Kubalulekile ukuba wonke umzali azi lapho ubhapathiziwe ebhapathiziwe

Naphezu kokusakazeka okukhulu kokungakholelwa kuNkulunkulu esikhathini sobukhosi baseSoviet, ezweni lanamuhla, abantu abaningi babuyela enkolweni. Abantu abaningi baseRussia bashumayela ama-Orthodoxy, amakholwa amaningi anesithakazelo sokuthi uzobhapathiza usana olusha. Njengomthetho, lokhu kwenziwa ngosuku lwamashumi amane kusukela ekuzalweni kwengane. Kungani nje nje lelo gama? Konke le nkathi yesikhathi owesifazane uthathwa ngokuthi "ongcolile", futhi uvunyelwe ukungena ethempelini. Ezimweni ezingavamile, kungenzeka ukuba uqhube umkhosi ngemva kwezinsuku eziyisishiyagalolunye ukuzalwa komntwana, isibonelo, uma egula kakhulu. Ngaphambi kwalokhu, unina wengane kufanele afunde umthandazo okhethekile, emva kwalokho uzovunyelwa ukungena ethempelini.

Yini okudingeka uyilethe esontweni?

Kodwa kubalulekile ukwazi nje ukuthi uzobhapathiza usana olusanda kuzalwa, kepha nokuthi ungalungisa kanjani lo mkhosi. Ngomkhosi wokubhapathizwa abazali bomntwana bakhetha yena onkulunkulukazi abenza umsebenzi wakhe ukuhamba noNkulunkulu wabo ekwakheni okungokomoya. Abazali bakaNkulunkulu kufanele bazi imithandazo nezinkolelo ezibalulekile, umsebenzi wabo oyinhloko ukubuyisela amaphuzu aphambili eBhayibheli. Ngokusho kwamasonto esonto, ingane kufanele ibe ne-godparent oyedwa (umfana unendoda nentombazane inomfazi), kodwa sekuyisikhathi eside sekuyisiko lokukhetha abazali ababili - unkulunkulukazi nomama. Ngokuvamile lezi mbhangqwana "zomndeni" zimbalwa zabantu abaseduze. Ungakhethi abantu abangahleliwe abazokwenza imisebenzi yabo ngokusemthethweni kuphela.

Ubani okufanele abe ngu-godparents?

Ngaphambi kokubuza lo mbuzo, uma usana olubhapathiziwe lubhapathiziwe, kungcono ukhethe ukhetho lokuxoxisana noNkulunkulu. Kuyadingeka ngokushesha ukuthi kunqunywe ukuthi ngubani ongeke abe khona. Okokuqala, laba ngabazali ngokwabo. Kwesibili - abangakholelwa kuNkulunkulu noma abantu abanokholo oluhlukile. Umlingiswa wokuziphatha we-godfather nomama ozayo nakho kubalulekile. Akufanele basebenzise izidakamizwa, baphuze utshwala, noma baphile impilo yobungqingili. Konke lokhu kufakazela ukungazinzi kokuziphatha kwabantu. Abazali abanjalo ngeke bakwazi ukufundisa abafundi babo okuhle.

Usanda kubhapathizwa nini?

Impendulo ilula: izinsuku ezingamashumi amane ngemva kokuzalwa kwengane. Kodwa akunandaba. Abanye abazali abafezi lo mkhosi, beshiya ingane esikhathini esizayo ilungelo lokukhetha ukuthi bafike ekukholweni noma cha. Abanye bafuna ukushiya inqubo yokubhapathizwa kuze kube sekupheleni kwengane.

Umkhosi wokubhapathizwa kanjani?

Manje uyazi lapho ingane isanda kubhapathizwa. Kodwa umkhosi ngokwawo udlula kanjani? Ngaphezulu kwengane umpristi ufunda imithandazo, ayigcoba ngamafutha akhethekile. Khona-ke umntwana ushelwa kathathu emanzini angcwele. Emva kwalokho, ingane inikezwa igama elisha. Ngokuvamile kuvame ukubizwa nge-saint umkhosi wakhe owela ngosuku lwe-christening. Lolu suku lubhekwa njengosuku lokuzalwa lwesibili. Ngaphezu kwalokho okudingeka ukwazi uma usanda kubhapathizwa, indlela umkhosi uhamba ngayo, udinga ukuthatha izinto ezithile nawe. Lokhu ikakhulukazi isiphambano nethawula enkulu (noma ishidi). Uzodinga futhi isitifiketi sokuzalwa . Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ukubhapathizwa kuyisakramente, ngakho-ke abazali nabazali bakaNkulunkulu kuphela abakhona kuwo.

Ukubhapathizwa kuyinto idili elincane!

Ngentando, ungakwazi ukugubha ukuqedwa komkhosi ngezingoma zesonto - akuvunyelwe. Kuyinto evamile ukunikeza izipho ngosuku lokuzalwa, njengosuku lokuzalwa. Ngesinye isikhathi abanye ozala uNkulunkulu bakhokhela umkhosi - lesi yisipho sabo kumfundi. Bonke abanye abantu banganikela ngemathoyizi yengane noma izinto zasendlini.