Uyini sicasulwa? Kuyini a ukucasuka othandana naye?

Mhlawumbe wonke umuntu uyazi kahle ukuthi avuse ezinjalo, ihlangabezane lesi simanga. Ngakho kanjani ukuqaphela ukuthi avuse, ukuze ufunde indlela yokubhekana nalesi simo?

Uyini sicasulwa?

Kuhunyushwe kusuka egameni lesi Latin "sicasulwa" kusho "inselele". Okungukuthi, izenzo okuhloswe ngazo ukuthola kusuka kunoma iyiphi wayithukuthelisa ukuphendula olulindelekile. Esikhathini sicasulwa kungenzeka ezihlukahlukene izisusa, kodwa litshwayo yayo kuhlale ukuthi ayiqukethe zithinta ngqo ukwenza isenzo olulindelekile.

Sicasulwa kwezombusazwe

Sicasulwa kabanzi lisetshenziswe ezombusazwe. Lapho omunye amaqembu awukwazi aphambane, isibonelo, isivumelwano samazwe onke ukuthi kuvame ukwenziwa ukuze wenza uhlangothi.

Isibonelo okuphawuleka sicasulwa zobuphekula. Amaphekula benze izenzo zobuphekula, hhayi ngenjongo yokubajezisela zona umuntu othile, bese ukuheha ukunakwa, mhlawumbe, ukushintsha umbuso ezimisiwe kuleli zwe.

ukucunula ngokumelene

Kodwa indlela lapho sicasulwa awasebenzi kuphela kwezombusazwe. Ekuphileni kwethu kwansuku zonke sivamile uhlangabezana lesi simanga. Provocateurs zisakazeke: kwezokuthutha, emsebenzini, nasezindaweni zomphakathi, ngisho emakhaya ethu. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuba baqonde ukuthi avuse anjalo ubuhlobo.

Okokuqala, ngokuvamile provocateur bezama ukuthola ukuthi imizwelo, ukwenza show ubuthakathaka - intukuthelo, ukwesaba, namahloni ... Ungakwazi kalula aqaphele sicasulwa: uma unomuzwa wokuthi ukukhulumisana nomngane wakho asibahambeli ngendlela eyakhayo, kanye ke ngokuphindaphindiwe kukwenza nemizwa efanayo negative, cabanga. Ungase avuse nje.

Zama ukuba asabele ngobudlova. Misa. Inhale bese exhale. Zama hlaziya isimo.

Cabanga ukuthi kungani bacasulwa ngakho ngamagama athile nezenzo zami? Provocateur kungase sinamathele kuwe ngoba sizwele - ukwesaba kwakho, izinkinga ababa nazo ukuzethemba, nezimo ezingajabulisi, njll Khumbula ukuthi avuse ezifana ... Ungavumeli provocateur unyawo wena baqikelele isimo esandleni.