eziyisithupha kusukela osukwini okushicilelwe ngalo isinqumo senkantolo. Umthetho uvumela isikhathi sokucabanga ngalokho okufundayo futhi phezu omama budedengu nawobaba, ngakhoke kungenzeka wokutholwa encane abanye bakwazi kuphela kubhekwe ngemva kwalolu suku. Intaba-abazali kufanele kube enkantolo abazenzile bezama ukufakazela ukuthi baye ngilunge ngokwabo, bashintsha indlela yabo yokuphila, ukuziphatha nesimo sengqondo esibonisa ukuthi ingane.

Ngu bokuhlukaniswa izimo ezahlukene umbandela we abazali amalungelo abo maqondana nezingane. Umkhawulo ilungelo lobuzali uvunyelwe lapho umzali uqobo Akunakusolwa, ukuthi ingane uhlale naye esikhathini esizayo abe yingozi. Ngokwesibonelo, uma abazali noma omunye wabo isethwe engqondo noma ezinye izifo ezingelapheki. Ingane obazali bakhe kulinganiselwe amalungelo abo imfundo nokuqukethwe is adluliselwe ku-ukunakekelwa umzimba futhi awukwazi ingane engazalwa ezinjalo.

Sethemba, manje noma ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kodwa abazali bakhe, abangazange walahlekelwa amalungelo izingane zabo, ukuba basanguluke futhi ushintshe zoke izinto ekuphileni kwakhe. Izingane kufanele wakhulela emndenini wakhe, ezikhuliswa abazali babo - lena umthetho zokuphila.