Self-kulinywe, Psychology
Ubuntu eqinile: izibonelo umuntu abagqoka lesi sihloko uyaziqhenya
Sonke ezahlukene kakhulu. Abanye abantu akhipha ukuzethemba, kuyilapho abanye njalo ukubonisa manqikanqika nokungaqiniseki. Ngokusobala ilawulwe indoda obuthakathaka lula kunalokho labo ababizwa ngokuthi "ubuntu namandla". Izibonelo umuntu njalo kuthatha isikhundla esivelele, kungaholela okufanekisa ingunaphakade. Kodwa singathi ngokuqiniseka ngubani indoda enamandla , futhi bahluke kanjani kwabanye?
Ubani lowo muntu onamandla kuqala?
Up ukuchaza zonke izimfanelo zobuntu abanamandla nzima, kodwa izici eziyinhloko ukuhlukanisa sisengakwazi:
- Izinga eliphezulu ukuzethemba nokuzihlonipha, ngokuba nezingxabano inkolelo.
- Ikhono ukulawula imizwa yabo.
- Iphuzu elibaluleke kakhulu - umuntu eqinile has ngezinga eliphezulu ukuzimela: ke kuzimele ukwamukela imibono yabanye, ezihlukahlukene ubandlululo kanye nemibono yomphakathi.
- ngabanye eqinile njalo uyazi lokho akufunayo yokuphila, nebonisa ukuphikelela bafinyelele imigomo yabo.
- isiqhwaga ubheka umhlaba kusuka isikhundla okucabanga futhi kungaba beveza sihlaziye izenzakalo.
Yiqiniso, lokhu akusho ucede le zomuntu, ubani ongabuye abe kungenzeka ngokuphepha ukunamathisela ilebula "ubuntu namandla". Izibonelo izici zobuntu kungukuthi ngempela inwabi phakathi kwabantu abadumile nabadumile. Phela, akubona bonke abantu abahlanganyela ehhovisi sina yomphakathi, ungabiza ubuntu namandla.
Abantu ne uhlamvu oqinile phakathi kwethu. Abanaso ngempela anesikhundla ehlonishwayo futhi ukuhola abanye. Bamane ahlale ngokwakho, ukwenza izinto ozithandayo futhi ayikwazi kuthonywa isixuku.
Namandla = Aphumelele?
Ngokwemvelo, indoda enamandla impumelelo lula kakhulu. Uma umuntu has a umgomo futhi njalo uzama ke, into ngakho ngokuvamile kusho ukuthi - ubuntu namandla. Izibonelo umuntu ongafuni ukuba uphumelele, ngakolunye uhlangothi, akusho bafanelwe inhlonipho emphakathini. Abantu abanjalo uzizwa ubuthaka sengingene futhi yokuzingabaza.
Kodwa singase sithi impumelelo futhi injongo - abayikho sinye siyafanana? Ingabe-ke kuphela umuntu oye impumelelo izuzwe akunakubangelwa esigabeni eziphambili "ubuntu namandla '? Abantu ngokuvamile kuze kube sekupheleni futhi abazange basiqonde Inkulumo ethi 'indoda enamandla. " Phela, igama elithi "impumelelo" sivamile kusho ukuthola imali, amandla nodumo.
Eqinisweni, kakhulu umuntu oludonsa kwenza ngesincumo sakhe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi imibono abayinikezwa ngabanye. Kubantu abanjalo, impumelelo - akusiyo ingcebo, nethonya nodumo. Kubo, impumelelo - akusikho abavumela ithonya elinye futhi ukwenza lokho abakufunayo mathupha. It kuvela ukuthi injongo nempumelelo - izinto ezahlukene ukuqonda komphakathi, kodwa liyefana bangaphambili bathathelwa indawo ubuntu namandla.
Ikhono ukuba umuntu, ukuba umbono futhi ngokwanele ukuhlola amandla nobuthakathaka babo - yilokhu elinesimo ubuntu namandla. Izibonelo indoda, umoya onamandla futhi uhlamvu, ungabona hhayi kuphela kumabonakude noma omagazini ecwebezelayo, kodwa futhi tram, emgwaqweni noma emsebenzini. Noma mhlawumbe nguwe eqinile ngempela futhi umuntu oludonsa futhi isibonelo kubantu abaningi.
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