Self-kulinywe, Psychology
Yithemba - kungcono isimo?
Vumelanani ngokuthi, yini engenzeka empilweni. Ngesinye isikhathi esededelwe, izinsuku ziqala ukuvela kuba mnyama, futhi izinto evamile, okuyindawo oye wajabulela njalo, siyeke ukuba yiyo. Ekugcineni, izinkinga wabonakala trifles suschimi babe umthwalo bayehluleka ngekwetimali. Iza yithemba: isiphetho uyaqhubeka baphonse udweshu ngawo ukuze ubhekane nasengqondweni kunzima kakhulu. Mhlawumbe abaningi kithi Ngezikhathi ezinjalo, vakashela mcabango: "Angikwazi ukwenza lutho kulesi simo, kungcono ukuphela efile!"
umuzwa njalo ukuthi umugqa omnyama akakwazi ukubhekana, nje ephazamisayo! Ajwayelekile? Yithemba - lokhu ukudabuka, ukucindezeleka, ukungabi nandaba, ukungabi namandla ukuze siqhubekele phambili. Kulesi isimo esingokomzwelo akunakwenzeka ukusebenza, sijabulele ukuphila, kangangokuba sokuvuma - ukuphila, ngezinye izikhathi, ungafuni.
enza isono esibi kakhulu
It is wayevame ukuthi yithemba - kuyisono. Kungani kukhona inkolelo enjalo? Okokuqala, ngokwenkolo yobuKristu, yithemba - kungcono ukuntula ukholo kuNkulunkulu, ngoba umuntu ngesikhathi esifanayo onga yena, futhi iyeke ukuncika emandleni aphakeme. Okwesibili, isimo esinjalo kungaholela ezinkingeni eziningi, futhi ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu kunazo - ukuletha umuntu ukuzibulala. Futhi lokhu, ngokuvumelana ubuKristu - isono enamandla kakhulu ongazenza, ngoba ayikho indlela ukuze sicele intethelelo ngesenzo sakhe leNkosi phakathi nokuphila kwakhe.
Futhi kunenkolelo ukuthi isimo esinjalo elahla omnipotence kaNkulunkulu futhi libonisa ukuthi umphefumulo womuntu ayilungele ukuthobeka. Ephelelwe ithemba - ukuziqhenya kwenhliziyo, ukukholelwa ukuthi kungenzeka ukubabela eKosini bebakholwe kulo benomfutho omusha.
Uma uzizwa isidingo, ukuya esontweni, imicabango kucace bese uzindla ngobukhulu obungaka bakaZimu - kuyoba lula. Khumbula, "emthandazweni ingukufa ukufikelwa ukudangala." Uma umuntu obuswa Ngenkathi ephelelwe ithemba, ungenawo akhononde, kungcono iphendukela eNkosini. Ngempela, umthandazo - yilokho nicela manje umphefumulo wakho.
Ngiyobonana nesazi sengqondo!
Okokuqala, naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi ngezikhathi zeziyaluyalu Ngifuna ukuba wedwa, kufanele ucabange ngokuvakashela wezengqondo. Abantu abaningi ngokungadingekile wesabe kudokotela wezifo, bekholelwa ukuthi bayakwazi ukuba sikhuthazelele noma iluphi usizi, futhi ngaphandle kosizo. Khumbula, yithemba - indlela eqinisekile ukucindezeleka, futhi lokhu lokuphazamiseka okukhulu kwengqondo uthatha eziningi ubungqabavu.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi iyiphi inkinga ukubonile arcade kuthabathela ecaleni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-sokusebenza kwengqondo abanolwazi liyadingeka ukuqhuba kokuhlolwa kaningana ngaphandle kwenzalo, ozokusiza ukuba uzazi kahle wena futhi sibhekane ngokuphumelelayo isishayo.
Yabelana ngomuzwa wakho
Uma ukushaywa kuchwepheshe ngasizathu simbe akunakwenzeka, enye indlela enhle ukuba banqobe yithemba - kangakanani ukuthola umuntu Ungalalela wena sinikeze iseluleko esihle. Ukuze ubuye wayovakashela umngane wakhe omdala, ushayele umngane omuhle - ingxoxo emnandi ezithinta wena njengomuntu iphilisi eliwumlingo. Ungagodli imizwa futhi ukwabelana ngemibono kubaluleke kakhulu - kulapho wena ugcine ukuzethemba, namandla ngeke sibe sibi isimo sakho kwengqondo.
No kancane ewusizo iwukugcina idayari, echaza nakho kwakhe ephepheni, futhi kamuva - ukuhlaziya bese uzama kancane kancane siqonde ukuthi kungani wena yenza ngokuphelelwa yithemba. Kanjani ukuba sikuqonde lokhu? Le ncwadi yezenzakalo kufanele uchaze hhayi kuphela izenzakalo endala, kodwa futhi imicabango akuvakashele ekhaya emini, zama ukuphendula le mibuzo: '? Yini Ngicabanga ngalesi simo "," Kungani mina ngikhathazeke kakhulu mayelana? "," Ingabe kufanele buqine kangangokuthi nethonya ekuphileni kwami? "," Ingabe ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwabaningi kangaka kulezi zenzakalo? "
Thembeka kuwe ngokwakho
Chitha imizwa yabo, wesaba ukubona ubuthakathaka bakhe - umsebenzi elingabongi. Kuyadingeka ukuba bavume ukuhlulwa, yima bese ubheka ukuphila kusukela ngaphandle: kusobala ukuthi kukhona okungahambanga kahle ngempela. Yibani njengabantu Thembeka kuwe ngokwakho bese uzama ngokungakhethi ukuhlola izimo zenzeka kuwe muva nje. Awudingi ukuba ukuzithethelela futhi olushaqisayo oluhloselwe ukuhlekisa ngombono wokuthi izinto akukubi kangako. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ngempela inkinga ukuze athole amakhambi.
Shona
Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi e izikhathi zokuphelelwa yithemba Ngifuna nokuvilapha, zamani ukuthi omunye angahlali ekhaya: Yenza gijima lula, ukuya amabhayisikobho, imidlalo yaseshashalazini noma embukisweni - udinga nje ngezikhathi ezithile ukuze ukubaqondisa into enhle. amandla Awesome bemvelo izosebenza: uma isikhathi sivuma, ungaya izintaba noma nje ahambe aphume edolobheni ehlathini - yokwanda ubungqabavu Ilungiselelwe kuwe!
Smile!
Yebo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi! Mhlawumbe ukhona omunye walaba bantu, okuyinto indlela odlule asiqondi: ecabanga isimo abampofu kuyonezela isimo sakho, futhi baphelelwe ithemba umboza wena ngomfutho ovuselelwe. Kulokhu, udinga nje ukubaleka futhi ukugcwalisa ukuphila ngemibala egqamile: bheka amahlaya, umdanso umculo omnandi ukudlala ikati noma inja - emomotheka yakho ngokushesha eyobonisa umzimba: "Kodwa konke kulungile!" Futhi ukuphila ingabe ngcono!
Kodwa mhlawumbe indlela ephumelela kakhulu ukubhekana nokudikibala - ukwenza into entsha, engavamile futhi crazy - ezivumela kweso aphume esibucayi. Besifuna ukwenza uyahlanya ukuthenga? Eqa nge-parachute? Noma mhlawumbe nje udle wonke ibhokisi ushokoledi ukubona ibhayisikobho silly wedwa? Manje - isikhathi esingcono!
Ifilosofi existentialism
Yithemba - akuyona nje igama elingase ukuchaza esigayegayeni. Naye futhi exhumene omunye ngefilosofi wesimanje - quietism ukuphelelwa yithemba. Udinga ukuqonda futhi sihlaziye ubuhlobo. Ngokuvamile, ngeNkathi Ephakathi lalibizwa quietism Katolika inhlangano yenkolo enamathela ucabangisisa, buka bathinteka zomhlaba. Ngomqondo ongokomfanekiso, livamile ngaphezulu - it is a ukuziphatha yokwenziwa lomuntu futhi incwadi yakhe yokusula emsebenzini.
Esikhathini eside kamuva, ngekhulu XX, e ifilosofi existentialism lalibukeka igama elithi "quietism ukuphelelwa yithemba." . Ngokokuqala ngqá sefilosofi zh P. Sartr awusebenzisa umsebenzi wakhe "existentialism - a zobuntu". Wayesho ukuthi quietism yokuphelelwa yithemba - isikhundla, uma le nkinga inga- ixazululwe, khona-ke alikho. Lokhu kunencazelo ejulile zefilosofi kungenziwa kuthathwe ngokuthi umkhuba enamandla ukwamukelwa futhi ulithumele ukuphila kwakho: mhlawumbe, ngempela, uma ukuthi izinkinga zakho ayikwazi ixazululwe - lena akuyona inkinga, futhi baphelelwe ithemba ngoba alikho ikhambi, it is akudingekile?
Ukuze sibonakalise kunoma iyiphi isimo, kufanele sizame ukulicubungula kusuka ezinhlangothini ezahlukene. Mhlawumbe kuyokusiza uthole ophumayo ezingalindelekile futhi baqaphele ukuthi zonke izinkinga - lawa trifles. Uma nje umuntu uyaphila, kungenziwa bonke ubunzima unqobe. ubuthakathaka ephelele kuphela kwenzeka ngaphambi kokufa, babuye le nqubo akunakwenzeka. Ngakho-ke kufanele sazise zonke mzuzu hhayi uchitha isikhathi ku imizwelo engakhi futhi nakho.
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