Wazi kanjani ukuthi wena umyeni ishintshile? Yini okumelwe uyenze?

Ngeshwa, ukukhashelwa umyeni wakhe - akuyona into engavamile ukuba imibhangqwana eminingi. Futhi le ndaba ingase ibe kokubili ehlelekile futhi okungahleliwe ngokuphelele (isib, ukuphinga ezenzeka esikhathini isimo lokudakwa oludakayo, ngomsebenzi nabangani). Kunenye uhlobo amadoda: khona intombi eseceleni unomphela abakholelwa lwemidlalo efanayo ekuphileni kwami, njengoba ukuba khona imoto, isibonelo (ukuqhathanisa okuhlaselayo, kodwa - ngokoqobo).

Kulokhu, akukho muntu Sane (okungaphezu kwalokho nengabe asifuni ukhuluma ngani ngokuzumayo, siqhamukile Ngalo mqondo) akafuni ukuba abhubhise umndeni izozama zonke indlela ukufihla iqiniso lokukhwabanisa. Ngisho lapho umkakhe eqala ukuba usola okuthile, ubizwa ukugoba ukuze bathethelele futhi unike iqiniso kwesidumbu. Kodwa zonke inkosikazi ifisa ukwazi ukuthi uqonde ukuthi umyeni wakho ishintshile. Lokhu kuzovumela siqu sakhe, ngaphandle kokulinda ukuba bavume ukuba adalule okungalungile futhi athathe izinyathelo ezifanele.

Wazi kanjani ukuthi wena umyeni ishintshile: Izimpawu

Amadoda bahluke nomunye, kanye abesifazane. Futhi bona bathi zonke ngandlela-thile liziphathe ngendlela efanayo lapho ufuna ukufihla ezamehlela zabo, kungaba okungalungile. Kodwa bonke abezindaba yabesifazane njengoba ipulani, ukuphindaphinda izimpawu ezifanayo zokungethembeki. Mhlawumbe abanye iqiniso e lokhu: umqondo womuntu is ngakho wahlela ukuba ngomzuzwanyana ingozi kubo bonke abantu bavame nabo baziphatha ngendlela efanayo. Wazi kanjani ukuthi wena umyeni ishintshile? Ngokusho umbono jikelele, ngezizathu ezifana:

1. kaningi ungekho ekhaya.
2. Ehlelekile futhi ongaziwa amakholi wefoni. On umbuzo: "Ubani" iza impendulo ngokusobala engaqinisekile futhi udidekile.
3. pretexts abahlukahlukene ngalo uzama abaleke ekhaya. Ikakhulukazi kufanele wazise ngokukhuphuka kwenani emihlanganweni, travel sokudla ibhizinisi.
4. "Izimpawu zobugebengu" Obvious: iphunga amakha, iminonjana lipstick, izinzipho, izindebe, SMS eziyinqaba, njll Kungaholela agumenti exculpatory, kodwa esinembile ukukhuluma lokuvukela umbuso.
5. Nokho wazi kanjani ukuthi umyeni wakho usushintshile? Lolu shintsho kwemizwelo. Kungakhathaliseki kulokho isiqondiso, kodwa kufanele waziswe.
6. amehlo akhe. Bhekisisa amehlo akhe, uma bengasibhekile ngqo, amehlo egijima, noma uthatha eceleni kwabo - liphinde omunye izimpawu ukukhwabanisa.

Umyeni ishintshile: kanjani ukubhekana naso

Wazi kahle ukuthi umngane wakho womshado ishintshile. Noma yimuphi umuntu wesimame uhlangabezana imizwa ezinzima ngesikhathi esifanayo. Kodwa-ke umbuzo uwukuthi, ukuthi wenzeni, okungukuthi, indlela yokuphila. Phela, njengasekuqaleni, ke asisakwazi efana, nendlela ehlukile? unkosikazi Wakhashelwa kubuhlungu ikakhulukazi uma uyabuthola ukukhashelwa double - uma umyeni ishintshile nesithandwa sami. Abanye lokhu nakho kunzima kangangokuthi ngisho ngomumo ukuzibulala. Kodwa kufanele sikhumbule njalo ukuthi konke sihamba, futhi ngeke sidlule. Ngakho-ke ukubutha amabutho akho, qinani besithunzi sakho liziphathe nomyeni wakhe (futhi umngane wakhe kakhulu) nokukhulumisana ngokukhululekile. Athi ngobuhlungu bakhe, imizwa, imizwa wanyathelwa. Tshela uzizwa kanjani manje ukuthi umhlaba wakho uyabhujiswa. Kodwa zama ukwenza kanjalo ngaphandle umhayizo, onokuthula (ngangokunokwenzeka) amathoni. Believe me, umyeni wami baxakeke, ngoba ulindele kungamanyala nkomoni ezihilela ukumangalelwa, izinsongo neziqalekiso. Futhi ukuziphatha kwakho kuwo "uzakuba-knock out of the sehhashi" futhi uyokwenza njengokungathi eshaweni abandayo. Mhlawumbe yena kuzoba isifundo, futhi lesi simo liyohlala phakade. Uma kungenjalo, kungani umuntu onjalo ukuba nawe ngaso sonke?