Ubaba ngemva 60: zonke "kochwepheshe" futhi "nebubi"

Ubaba ngemva kweminyaka engu-60 kulezi zinsuku isiba kwande. Futhi uya ushintsha ubuso umndeni. Uma abantu abasha ngaphambili wafuna ukuthola ilungelo oshadile emva kweminyaka 20, manje abaningi kumiswa oluyisisekelo a "cell ongcono" ngolunye usuku. Uma ngaphambili engu uyise walunguza iwubuphukuphuku kancane uma iqhathaniswa 'nozakwethu "yabo kule wemtali nathishela, kodwa manje lokhu kwalasha ngaphezulu angabekwa. Abasebenzisi abahlela asebephenduke obaba ngemva kweminyaka engu-60, babe eziningi eziwusizo. Sinenkosi ukuzinza kwezimali, nakho okucebisayo futhi isikhathi esiningi khulula. Akungabazeki ukuthi ngeke sibe abazali abahle. Nokho, kukhona kulo mkhuba nemibi, eziningi zazo kungase kubhekwe njengokwelapha inkinga nge impilo inzalo.

wenzalo

Ngokungafani nabesifazane, ulahlekelwa kakhulu ngekhono lokuhlala kombungu esibelethweni emva kweminyaka 45-48, abesilisa ukukhombisa enciphile wenzalo kancane kancane. Ngokwesibonelo, abaneminyaka ephakathi kwengu-41 kuya ku-45 wenzalo elahlekile ngamaphesenti ayi-7 kuphela. Ngemva kokufinyelela wejubili segolide wenzalo amazinga besilisa abawayo ngokushesha. Lokhu kungaba isizathu esikhethekile wabonisa ukuthi uyabakhathalela abantu abahlela babe obaba at kamuva ekuphileni ingxenye. Izifundo emkhakheni Urology ngo-2011 zibonisa ukuthi izifo kohlelo genitourinary, ingozi okwandisa ngeminyaka, kungaholela kwesisu ambalwa.

Impilo ngokomzimba umbungu

Kuzindla nenzalo, amadoda ubudala engozini impilo yezingane babo abangakazalwa. Ososayensi baye bafakazela ukuthi ubudala kunemtselela ukuthuthukiswa ngokomzimba ingane esibelethweni. Ngakho, uma ziqhathaniswa oneminyaka engu-45 ubudala, ngamaphesenti angu-48 obaba eneminyaka engu-60 ubudala ukubhekana nenkinga zamuva inzalo ukuzalwa kwengane isishonile. Umbiko kwaphumela 'Okwezempilo zabesilisa "umagazini, uphawula ukuthi ezinye izinkinga: ingozi ongaphakeme ezizalwa zinesisindo esiphansi, wazalwa kungakabi isikhathi, kanye wehlise engu sokukhulelwa umbungu (prematurity).

zempilo yengqondo

Izingane ezizalwa obaba abaneminyaka, babe sengozini enkulu yokufa nokugula ngengqondo. Ngo-September 2008, AMA Psychiatry Journal wadedelwa sihloko mayelana nokwenzeka ukuthuthukiswa okuguquguqukayo ezinganeni, obazali bakhe bangamadoda abaneminyaka engama-55. Eminyakeni emibili ngaphambili, esinye isihloko ezithakazelisayo yanyatheliswa kumagazini ofanayo, kusukela lapho kusobala ukuthi kwezinye izimo ingozi inzalo okungenamsoco ukukhiqiza kabusha futhi umise umuntu oseqinile. Ngakho, iminyaka engu-indoda endala kuno 40 kukhuphuke ngo izikhathi 6 abe nguyise ingane ine autism.

Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi ingozi kabili njalo ngemva kweminyaka eyishumi. Ngakho-ke, uma uhlela sina uqale inzalo emazingeni kamuva zokuphila, kudingeka sikulindele yonkhe imiphumela ezingaba khona. Uma kuqhathaniswa nontanga yabo, abantu abazalwa elivela kobaba abadala ukukhombisa iphesenti ephakeme lamacala abikiwe lokusangana, kanye ongaphakeme amandla engqondo. Kubonakala sengathi imvelo zenza konke ezingakwenza ukuze umvuzo umntwana ophile kuphela abantu abasha.

ukuqeqeshwa

Sasixoxa ngaLowo nemibi, futhi wathola ukuthi kudlangile. Nokho, e-ngubaba ngasekupheleni kunezinzuzo zako ahlukile. amadoda amadala afunda ukuzibekezelela kakhudlwana, banalo ezinhle silulumagama, ukuphila nakho nokuhlakanipha. Bajabule abasebasha indlela yokukhulumisana nezingane zabo, futhi bafeze indima ebhekile ekukhulisweni yabo. Bayakwazisa athokoza umzali nenzalo yabo ngaso sonke isikhathi sakhe sokuphumula. ochwepheshe bezokwelapha bathi kwakheka anda ukubekezelelana Ileveli nge iconsi kancane kancane ezingeni kwe-testosterone emzimbeni wesilisa (1 per cent ngoba njalo ngonyaka odlulayo zokuphila).

Nokho, ngezinye izikhathi, awela melancholy. La madoda ukuthi uma izinyane iya esikoleni noma ukuya ekolishi, bayoba endala kakhulu ziyiswe ingane ukunakwa ngenxa. Kodwa kuyinto ukugcwaliseka edabukisayo kunezinzuzo ezithile. namaqhawe ethu wayezikhandla noma nini ukuze uthole ingane yakho ukuze uthumele ulwazi esiphezulu kanye nesipiliyoni.