Uma umuntu isiyakhashelwa futhi, ingabe lokhu kusho ukuthi ozakungikhaphela futhi?

Uma ushintshe intandokazi yakho kanye, kunethuba elihle ukuthi lokhu kuzokwenzeka futhi. Ngokocwaningo olusha, abantu ukukopela on abalingani bawo, izikhathi 3.5 ngaphezulu singashintsha abathandekayo babo kule ngokuqondene okulandelayo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, abantu abayizisulu ukungathembeki ubudlelwano esidlule, bavame ukuqiniseka ukuthi zabo wamkhohlisa futhi.

Ingabe nginomuzwa wokuthi kudlalwa ngami futhi?

Leso sifundo saqhutshwa e-University of Denver. Kwaba khona abangu-abantu 484 abaneminyaka ephakathi kwengu-18 no-34, labo abashade. Kuye kwatholakala ukuthi ukukhohlisa - kungcono nje omunye amamodeli we ubudlelwano ezibuhlungu.

Abantu ababeka esikhathini esidlule kuye kwadingeka ukuzwa ahluthuke, ngaphezu kwabanye nethuba ukuphinda. Lokhu kuhlola kwaveza ukuthi abalingani nolaka ngokwenyama, okungase uphakamise izwi lakho noma ukulwa kathathu maningi amathuba okuthi bakubekezelele ukuziphatha okunjalo phezu ubudlelwano elandelayo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo abalingani babo kungenzeka izikhathi ezinhlanu ukuba abe yizisulu futhi.

Ngeshwa, ukungathembeki lobuhlobo Kuyaziwa: 33% abesilisa kanye 19% abesifazane bavuma ukuthi ushintshe abalingani babo. Lokhu Ucwaningo lwenziwe ngo-2013, abantu 100,000 wathatha ingxenye kuwo.

izibalo

Ngokwe-Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, cishe owesifazane oyedwa ezine eke wabandakanyeka kudlame nguzakwethu yabo obuseduze. Lokhu kuhlanganisa ukuhlukumeza ngokomzimba kanye nokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi, ukuhlukumeza ubudlova ngokwengqondo.

Sithanda ukucabanga ukuthi singazuza isipiliyoni sethu futhi ngephutha, ikakhulukazi uma kuziwa uthando, njengoba besho abalobi cwaningo. Nokho, ucwaningo kudingeka okungaphezu kwalokho, kanye ukungenelela zokwelapha ukusiza abantu give up imikhuba emibi ebuhlotsheni. Ukwahlulela ngokubukeka izibalo elibuhlungu, singakwazi ngethemba nje ukuthi lokhu kuzosiza esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.