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Isiqhwaga - njengoba kufanele kube njalo?

Omunye omkhulu usinamathelise impilo nolaka bespectacled wathi: "Yebo, ngiyakwazi ukugwinya GUTS yakho!". Yeka umoya oqinile indoda waphendula ngomoya ophansi, "Kuleso simo, isisu sakho kuyodingeka ubuchopho ezingaphezu kuka ekhanda lakho." Kulesi anecdote yaphelela lembula izinga ubuntu namandla. Akukona kufanele ngokwenyama akhishwa fighter. Yiqiniso, "IQ imisipha musa konakalisa," kodwa ngaphandle kwabo kungaba ziyaphuma enqobile kusuka eziningi izinkinga zokuphila. Inkomba lokuqala amandla yisibindi. Hhayi nokuziqhenya kuphenduke ukuqhosha abayiziphukuphuku nabangahlakaniphile saber kugedlezela, okungukuthi, ukukholelwa ngokwakho njengomuntu.

Lona isidingo ababuthakathaka ukuba uzitholele wonke umuntu ukuthi sinamandla futhi benesibindi. Ngenxa lolu hlobo ukuhlazeka abanye nokuzama ukukhuphuka umqansa emehlweni akhe kanye nemibono yalabanye, bese uzama kaningi ukusenza esemathinini emphinjeni ukufakazela icala labo. isiqhwaga - ubuntu "yena". Lokhu akusho ukuthi nguye - zobugovu noma ezintweni ezikwenza egomaniac. Wavele akaphili "ifasitela sigqoka." Uyazi ukuthi ungubani. namandla akhe nemandla emphilo akhipha ukuzethemba, futhi ngala magagasi amandla bamba emhlabeni, ngisho nobe loyo muntfu buthule. Ukwazi kahle lokho afuna futhi uya emgomweni wakhe, naphezu kwezithiyo. Futhi lokhu kubonisa izinga elilandelayo wakhe.

Le ndoda enamandla akuyona besaba ukwehluleka. Ngokwemvelo, uzama ukugwema kubo - lapho can. Ngezinye izikhathi wayekhathala bayawenza amaphutha. Ngezinye izikhathi ehlupheka fiasco. Kodwa ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuba ngivuke emva kokuwa, futhi isibindi ukuze uqhubeke. Abantu abaningi ukuzwa ngokujulile ukwehluleka kwabo: aqeqesha babahudulela yonkana indlela yokuphila. Siyesaba ukuhlangabezana nentombazane, ngoba yangaphambili kithi yokwedelela wenqaba. Leli cala iva ihlala enhliziyweni, abuyisa kithi izinto zesikhathi esidlule, samanje, ushevu wayencisha esizayo. Umuntu kokuba inqaba kwangaphakathi, engaphezulu ukwehluleka, kufanele kube umgomo futhi esikhathini esizayo, akahlalanga isikhathi esidlule.

isiqhwaga - a lale. Akafuni egqoke rainbow izibuko, kodwa yazi ngokucacile izimfanelo zabo emihle nemibi. Zonke Engcebweni yakhe yena wazikhuluma inhlanganisela nenhlanhla ngaphansi kwezimo ezinzima, futhi ukwehluleka Ukuthuka yena. Nokho, umuntu onjalo icala ukuqaphela ngokuhlakanipha, hhayi ngokomzwelo, okungukuthi, kungaqali ukuba waziphatha nokuzibhaxabula, futhi sihlaziye isimo, ukukhomba lapho wenza iphutha futhi afunde izifundo lekusasa. Ukuzithuthukisa wena ngokweqile ukuhoxisa njengoba izinyembezi ukuzidabukela - sadlala isikhathi nomzamo ukuba laba bantu. Bamane iya ku umgomo wabo. Futhi, akazange uqale alidlalele phezulu ngiziqhayise impumelelo yakhe - udumo kangcono ngaphandle ngezindumiso ngokwabo.

Indoda eyisidlakela akusho ukuzifanisa nabanye. Yakhe emhlabeni kwangaphakathi futhi ngakho wazi kahle. Yena ezishukumisa akuvumi ukuthi kungaba nakakhulu kunabanye - ngokuvamile, yebo, hhayi ezinye izimfanelo. Ngakolunye, akabe kuphela ngokwalokho abakufunayo ukumcabanga hamba ukukhombisa ukuthi. Iyasihlonipha ngamunye nezwe lakhe elingaphakathi, ukulungele ukulalela iseluleko, kodwa umbono wokugcina ongumgqugquzeli wawo. Yena ngokwakhe ungumdali ikusasa lakhe. Umuntu onjalo eya umgomo ngokuphepha nangekutetsemba, futhi kusukela kwezimo ezinzima futhi ukushiyeka akazange alahlekelwe inhliziyo.

Indoda eyisidlakela akukuniki isibambo. Ugcina imizwelo yakhe ngaphansi kolawulo. Ezinjalo umuntu ngaso sonke isikhathi njengokungathi sizibuza: Ingabe ngenza okulungile? okungukuthi ngesisekelo ukuthandwa kwami nangakuthandi umuntu othize? Musa uholwe intukuthelo kimi? Abantu abanjalo livulekele nabanye - bazimisele ukuthethelela, kulula ukukhohlwa namagqubu. Ukuba banamandla, bavame ukusekela isinamumva. Futhi lokhu ukuzinza, isithunzi ubukele kwemizwa omuhle ngabanye. A elula eqinile, bakubheka njengobuthakathaka ngokuphelele ehola. Umholi ozalwa, ngokungafani upstarts kobushiqela, akudingeki ukuba ukuhlonza yokukhulekela, ukuthopha, futhi ukuhlazeka yabanye - ngakho uyazi ukuthi kuthatha.

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