Sonke womuntu, zonke - amadoda, zonke ezahlukene, futhi wonke umuntu unombono lokuhle, ubulungiswa kanye naletinye tindlela tekuphila kuyisiphazamiso esimisweni sokuhle nokubi. Kanye kwezifiso zawo, futhi silingana, okuyinto guided izenzo zabo. Yiqiniso, iningi abanakumjabulisa, futhi kungaba ubuwula ukuzama bacishe nezidingo jikelele: kulula ukulahlekelwa ukuzihlupha, ubuntu siqu. Ngakho, kubalulekile kule ndaba, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuhlala kweqiniso ukuze ngokwayo, futhi ngakolunye - ukuzama ukuhlangabezana nezidingo nezimfuno iqembu inkomba kuwo ningabakaKristu, hhayi ukuba eqele ngalé bendabuko, eliqinisekisiwe emakhulwini eminyaka izindinganiso zokuziphatha.
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Izifundo zokuqala zendlela abe ngumuntu olungileyo, sithola njengoba ingane. Ukusiza abadala futhi musa ukucasula abasebasha, ukuvikela ababuthaka futhi yangenza ukuba ngingalilahli ithemba ku-eqinile, zama sokuphikisa win logic, ingqondo, hhayi ezandleni zakhe, ukukhuluma iqiniso hhayi amanga kusindiso, ukuphendula ngezenzo zabo hhayi fihla noma yikuphi lakhe emuva ... Ungabi abahahayo bese wabelana yakamuva nomngane noma yebo umuntu ongaziwa, ningenzi meanly ... sibe nomusa izilwane ... bakwazi ukumelela ngokwabo, ngenxa yezinkolelo zabo ... uhlu lide, kuyoba ilungile, kodwa cishe yonkhe ezicashile nendlela yokuba ezinhle umuntu, akunakwenzeka. Masikhumbule yokusesha olukhulu okusho emphilweni uLeo Tolstoy nezinhlamvu zakhe, elangazelela ukuba "ezinhle ngempela", aziphonse, ukufuna zokuziphatha, uwela kanye ups. Futhi Dostoevsky sika amaqhawe? Kwaba njalo ngempela, yonke zabuna Russian futhi izwe, ezinhle kunazo kwezincwadi kusinika izibonelo ezicacile zendlela umsebenzi okukhulu okungokomoya. Futhi ngenxa yokuthi omunye into icacile: ngaphandle amandla, ngaphandle ukuthi "umphefumulo kumelwe asebenze" singelokothe ukuqonda, indlela ukuthi ube okuhle umuntu.
Futhi lokho kusho - imizamo eqinile-willed? Ngicabanga, kuba ikhono ukudela izithakazelo zabo, ezinkulu noma ezincane, ukuze bakhonze izithakazelo nomunye. Yield lapho ngifuna ukugcizelela kwakhe. Anikele ukuthi Ngifuna ukugcina. Ukuthi zilawule ingxenye umsebenzi neminye imithwalo yemfanelo. Nikeza izeluleko noma ngesenzo. Ekugcineni, ukwenza feat egameni othile noma into ethile. Phela, ubuqhawe, isibindi, ukuzibeka emuva - samuntu eliphakeme umqondo kuphoqelekile "ezinhle" zokuziphatha, okuyinto kulandele abantu ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu.
Izibonelo nendlela yokuba ngumuntu olungileyo, sibona sonke isikhathi, futhi ukwenza feat ekuphileni kwansuku zonke akudingekile salokhu. Afaneleke ezindabeni ezithile futhi ulisebenzise ukuze kuzuze abangane, nengangibajwayele kanye nezihlobo. Yiba indodana oyikhathalelayo, noma indodakazi maqondana abazali bethu asebekhulile, inkosikazi noma umyeni abazinikele - yingxenye yokuphakama kwalo. Ngenhlonipho ababeholwa, uma uya ku boss, futhi musa azenze muhle kumbusi ngokusebenzisa phambi phezulu GABA. Ukugcina ubuqotho ngaphezu kwakho konke yedwa - futhi kusho ukuba abe indoda. Ungayekethisi ezimisweni zokuziphatha ezibhekwa esichazayo.
Futhi ekugcineni, into ebaluleke kakhulu. Njengoba sekuphawuliwe, "okuhle" - umqondo subjective. Umuntu kungenziwa kubhekwe njengendlela villain emphakathini, kodwa kuyoba kuhle umuntu oye wasiza - ngabe ruble, njll Ingabe inkonzo abantu ezinolwazi, ezifana Kristu, uBuddha, noma uMfundisi Osho ohlakaniphile, iDalai Lama, incane kakhulu, izingxenye ngamunye million. Noma kunjalo, njengeqembu elincane nalabo abenza sa inhliziyo inhliziyo yakhe, njengoba kwenza Mat Tereza noma Lady Diana. Khona-ke ningabi ukweqisa zobuhle ngoba abantu bonke. Ngenxa yalokho, umbuzo kanjani ukuba abe indoda, hhayi kuphela esigabeni ezingaphelelwa isikhathi, zefilosofi, kodwa futhi, ithi, iqembu elincane. Yakhe "comme il faut" ukhona kuzo zonke inkomba olulodwa imvelo. Akuwona wonke "abantu bangaphandle 'zingazivumelanisa ke, futhi akudingekile.
Into esemqoka ukuthi mhlawumbe kungabi ngabandayo nandaba, akuvumi ukuba aphile ngokuvumelana nesimiso esithi "ayikho ibhizinisi lami." Zama ngangokunokwenzeka futhi umzamo ibone amakhono ayo omuhle.