Psychology zabantu ebuhlotsheni ngesibonelo kukhethwa umngane

Uma ukholelwa ukuthi ososayensi American, u-90% amabhuku ngobuhlobo ukuthenga abesifazane. I ubulili fair uthi okwengeziwe izici ukuxhumana namadoda, abesifazane ngokwethukela turning kudokotela wengqondo ngiyofuna ngokukhuluma nabobulili obuhlukile, aba maningi amathuba okuba ukuya imihlatshelo igama ubuhlobo. Eziyimbangela yalokhu, phakathi kwezinye izinto, imithetho echazwe eBhayibhelini. Lithi umfazi ohlakaniphileyo ujabulile endlini yakhe. Wanameka nendlu, kulesi simo ukuze kuqondwe hhayi kuphela njengoba umnotho, kodwa futhi njengoba obukhethekile. Kodwa indoda, okungenani, kubukeka hhayi kakhulu ukukhombisa ukubaluleka lezi zinkinga bona. Ngakho Psychology kwamadoda ubudlelwano - ngesihloko eziyinkimbinkimbi, sihlaziye njengesibonelo sendlela abesifazane ufuna okwakhe yabo.

Uyini Psychology kukhethwa umngane wokuphila? It is hhayi njalo ipharamitha sokunquma ungumuntu amehlo kokuphuma. kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ngabe Owesifazane angaba ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zakhe. Kuyinto babejwayele izidingo equlekile babantu.

Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuthi wayezizwa eduze kwakho kukhona amadoda angempela. Indlela ukuhlela? Ungacela kuye yini ukulungisa noma ulungise okuthile kukhompyutha yakho. Ungakwazi sokumbuza ngisho nombuzo okuhlobene nomsebenzi wakhe futhi kubalulekile kuwe. Ngokwesibonelo, Economist ungacela ngezimbangela we inhlekelele yembulunga yonke, futhi isazi sezinkanyezi ukuthi imbobo abamnyama. Lungela ukuze zilalele futhi acacise imithetho ngenkulumo yakhe.

Okwesibili, Psychology amadoda othandana naye ukuthi kubalulekile ukuthi ahlale amahhala. Lokhu kusho ukuthi hhayi nje ukuthi awazi ambize ngemibuzo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Nabo ubudlelwane kubaluleke ngaphezu inkululeko yomuntu siqu. Okungukuthi, ukuthi akazange azame ukushintsha ke. Shiya lo msebenzi umama kwaba mhlawumbe ukuthethelela. Ukuze kufundiswe akufanele ke, ikakhulukazi ngokucacile. Abesilisa bahlale isikhathi eside ne abesifazane ngubani ukugcizelela ukuthi bahloniphe imibono nemikhuba othandekayo futhi ngeke bazame ukushintsha uhlobo amadoda. Psychology lamadoda lobuhlobo ukuhlala ngokwabo, ukuthola ithuba lokuba nowesifazane. Zama ukushintsha ukubukeka ngokuvamile, okungenani, zezinwele izimonyo. Lokhu kuzokwenza umtshele ukuthi ungenaso umuntu olandelanayo hhayi bayichezukisa yokulicindezela.

Okwesithathu, ngisho amadoda ingakhulumi kakhulu ufuna ukuba kukhanye. Ezikudingayo ukunakwa kanye ukwazi ukuthi owesifazane esuka kuye injabulo. Psychology lamadoda ubudlelwano kusho ukuthi owesilisa bhá futhi zizinhle olwela insikazi. Kuyinto lasendulo isidingo, begazi. Kanjani ukuyisebenzisa? Ehleka amahlaya akhe, hamba naye comedy silly (kungemuva yabo, yena uyothatha ngangazizwa kahle, lihlakaniphile), ukumsiza ukuze athuthukise ubudlelwano phakathi izinkampani. Futhi iyoba zibalulekile. Psychology zabesilisa endleleni esisebenzelana ngayo nabantu ihluke zabesifazane, amadoda nzima kakhulu tie ubuhlobo futhi kulula ukuyinakekela kubo. Zama ukudala izimo sikhangise amakhono abo. Psychology zabantu ebuhlotsheni ebangela ukuba silwele ukuthola owesifazane engcono. Pheka inkampani, uma kulinarka, bacule karaoke, uma unekhono. Uma ubungaba nesizathu esikhulu sokuziqhenya kini, kuyoba isikhathi sakho eside.

Okwesine, kubalulekile ngoba amadoda ukuzizwa okuhle ubungane nabesifazane. Wabe eyeka sokucabanga ngobuhlobo nekucala umane ujabulele umphakathi wakho. Njani ukwenza lokhu? Ungakwazi azinakekele phambi kwaso. Vele musa donsa izinwele udebe eliphezulu noma ukubeka amehlo esiyisaga ikhukhamba tincetu. Nekama izinwele zakho, izindebe nakraste hlasi umugqa engaphezu kwekhulu. Lokhu uzoyibonisa ukuthi umethembe. Lungiselela ukudla naye, lena esihlanganisa kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuyokusiza ukuba ambonise amakhono ami. Uma ungenayo okuthandayo ikakhulukazi mayelana nemikhiqizo brand, ulandela iseluleko sakhe futhi ukhethe ukuthi iyiphi ayeseke abakhethiwe.

Ubuhlobo buba amadoda nzima kunabesifazane, ngoba lokho kuyinto isiko lethu. Kusukela amadoda ulindele umsebenzi omuhle indalo ebonakalayo. Ngakho-ke, amadoda amaningi unekhono ubuhlobo, noma ukucindezela amakhono abo noma bazizwa abanesibindi ngokwanele. Vula indoda ithalente ezifihliwe - futhi ngeke ngiyabonga.