Ukubekezelelana - kuyinto ukubekezelelana? Cha!

Okwamanje, ukukhuluma okwengeziwe mayelana ukubekezelelana. On inkulumo yakhe nasemaphephandabeni, kuyi-Internet, izindaba ... Kodwa bambalwa abantu ukwazi incazelo yegama elithi "ukubekezelelana" kweqiniso. Ngakho, sibheka ukuthi kuyini.

"Tolerance" - kuba umqondo yehlukene kaningi okubalwa futhi uyisithelo esiyisimanga. Abantu abaningi ngephutha kufanisa it ukubaluleka "ukubekezela" okunjalo. Kodwa, naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi leli gama yinguqulo ngqo kusuka English, akusiyo awukudla kweqiniso ngokuphelele ukubaluleka ethemini yokuqala. Ukubekezelelana - ukuzimisela ukwamukela ezinye abantu izinga nasezinkolelweni ezingamjabulisi awafani bebodwa. Okungukuthi, eqinisweni kuba Ukuyekwa kwezindlela ilungelo abantu ukuba bangobani, buthule niqonda zonke umehluko. Igama elithi "ukubekezelelana" akuyona njalo ofanele, njengoba kusho ukuthi umuntu kufanele enze noma yikuphi ukukhathazeka. Kodwa ukubekezelelana ongakaphathelani ukungakhululeki. It ikhona kungakhathaliseki yizimo zangaphandle. Lokhu empeleni ukuqaphela ukuthi abantu ngokwemvelo bangabantu alinganayo futhi banamalungelo afanayo ukuze khona nezinkolelo.

Njengomthetho, leli gama lisetshenziswa umongo "ukubekezelelana maqondana nanoma ubani." Njengomthetho, imfundo of ukubekezelelana bacondze etindzaweni letehlukene uqhutshwa ngisho ezikoleni. Isikhathi esiningi, ichaza ubuhlobo nabantu lomunye ngobuzwe noma uhlanga, neminye imibono yenkolo kanye / noma zezombangazwe, omunye ubulili, ubudala kanye nesimo senhlalo, nezinye izimo ezibonakalayo ephathelene amazinga ehlukene yentuthuko, ezahlukene ebulilini, nokunye. Njengomthetho, maqondana laba bantu kubonakala kunazo zonke ezinye izinkolo. Ukubhekana naso bese udala imithetho emisha, kodwa kuphela zisenza sibe nezinkinga ezintsha. Kuba ukungqubuzana ezincane ubudala futhi iningi. Ekwemukeleni umthetho esivuna wangaphambili uqale bekhalazela nalokho yesibili kungokufanayo. Ngokwesibonelo, umthetho osanda esamukelwa ngo abagqugquzela ubutabane waqinisekisa abazali abaningi ukhathazeke impilo zokuziphatha izingane, kodwa bancishwa kanjalo abantu zobungqingili nkulumo isho futhi wagcizelela "esizweni esincane" yabo. Lokhu futhi sibonisa kokumelana mass emphakathini wethu, ngoba uma kungenjalo kungaphinde kunesidingo umthetho kukhokhwa ezivukayo izingxabano.

Kufanele Nokho kukhunjulwe ukuthi ukubekezelelana - it is not love sonke isintu. Lokhu kuphela ukuthatha futhi ngamunye ngokuhlukile kuyini. Umuntu ukubekezela isithwathwa ungakwazi ngempela ngokwanele aphendule ukuhlaselwa nabanolaka iqembu, kodwa ungalokothi ukuqala ingxabano bebodwa. Ngakho abantu musa ukushumayela wothando nokuxolelana. Bathi nje ngokungakhethi futhi ngokulinganayo zisebenza kubo bonke abantu emhlabeni.

Ukubekezelelana - okuyimfanelo kudingekile ukuthi udinga ukuthuthukisa abantu ukuze sifinyelele ezingeni eliphezulu lwesintu emphakathini. Phela, iningi izingxabano kuphakama ngenxa ukungasiqondi abanye abantu ukubaluleka. Futhi uma ukunikeza ukubekezelelana mutual, singabona abantu abangaphezu kuka-amalebuli izitembu, siyokwazi ukubona umphefumulo ngemva kwabo, futhi kuyokusiza ukuba sikuqonde futhi, ngenxa yalokho, uthando.