Ukukhaphela - My Story

Ngugobe izwi, ngezinye izikhathi ukuqhaqhazela, umphefumulo eya isithende, futhi phambi kuphela engaziwa. Kuzokwenzekani, futhi indlela yokuphila manje, awazi, kodwa kuphela simbe ngokwakho, isola umuntu wokuqala athembeke kuwe, khona-ke yena iqiniso lokuthi uye washintsha phakathi ungqimba ngokomzimba, okungukuthi, elele nomunye intombazane noma umfana .

Ngugobe kuzwakala isigwebo sentambo. Kuyinto ongaziwa ukuthi usesimweni esinjalo, uma ngidumele, abantu asakwazi ukunikeza iseluleko. Not yimuphi iseluleko kulesi simo ngeke kusize. Futhi ngokuvamile weluleka: ukuphonsa, ukukhohlwa, ukuze ushintshele komunye umuntu. Mhlawumbe othile nokusiza iseluleko esinjalo, yebo, uma lezi ubudlelwano ayihlali isikhathi eside, noma kwakungafanele sina. Futhi kuthiwani ngalabo abaye bahlakulela ngokushesha ngempela ubuhlobo eyathatha isikhathi eside, bese ukhaphela indoda, umane ushintshe.

Kwaba njalo kimi, ngahlangana nentombazane, ubuhlobo bethu eyathatha unyaka, ehlobo waya nezihlobo zakhe, wagijima. Ekuseni baqala nge kungamanyala, izingcingo babé ezingavamile njengoba izimvula ehlane, izwi ifoni cheeky, uhambo wakhe club, futhi kamuva waba umngane naye kushintsha ngokoqobo kimi.

Kamuva, yebo thina ukubuyisana futhi wanquma ukuqala azikhohlwe ngokuphelele izono zethu. Ngakho ukuthi yilokho engiyikho, kube izinyanga eziyisikhombisa kusukela ngakho wami ukukhuluma nhlekelele, kodwa ukufutheka akhashelwa aluphumeleli kuze kube manje, mhlawumbe ngenxa yokuthi Ngingumfana ngokweqile, futhi njalo ucabange ngakho. Ngisho waqala ukubhala incwadi, ngokuthi, Yindaba sokukhaphela. Ngabuka intombazane, eseneminyaka engaba ngama-ke musa ngisho ukukhumbula, kodwa ngokushesha nje lapho ifoni yami ikhala nezwi sowesifazane ekhishwe kuwo, ngakho-ke ngokushesha uqala ukuba nomona, kodwa nje iselula.

uzama nje ukuqhathanisa abantu nezilwane, futhi ngaphansi kwalesi foreshortening Wazama nokuchazela ukungathembeki zesifazane njengenhlangano nenshisekelo beyofuna besilisa onganikeza inzalo enhle. Nakuba futhi Ngeke ngiziphuce yokuthi abesifazane bebelokhu, kukhona, futhi ngeke, lapho afudumele, ethokomele nephephile, waphinda okuchitha ethandwa zithi amnandi futhi ezulwini phakathi kwezilenge. Mhlawumbe ngenxa yalelo zwi indawo uma itende ensimini.

Kodwa kwezinye izinto kanje futhi siphile lezi izinyanga eziyisikhombisa, Angazi kanjani ukuba ahlukane nalo, kodwa ngiyazi ukuthi akukho ukwenza ne ndoda owakhaphela ungafuni ukuba. Akukona nokuziqhenya somuntu, okungukuthi uma umuntu akazange athembeke kanye, bese isekhondi nengxenye yesithathu sizinikele ngokwengeziwe kuye akunzima.

Futhi ngabona ukuziphatha engajwayelekile, hhayi kuphela e intombi yakhe. Girls, lokhu sokweyisa unesikhwele bangakwazi buthule zibabaza ngesikhathi umngani wakho omkhulu, bese ucabanga kanjani futhi kuphi ukulala naye, futhi ngamabomu amanga kuwe iso, uyakuthanda. Kodwa kufanele ukhulume naye nomngane wakhe endala, kungaba kanjani ukuthi ukwenza kusuka indlovu impukane, kodwa ngoba yezihlubuki. Futhi ake uzame nje ukugembula konke torsion ukuze ngizoqala ukuba bakholelwe ukuthi basephutheni. Kodwa kuwufanele ukukhumbula umthetho eyodwa vo: "Lo kancane sithanda abesifazane, ikakhulu basithanda" ke konke uwela indawo.