Ukubhema intsha

Kuze kube manje, wonke zaba zimbi isimo emhlabeni ngenxa anda labantu ukubhema, kuhlanganise intsha nezingane kuze iminyaka 10. A engozini ethile Sinjalo isimo intsha ukubhema, njengoba lokhu kuholela okwengeziwe anda ukubhema labantu emhlabeni. Intsha esakhula, ngokujoyina kwababusi labantu lesiguli ekhubazekile okungukuthi wehluleka ukubhekana izindima eziningi emphakathini.

Ukubhema intsha namuhla inkinga acute nomphakathi ukuthi ngokwejwayelekileyo lihlotshaniswa ongaphakeme isiko yomphakathi yesimanje, futhi ingaxazululwa kuphela ezingeni wombuso, ngokubambisana neNhlangano UBANI nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo.

Sekuyisikhathi eside Abadala eyaziwa umthelela ongemuhle kagwayi emzimbeni impilo jikelele. Nokho, ilungelo ukwazisa nabasafunda yini umphumela ukubhema emzimbeni kwentombazane bambalwa abantu can. Izikole kanye nezinhlangano zomphakathi ngokuvamile atshele izingane ukuthi "kungcono kubi nokubi", kodwa akekho ongasho ngokuqiniseka ukuthi ncamashi nolimi kufinyeleleke ukuchazela intsha, kungani "okubi" nokuthi esikhathini esizayo sizothinta ezempilo, ukuthuthukiswa kwezindawo zabo engqondweni nasemzimbeni . Lapho inhlolovo social intsha, kungani kukubi, akekho ongasisebenzisa ngokugqamile futhi ngokucacile ukuphendula umbuzo.

Izingane eziningi zama ukubhema okokuqala emuva prepubertal (ngaphambi kokuba kufike iminyaka engu-10), futhi phakathi kwenkathi yenguquko kwandisa ingozi yokuba obhemayo. Phakathi kwezimbangela okubhema intsha isho isifiso sokuba umuntu omdala futhi sibe njengamanzi amalungu enethonya amaqembu yobusha. Iziphathimandla kulonyaka intsha ingaba abadlali abadumile yokubhema movie adlala "guys ezinzima" abafuna sokulingisa ukuziphatha labile ngokomzwelo intsha. Ezingqondweni zawo unformed amantombazane ukubhema lihlotshaniswa isimo, yingakho ithambekele bangene iqembu eyeve eshumini nambili ababhemayo, lapho nje kufanele Bathunqisela "bagomela isimo salo" ontanga.

Ngisho noma osemusha anti-ukubhema futhi akwenzi ke iyiphi injabulo, uzoqhubeka ukuba ngibheme, ukuze bahlangabezane onegunya ngaphezulu, ngokombono wakhe, iqembu abafana.

A indima enkulu ukuthi ukubhema kwentsha iyasebenza kakhulu, ukudlala umphakathi. Kuze kube manje, imithetho ekhona zokubhema emhlabeni kalula. Ukubhema wamukelekile kuyo yonke indawo: ukukhangisa nokusatshalaliswa imikhiqizo kagwayi kulo kungekho imikhawulo yobudala, ukusakazwa osikilidi phambili ekukhulumeni kwabezindaba, ifilimu kanye izinhlelo zentsha. Konke lokhu kwenza ugwayi kwamukelwa kabanzi izindinganiso zomphakathi futhi kulesi simo ngeke kwenzeke ukuqeda ukubhema phakathi intsha.

Ukubhema intsha namanje ixhomeke kwezinkambiso wamukela yokuziphatha emkhayeni. Emikhayeni yesimanje kuyo yonke imikhaya yesibili ebhema uyise, oyedwa kwabahlanu - umama, futhi u-20% imindeni bobabili abazali bebhema. Isilinganiso okubhema ingane zawo ezeve eshumini nambili, futhi, kungaba ezahlukene. Ezinye ngokuqinile iyakwenqabela kuka kubangele isifiso enkulu nakakhulu ukuba ngibheme, abanye ekhuthaza (ukuthi lingatholi amazinga imfundo yengane), kuyilapho abanye nje asazi ukuthi ingane yabo ebhema.

Ukuvimbela ukubhema phakathi kwentsha kumelwe abe oluphelele, futhi kumele ifake phakathi ulwazi olunembile olunzulu mayelana izingozi zokubhema emzimbeni eyeve eshumini nambili, ulungise umbiko wayo izilaleli yobusha. Inhlangano yezinhlelo zikahulumeni ukuze ulwe ukubhema izingane. Ezemidlalo zokusebenza kwengqondo kanye abafundi ukukhiqiza izikhundla zabo ecacile ngokumelene ukubhema nokuphikisana endabeni ukuhlaselwa ngokwengqondo intsha endala. Abafundi ngeso lengqondo imiphumela ukubhema yabo.