Ubani esizulazulayo - inkinga noma isixazululo?

"Uyini esizulazulayo?" - You buza. Njengoba ilandiswa Lillian Hellman, umbhali waseMelika odumile, wasinda kokubili impi: "Lo isimo sokugxeka - kuyindlela embi ukukhuluma iqiniso." Angizange nje ukusho yokuthi lona wesifazane besibhekene hhayi izikhathi ezingcono kakhulu ukwakheka kwabantu.

Ubani esizulazulayo - ingane noma kuqalekiswe ngalo emphakathini?

AmaCynic Asizalwa, ziba lapho izisekelo yesimanje kanye namasiko sebeqala ubuhlungu ingqondo lapho umuntu wamdumaza kanjani igunya samanje, izindlela zomphakathi. Uma kuyinto smart ngokwanele futhi anesibindi, evuka, ubona yonke into kusukela ngokombono ephakeme kancane kunalokho okwake. Abanye, ngeshwa, noma uqhubeke zifa ukulandela ukuthi okwakukhonzwa ngazo ukwethemba noma wesabe kokuba edida umphakathi. Ngamunye "ukuguqula" ukuthola ezifana sici ewusizo njengoba kucabanga ngalokujulile, kuba nelikhono lekuhlola, zibonisa futhi baveze ngokuzwakalayo yini okungafanele uyisho, konke ucabanga abantu abavamile abasele yedwa naye.

Esizulazulayo - a umuntu okholelwa entweni ekhona okwangempela, beseyisa nombono omuhle futhi yokungabaza, uyasamukela leso khona njengoba kuyinto futhi akukwazi ejabule noma edumele ngento engenamsebenzi. Wayengekhona exinwe ukulahlekelwa ukuphila, futhi ngakho kakhulu. Wayengekhona exinwe ukufa kwezingane, kungcono nje imbewu, hhayi bebone futhi cha attained okuthile, isitsha esingenalutho, okuyinto kungenzeka, izohlala awunalutho. Uma kwadingeka akhethe phakathi kokufa ingane yakhe futhi uyitshela bokushonelwa usosayensi oluvelele, yena wayeyokwenza umhlatshelo ingane ngaphandle kokungabaza. "Kuyini isimo sokugxeka?" - You buza. Lona ngowodwa nje amalebula eziningi, walengiswa indoda nge ukubukwa "non-bendabuko." Awusoze ukuzwa kusuka kuye ibinzana "Ngingumfana esizulazulayo," uhlobo lomuntu Wawuthatha ukuziphatha kwakhe kuyinsakavukela, kusukela ukuziphatha avame kungaba okuphambene logic ezivamile, ngenxa yemikhawulo ngesimo kwezinkambiso zokuziphatha futhi imibono yabantu abavamile.

Ngubani esizulazulayo, nokuthi uthanda?

Wayelethwa bancishwa inengqondo, esivela kwabanye abantu, ayinayo umuzwa umuzwa ngoba buthuntubeze, awusebenzi uzizwe umona, njengoba elibanzi ihlola zonke, okungukuthi ubuchopho, hhayi ngokusuka enhliziyweni. Akayena yenkolo, kodwa uyakholelwa ukuthi lesi sibalo waseBhayibhelini iisus hristos - umfowabo isimo sokugxeka. UJesu akalethi abantu abanokubukwa efanayo. Ngokwesibonelo, ukuba umuntu omuhle, kumele kube okubi, ukuze uNkulunkulu, uSathane okudingekayo ukuze laliyiPharadesi, Hogo ezidingekayo. Uma ucabanga ukuthi laba bahleki bosulu umbono alinalo ilungelo khona, cabanga ngalokho kungaba izwe lethu ngaphandle Abadali ezifana Schopenhauer, uVoltaire, Nietzsche, Dostoevsky, Nabokov, Dzhek London. Futhi uhlu usengakwazi ukuqhubeka.

Ngobani laba bahleki babulawa?

Ungakhohlwa mayelana ohlangothini reverse of the uhlamvu lwemali: umuntu-esizulazulayo kunalokho nzima ngaye ukuba aphile. Ukubona ngamunye ngokusebenzisa ukukhuluma iqiniso ngokuzwakalayo esingesihle, uhlangabezana Ukumelana ngaphakathi the bombo of iningi, singakwazi balahlekelwe ikhono ukucabanga ngokuhlaziya ezanele futhi baqala ukukholelwa kulokho abafuna ukukukholelwa. Abantu abafana Charles Issawi (Princeton Usolwazi wase-University) okuthiwa laba bahleki babulawa: a esizulazulayo ilungelo izikhathi eziyisishiyagalolunye kweziyishumi, kodwa uyaqiniseka ukuthi siqinisile kuzo zonke izimo eziyishumi, futhi yilokho kwenza kube ngaphezu kwamandla.

Uma, lapho kufundwa lesi sihloko, uzizwa ukuthi ufundile okuthile okungalungile, okungakwazi ukubona abantu, nokuthile ababengambeka ungavumelani, siyakuhalalisela. Manje uyazi ukuthi esizulazulayo.