Yiziphi umndeni kanye namasiko emndenini wakho?

Wake wacabanga phezu yiziphi umkhaya? Noma ingabe nawe, njengoSawulu abaningi abantu bakithi, futhi, ucabanga ukuthi le nkinga akufanele ukunakekelwa okukhethekile, futhi nokuba akuhlele impendulo amandla ngisho umfundi esikoleni esiphakeme?

Uma senza kanjalo, mawusheshe ukuniqinisekisa ukuthi wena empeleni okungalungile, ngoba ngisho yesimanje ochwepheshe omuhle kakhulu idumela futhi enkulu nakho ngemva kwakhe baphikisa ngokuthi incazelo yaleli umqondo okungukuthi akulula njengoba kungase kubonakale ekuqaleni shazi.

Lesi sihloko nje ihlose ukusho ukuthi imindeni, uyini umehluko futhi kungakanani nomthelela ekwakhekeni amasiko abo futhi izisekelo zenkolo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umfundi uyothola eziningi imininingwane ewusizo mayelana namasiko engavamile nokuphila kwansuku zonke kwabantu kwezinye izingxenye zomhlaba.

Yiziphi umkhaya?

Uyini umndeni? Okokuqala, kufanele kuphawulwe ukuthi lokhu gama elivame ukuqondwa ngayo njengoba uhlobo inyunyana abantu, ngokusekelwe nokuzwelana futhi (noma) umshado futhi kwesisekelo zokuziphatha futhi izindlu ngokuhlanganyela.

Kuye ukubunjwa ngomphakathi onjalo ngokuyinhloko ihlukaniswe elula eziyinkimbinkimbi, futhi esikhundleni salokho Izigaba eziningana. Ngokwesibonelo, umkhaya elula kusengathiwa aphansi uma yakhiwa amalungu amathathu: ubaba, umama nengane. Uma omunye umzali engekho, kuba junior. Uma izingane eziningana emndenini, emphakathini kungenzeka okuthiwa yayisemngceleni kwakwakhe.

Complicated noma umndeni zezinzalamizi, njengoba umthetho, aqukethe ezizukulwane eziningana. Kulokhu, ndawonye angazamukela ogogo nomkhulu, obabekazi nomalume, Devery nomfowabo nomalokazana nodadewabo, abafowethu nodadewethu.

Thatha ngesisekelo nendawo yokuhlala

Cishe akukho muntu ukucabanga ngijule kangaka, yini umndeni, kuye ngokuthi indawo yabo yokuhlala, kodwa umahluko onjalo futhi sikhona.

Ukuze Russia, libhekene ezingaphezu kuka imiphakathi matrilocal futhi patrilocal. Esimweni sokuqala, womkhaya osemncane uhlala nabazali bakhe unkosikazi, okwesibili - nabazali abasemzini. Kuleso simo, uma ube nenhlanhla ukuhambisa ngokushesha emva komshado emakubo, ungabiza neolokalnoy iyunithi.

Yini okungukuthi Swedish ubuhlobo? izici alandisa

Ekuzameni impendulo yombuzo walokho umndeni, abaningi kithi bacabanga ukuba khona ubudlelwane Swedish.

Kungani kwalolu mbimbi wathola leli gama, akwaziwa. Ezimweni eziningi, lokhu kwenzeka ngengozi. Ezikhathini zaseSoviet kwakukhona ngempela eyiphutha, njengoba okuhlangenwe nakho kuye kwabonisa, umbono wokuthi i-Yurophu baphile abantu abakhululiwe kakhulu abazimisele uzizamele zonke, kuhlanganise nemshado. Futhi okungukuthi kungani kuleli cala, ukukhetha ngokuwa phezu Nordic amazwe, has a kakhulu olandelanayo ukubukwa, imfihlakalo.

Ngakho, iziphi emasikweni umndeni kulesi simo? Phila ngaphansi kophahla efanayo ngesikhathi esisodwa ezintathu abantu bazo zombili izinhlobo zobulili. Kuyathakazelisa wazi ukuthi onjalo ubuhlobo akusho yiqembu ocansini. Phakathi kwamalungu yeseli esinikeziwe umphakathi, hlangothi nesibopho kaPlato. Nokho, Competitive futhi kuba into engavamile.

Kuyini isimo umndeni eRussia?

Ngomqondo onabile, imikhaya wezwe lethu kukhona ucishe efanayo, futhi iningi lezakhamuzi ukwabelana lula zazo ojabulayo futhi zingajabuli.

Iyini imfihlo ubuhlobo yimpumelelo? zokusebenza kwengqondo zanamuhla zithi isisekelo umkhaya ojabulayo kufanele enze ukudla ngokuhlanganyela (ukudla kwasemini kanye dinner), izinhlobo ezihlukahlukene zezindwangu ezingaba ezokungcebeleka, amaholide, izimfihlo kanye izimfihlakalo. Mayelana into yokuqala zonke ecacile. Kwabaningi bethu imibuthano ku koNyaka Omusha, nama-Easter baye eside kuyinsakavukela. Iningi baseRussia ayiswe ukuhlangabezana nalezi amaholide e eduze kwasekhaya.

Phendula umbuzo yini umndeni ekuchitheni isikhathi umbono, ngempela kalula. Ngezenzo ukufuna ukuba imali kakhulu isikhathi ngaphandle, sihehe ukudoba, yesikebhe, ngebhayisiki imidlalo nge ibhola, futhi yokwenziwa, okungukuthi nentshisekelo yokufunda, ukubukela ithelevishini, futhi ngenalithi. ERussia, naphezu kakhulu umatasa abazali, njengoba umthetho, uncamela ukusebenzisa imali yabo khulula isikhathi izingane zabo kanye nezinye izihlobo.

Iqiniso lokuthi amangqamuzana ethu kungukuthi ejwayele ukusebenzisa abezenhlalakahle, eqinisweni mhlawumbe usumisiwe. Ubani sithembele injabulo nosizi? Nokho, yebo, umndeni kanye nabathandekayo. Lokhu kubuye omunye amasiko ethu ezimisiwe.

Yini okufanele ukuboleka Europe?

Izinga lobugebengu Denmark uphansi kangangokuthi omama bendawo akesabi ukushiya ingane yabo emgwaqweni, njengoba beye wahlanganyela ngesikhathi nithenga noma eziphumulele nabangani phezu inkomishi yekhofi. Abesifazane kuleli zwe, akholelwa ukuthi ingane akuhlangene esitolo stuffy, kungcono ukuthola umoya opholile kanye ukugcina ngesihlalo sabakhubazekile emnyango.

UK kungamukelwa abelethe ekuseni. Imibhangqwana bakholelwa ukuthi ubudala eliphezulu kokuzalwa komntwana wokuqala - iminyaka 38-39, futhi ngezinye izikhathi yonke 40. Kungani? Into wukuthi British ezinhle abakholelwa ukuthi imfundo enhle indodana noma indodakazi yakhe kuphela ngomunye onesifo imilenze ukuma ngokuya sezimali futhi umsebenzi.

Wedding ebusuku e-Albania ingahlala izinsuku ezintathu. Sonke lesi sikhathi, umakoti kufanele bavumele noma iyiphi ukuncenga nengxenye yayo yesibili. Kuphela kuleli cala okwengeziwe beshadile uyojabula futhi serene.

UKwenza iZinto ngeNdlela eNgakajayeleki amasiko akini izwe: Asia nase-Afrika

umndeni ngamunye ekhethekile. Kungani? Into wukuthi kuzo zonke iyunithi lokho okubizwa ngomlobokazi umphakathi ukuthi abeke isigxivizo yasendaweni amasiko, amasiko nezemfundo.

Yingakho kunzima kangaka ngezinye izikhathi ukuqonda Japanese, Chinese, noma, engiyishoyo, abakhileyo amazwe ase-Afrika. Ngomqondo onabile, ungachitha amahora bekhuluma mayelana nezimo ezihlukile ubudlelwano emndenini, iziphi izici futhi kungani laba bantu behave fana lesi. Ake senze izibonelo ezimbalwa.

Akuwona wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi e-Kenya, omama akuvamile bheka emehlweni ingane yabo. Kukholakala ukuthi sihlolisise uyakwazi ukuba anqotshwe intando ingane, futhi kugwenywe kuchumana ngemehlo uyakwazi ukuveza ubuntu futhi bekwazi. By the way, e-Kenya okufanayo ngenyanga emva komshado, indoda ine ukugqoka umkakhe. Kungani? Kukholakala ukuthi Okuwukuphela kwendlela bazokwazi bona ukuthi kunzima kangakanani inani abesifazane kuleli lizwe.

Umndeni-Korean esidlweni umkhaya, wenza slurp elikhulu. Abantu bendawo bakholelwa ukuthi lokhu kwenziwa kanjani ungenza kwacaca uwayehlalise okuthandayo ukupheka wakhe.