Okufanele ukwenze ehlobo edolobhaneni? Rest!

"Yini okufanele ngiyenze ehlobo edolobhaneni?" - inkinga ekhathaza izakhamuzi amaningi angekho impilo "lilihle" yasemakhaya. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, bakulungele uhlangane nemvelo. Ngakolunye, ngempela kufanele, cabanga lukhulu kangakanani ukuchitha ehlobo emaphandleni kude amanzi, i-Inthanethi, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho TV. Kusukela umbono wami, umbuzo zingaphendulwa ngegama elilodwa nje: "Rest!". Enye into ukuthi umqondo welithi "ukuphumula" kunencazelo ehlukile ngamunye wethu. Ukuze umakhelwane wami, plumber umalume Vasya, uhambo nezinye edolobhaneni - uhlale iholidi. Lokhu kusho ukuthi izinsuku ezinye awukwazi ukuya emsebenzini, futhi ngenxa yalokho, musa egcina ngokwakha ukuthatha "ketshezi oludakayo zokukhiqiza wendawo," ngokuba "moonshine" yasendulo ukusho igama. Baba Ukholo uthanda ukuya emzaneni ngoba utsandza "uswebezane" kusayithi - yokumba, Ukukhipha, ehlambulula, bese ngeqholo ukubonisa maladaptive izakhamizi ezisemadolobheni utamatisi kanye amakhabe, okuyinto ubekhulisa yena. By the way, nomzukulu wakhe, a Nina ngonyaka nanhlanu ubudala, futhi, ubumnandi ekade ikhwela kulo nelifakwe ekhaya elincane kagogo wakhe. Ngambuza ngalokho ongakwenza ehlobo kule ndawo. Nina blushed, kodwa wabe esethi, "Awu, ukuhamba, ukukhuluma ngokuvamile ....". Njengoba yahunyushelwa olimini ngolimi olulula, lokhu kwakusho ukuthi, ngokungafani abazali babo, ugogo ubiza ekhaya lakhe ngesikhathi 22.00. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kukhona Ninki Admirer ngubani nje ngeke ukulinda, uma uzofika, futhi uzimisele ukulalela izwi lakhe kuwo wonke amazwi. Ekugcineni, edolobhaneni, lapho kuyadingeka ukuze uthole ezimbalwa, kodwa phakathi kwezithunjwa kukhona abantu Ninkinogo ubudala, phakathi kwabo-ke ngokungangabazeki trendsetter. Kumnandi ukuzizwa umuntu wokuqala, noma kunalokho owesifazane, emaphandleni. Kodwa sina, yini okufanele uyenze ehlobo edolobhaneni?

Sisebenza phezu

Uke sekuqhubeke ukufunda isiNgisi? Ulungela ukuya ekolishi? Noma ufuna wokufundwayo uthule? indawo Ingcono emzaneni, akatholakali. Mina ngeke yisho emoyeni opholile, ngokoqobo isebenze umsebenzi ingqondo yethu ukhathele ukucindezeleka ezisemadolobheni. Edolobhaneni, ungaya ulale, uvuke ngasekupheleni (noma intombi kowesilisa), bese kunokuthula nokuzola, abahlukaniswe kuphela mooing kanye iqhude izidalwa eziphilayo kancane eyaziwa, ukufunda izinto obuzenza isikhathi esingaphezu konyaka. Okufanele ukwenze ehlobo edolobhaneni? Google ezemidlalo, ukubhala izinkondlo nje ukwenza izizinda eside, ekuthandeni ezimfundeni noma amahlathi.

lechimsya

Umoya opholile kanye ukuzola yasemakhaya udambise ukucindezeleka, umfutho amasosha omzimba. Zama ukuze ungeze kule ukudla emfashinini, kodwa elula esihlwabusayo angadle ngabuhle obutheni, lihlale unpasteurized, nje "ikhiqizwa ubisi izinkomo, ukushaja noma ukuhamba, okhandlayo. Uzothola ukuthi ungakwazi ukuqeda izifo eziningi ezisukela komzimba ziphethe yokuthi umuzi ubizwa ngokuthi "fed up." Awu nesithukuthezi edolobhaneni isidalwa ukunethezeka, ungakwazi ubukeza ukuphila kwakho, ka sivumelanisa imicabango nemizwa ukuze nempilo. Khona-ke, ngemva kokuphindela, sizokwazi namabutho entsha ukuze shí okumatasa komuzi. Okwamanje, ungakwazi ukubhukuda, ukuthamela ilanga, sicathulo futhi uthole injabulo yokuthi ngeke ukushesha.

ukusiza

Okufanele ukwenze ehlobo edolobhaneni? Siza nogogo nomkhulu bayo. Ngazi umuntu akathandi sika utshani, kanye umkhulu wakhe ukulungisa kocingo noma ususe indlwana (kuyathakazelisa zisaphakeme emizaneni?). Cabanga nje ngalokhu: iminyaka namanje ambalwa, futhi nawe iyoba babazali bakho. Kungazelelwe, nabazukulu bakho ngeke ufuna ukukusiza? Okufanele ukwenze ehlobo edolobhaneni? Phumula futhi umsebenzi, ukwakha kanye Ukuhlakula ukhula, ukuhlangabezana nasekuxhumaneni futhi ukusiza ukuze siphumuze ingqondo, asonge izandla ukusebenza ngokwakho, ukujabulela imvelo futhi ngizithola emzini. Kafushane, siphile futhi ujabule.