Self-kulinywe, Psychology
Indlela ukubeka endaweni kwenceku? abaphathi Ubuhlobo nalabo abangaphansi
Imibuzo mayelana nokuziphatha kwezamabhizinisi namuhla ehlobene kakhulu kunanini ngaphambili. ukuthuthukisa ukuphathwa kwabasebenzi isibe umsebenzi. Wonke umuntu ukhuluma ngani ngokugqugquzela isici womuntu. Ukuze ezihlukahlukene, kulesi sihloko ngingathanda ukuxoxa isihloko umthengi zengqondo subordinated ekhanda.
Mhlawumbe, noma yimuphi umphathi kuyaye kamuva beveza umbono ukuthi isetshenziswa. Futhi echwepheshile manipulator, le kamuva ukucabanga kuphakama. Futhi khona-ke kuphakama umbuzo olandelayo, indlela ukubeka endaweni okhonzile.
Kuzokwenzekani induna
Ngokuvamile, kukhona zokukhwabanisa yekwentiwa. Ake sihlole lwezinhlobo ezivame kakhulu Dodgers nabo.
- Labo njalo ecela kwamaholo kanye neminye imihlomulo. Lokhu abashayeli siqu ngokuvamile. Cishe njalo abasenzela imisebenzi ethile eyengeziwe ngalolo Abut. izikhalazo Ifanele kokuthi lesi sifo sihlobene, ukubonakaliswa ukuzinikela eziwubukhazikhazi futhi ukuthopha fulsome kakhulu. Njengoba kufanele uyeke ngokuphelele ubudlelwane ngokushesha, waze wawuthola umuntu ngoba izinzuzo extra ngizamhuga wesigxavuni bakho ukuthola ngawe kakhulu. Futhi ungakhathazeki ucu aluhlangani ubudlelwane "efudumele" ke kungaba nakakhulu.
- Manipulation yokwenziwa yi izikhalazo engapheli nezimo zokuphila ezingezinhle, impilo ebuthaka nasesiyaluyalwini emkhayeni. Ngezinye ngiyibona lokuqala nokuguqulwa ukusiza, "ngesizotha" wenqaba, kodwa kunjalo yokuzibeka "Kazan intandane" namanje ingabe ungaphuthelwa. Ikholi "isihawu into engeyinhle" nokufunda inkulumo pitying. Yini okumelwe uyenze? Ngaphambi you sukela ukusiza, unganqikazi ukucela nemibhalo eyesekayo. Ngokwesibonelo, isitifiketi, uma kuyisifo. -Charity kumele kube nengqondo.
- Izikhundla "by ukuphikisana". Isisebenzi njalo kwaba phambili imisebenzi futhi uyenqaba nezibonelelo ezengeziwe. "Human Resource Management" futhi enjalo ayidingekile. Yini bamangala kuqala, bese uthando, bese - isidingo benzenjani. Kulokhu, umdlalo ubizwa ngokuthi "niqinile wethu kimi - okwami" ". Nalo-ke uhlobo Ngingumfana wemfanelo" noma
Uyakholwa ngempela ukuthi lokho? Bonke abantu - abaphathi, abangaphansi - umsebenzi imali, kodwa degrees wokwaneliseka obuhlukahlukene. Khuluma nomsebenzi. Zama ukuthola isisusa kweqiniso. Recognition e ngokuhlanganyela? Noma nje kumaka kusayithi lakho? Qaphela. Futhi khumbula - umuntu akunika kulapho afuna.
Nge uthando "umphathi"
Indlela ukubeka yisigqila indawo, lapho ubonisa ukwethembeka ngokuqinile?
Akusiyo imfihlo ukuthi iyiphi ukuthopha collective ezivamile zonke izinhlobo zawo futhi ukubonakaliswa. Lapho siba izisulu ezilula ukuze le nkinga, ngcono sithenga ku amanye amaqhinga alula. Ingabe ucabanga ukuthi ungumpetha okungcono ngempela? Yini iphesenti iqiniso emazwini uyisigqila? Uma lutho udideke noma okuphazamisayo - mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi ukuqedela nokuqeqesha kwabo ukukhula siqu futhi sibheke isimo ngokufanele?
Kwenzeka ukuthi isigqila ngokungagwegwesi uyakukhathalela. Yebo, zonke lezi zinto, futhi uthando endaweni yokusebenza lungatholwa. Kodwa i romance ehhovisi - ibhomu isikhathi, awazi ukuthi ngasiphi iphuzu qhumisa. Cabanga izikhathi eziningi ngaphambi kokuba sihileleke ohlotsheni "hazing" ubudlelwano abangaphansi. Cishe, wena noma omunye, manje noma ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kufanele ashintshe umsebenzi.
Ngaphezu kulezi zimo ezingenhla, inhloko ngosuku kufanele "ukuxazulula" kwalasha zezinkinga amancane sina okuletha umsebenzi abangaphansi. Kuzo zonke izimo, kuyokusiza ulwazi aphansi kwengqondo yomuntu futhi kuvisisa indlela nobani ukuba 'ulwe. " Uhlobo ngalunye abangaphansi - isitayela sakhe zokuxhumana. Ngakho, iziphi zalezi zinhlobo?
Abantu kanye buso
"Irreplaceable." Wamukela zonke esikhundleni bese ushintsha. Ngokuvamile ayenzi umsebenzi walo. Proud ukuthi wonke angenza kanjalo. Uyabuqonda kahle. Uyazi igama elithi "isidingo."
"Ize" - kuthatha isinqumo ngaleli cala kuphela uma ungakwazi ukubukisa zabo "Mina". Ngakho-ke akusho anqikaze umsebenzi wezenhlalakahle. Vanity zingenziwa ukwenza lutho, kodwa kudingeka sigcine ngaphakathi kwemingcele.
"Kwenzeni umkhuba." Ifeza umphumela nganoma iyiphi indlela. Zonke izifundo ukusebenzisa, kodwa kancane ngokweqile, akakwazi ukucabanga enkulu. kuveza Eside uyazicabangela ezingadingekile. Gada lokhu akudingekile, kodwa kudingeka ukuba sizibekele imigomo efinyelelekayo futhi ukuchaza ngokuningiliziwe yonke.
Futhi okwamanje?
"Ongasimeme". Bayalithakasela Isasasa Esinalo umsebenzi agqoke ke sivale. Kuyinto kuphela lapho umsebenzi ayithandayo. Kudingeka "Shake" futhi zihlale ziyisikhumbuzo imithwalo yakhe yemfanelo siqu. Lena akuyona engadingekile ukuba ngokucacile linqume uhlaka isikhathi.
"Ibhizinisi." Emsebenzini, akuvamile. Njalo endaweni ethile noma ihlezi endaweni ethile ngokushesha. Ngakho kungenzeka futhi kudingekile ukuphathisa ukumela uMnyango wakhe koxhumana zangaphandle. Nikeza umsebenzi okuningi nomphakathi. Futhi ukuze siqiniseke ukuthi ngaso sonke isikhathi yena namanje uvele on emsebenzini yabo.
"Isigungu seziPhathimandla". Yena uthanda ukufundisa zonke futhi akakubekezeleli nokungahloniphi. Njengomthetho, laba bantu abadala. Shaja kuye indima zokweluleka, egcizelela enkulu yebhizinisi yokuphila nezimo aphila ngaphansi. Yiphathe ngokunakekela futhi ngenhlonipho waveza.
Ngaphezu kwalokho ...
"Zaorganizovanny". Liyakushintsha konke ulandele iziyalezo ezikuyo. Ukuphathisa Disain le nkinga, isibonelo, ifolda nge imibhalo angenayo naphumayo. Futhi ngokushesha azizwa kufanelekile.
"Eshu." iqala Umsebenzi kuka emva ambalwa izikhumbuzo. nencazelo ekhethekile uma izenzo zabo abakwazi ukubona, akudingi impendulo. simo esidabukisayo.
"Abasunguli". konke Nesithakazelo isebenza ngokushesha futhi nangobuchule. Izimo zethu zihluke kakhulu abasengozini ungeme ukuzivumelanisa nezimo. Kuhlonipha ukwethembeka nokuvuleka. Kuyinto abadinga ukuqashelwa nokusekelwa ebucayi. Bambisana naye, egcizelela wakhe ohlukile futhi Irreplaceable, ungazami yamshukumisela ukuba wenqabe umqondo. Khona-ke uyobe izintaba.
Nokho, singakwazi kanjani ukugcina endaweni kwenceku?
Nanka amanye amathiphu ukuthi ziwusizo kunoma umphathi.
Kukhona ongaphansi, kahle ukufuya lokhonako ngesikhathi kancane ukugxekwa iwela ubudlova. Ngo esithambile futhi usentekenteke Chief (ikakhulukazi abaholi besifazane) ukuxhumana abangaphansi yalolu hlobo - kuyinkinga real. Ingabe nesilingo njalo "Ukulungisa" esingakhela kuyo ingxoxo yethu onjalo edabukisayo. Kodwa kungcono ukuya ngqo iphuzu. Ngesizotha futhi ngokuqinile aveze amaphutha kanye baphawula. Khona ngokugcwele ulalele izaba, ngokuvamile intukuthelo futhi imizamo ukubeka ngecala izimo kanye besithathu. Hlale uzolile. Ungazivumeli ukuba sishiye Into esemqoka - umbuzo kanjani yena uya alungise amaphutha.
Esinye isimo - emva nengxoxo ezingemnandi uvumele ngokwakho ambalwa amazwi enobungane. Futhi saqonda ukuthi zonke ukugxekwa ngokushesha ukhohlwe, okwatholakala alwenziwa. Yena zedlula udumo. Kulokhu kungcono esikhundleni amazwi abstract of ukwesekwa ukuhlaziywa ngokuhlakanipha isimo samanje kanye search for version ukulungiswa. Nceku Kumele sifunde ingxoxo iziphetho ezakhayo.
Imizwelo kanye ukungabikho yabo
Isisebenzi wathula lapho ukugxekwa yakho. Awunayo uthole impendulo ukuthi ecasulayo futhi ngithukuthele. Zama ukubhekana nalo ngokushada indlela yakhe. Ungahlanganyeli ekuziphatheni nezingxoxo ezinde, baveze ufushanise futhi lihlaba esikhonkosini, bese okudingeka uyiphendule. Buthule ukulinda indlela asabela ngayo. Into esemqoka - musa ukuphatha ukwenza kucace ukuthi ukuhamba, hhayi ukucacisa isimo.
Ukuphendula ukugxekwa abangaphansi (ngokuvamile abesifazane) usabela kakhulu ngokomzwelo futhi nokukhala. Ingxoxo has ukugoqwa futhi alethe ngokucacile kudingekile musa ukufika lapho uya khona. Kulokhu, ukuthi ukubeka endaweni kwenceku?
Izinyembezi - iqhinga elikhulu. Uma wakwazi esisodwa - a Sob ehhovisi iyokwenzeka isidingo kancane futhi ngaphandle kwalo. Ungavumeli ungqongqoze ngokwakho udidekile. Misa isikhashana bese ubuza ngeduku. Khona-ke qhubeka lowo mcabango. Ithi yonke into oyidingayo futhi okungenani ibe isithembiso sokulungisa isimo. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi manje wena into zokukhwabanisa.
Ngokuthi "ekhaphethini" inceku wajikijela kwesokudla kufanelekile ehhovisi. Vala umnyango - ababukeli ukuthi yini. Zama ukuqonda ukuthi ngakho bakhe ubuhlungu. Uma kungekho amacala athile, mhlawumbe abantu nje zeqe sindisa ukungezwani sezinzwa noma izinkinga ngokuphelele nezingahlobene nendaba. Ekujuleni okushiwo simo, zama (in the case of esizwakalayo) ukuze alungise leso simo, uma kwakuxhomeke wena. Yiqiniso, akulula ukuqhubeka ngizolile. Kodwa khumbula ukuthi intukuthelo, njengoba umthetho, akubukwana kuwe. Futhi akukho zicasulwe ukuthi.
Uma iphini uziphatha ngendlela engafanelekile
Ucabanga ukuthi umsizi wakho yeningi kakhulu futhi kunikeza abasebenzi eziningi inkululeko. Unakho futhi ukuhlanza. Indlela efanele zisebenzisa isimo? Futhi kungani kungenjalo ukwabelana nabo ngenkinga yokukhathazeka? Ubatshele ukuthi isebenza kahle. Kodwa umthwalo yabo isitayela ubuholi ziyothwala ngokuphelele yena. Ngaphambi uthathe isinyathelo, qiniseka ukuthi inkinga ikhona ngempela.
Okuphambene isimo - Isekela ezinhle njengoba abanemisebenzi, kodwa ezinzima futhi ebuhlungu. Imizamo ukuxoxa ingaphumeleli, njengoba akacabangi ke inkinga. abaphathi Ubuhlobo nalabo abangaphansi, kulesi simo imbangela umonakalo. Yini engenziwa kuleso simo?
abantu Rude bakuthola kunzima ukuqonda ukuthi kungani ukuba nozwela. Futhi kungani kufanele obakhathalelayo. Indlela abasabela ngayo ezimweni ezithile futhi ubonise ukuthi kwenzeka kanjani ukuthi ukuxazulula inkinga izindlela 'soft' ka kubelula futhi kusebenze kahle. Musa overload ithiyori, wena nje abaqondi. Kuzothatha isikhathi, kodwa nesimo esihle kule team kuyazuzisa yini ngempela.
Induna - ubaba
Okufanele ukwenze lapho abangaphansi ziphathwa ngemibuzo bemvelo siqu? Ayikho into engenziwa - Yizwa futhi kwenza umoya basamukela. Qonda kanye ukulungela ukusiza. Ungayithathi kalula inkinga futhi musa uzozenza umahluleli. Siza ulwazi oluwusizo hhayi iseluleko khulula. Ukuhlinzeka amathuba usizo lwangempela.
Slave - emihle okhalazayo futhi hlala. Uma izizathu izikhalazo zihlale ezahlukene, mhlawumbe, endabeni ukuntuleka ukunakwa. Tshela kakhulu yomsebenzi wakhe omuhle. Mhlawumbe uzamcolo izikhalazo kwehle. - uma kungenjalo, chaza ukuthi zimatasa futhi awukwazi njalo uphazamiseka. Kufanele ubuye ngemva kwesikhashana. Ngakho, ungakwazi kwenziwe cishe ngokuphelele kude nezikhalo.
Ngokuvamile, isihloko "Ubuholi kanye abangaphansi" ongashi. Esimweni ngasinye kudinga indlela ngamunye.
Cabanga nesisusa
Nawa amathiphu ezinhlanu ezibalulekile ekhanda, befuna ukwandisa nogqozi umsebenzi.
- Kwakha inkinga ngokucacile ukuba abangaphansi ukuqonda lokho okulindeleke kuzo.
- Uma kungenzeka, umsebenzi car- khathazeke umsebenzi evumelana naye kakhulu.
- Uqiniseke ukuthi abasebenzi ziyaqiniseka ikhono lakhe. Uma bengabaza ke, isisusa iphele.
- Ake ulwazi mayelana nalokho esiyokwenza kuleso naleso sigaba. Ungakhohlwa mayelana ukulinganisa namazwana.
- Ngemva kokuqeda ukubakhuthaza.
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