Isibindi - kuyinto ukungabikho kokwesaba, noma ikhono, azibuse ngezinga elithile?

Ngezinye izikhathi besaba ulinganiswa wobugwala, kodwa akuyona. Ubonakala ngokuzimele ngentando yomuntu futhi kuba yisithiyo ukuthi kumele sinqobe (ukulawula), okwenza izenzo ngokugqamile. Ikhono ukulawula ukwethuka bakhe kubalulekile kuwo wonke umuntu futhi hhayi nje bomlilo, odokotela nalabo kabani umsebenzi kuhlobene ukubonakaliswa isibindi nokuzithiba.

Wesibindi nokungesabi

I lamukelwa endaweni yonke isibindi nokuqonda ezihlobene ezinezici ezifana isibindi, isibindi, ubuqhawe, anamandla nesibindi. Odokotela bengqondo ichaze isibindi nekhono nenze ngokushesha kule izimo eziyingozi (kokubili ukuphila nempilo) ukuze ukufeza umgomo.

Isibindi - uphawu isimilo esihle, okwenza abantu yinhlonipho. Enemy yesibindi nokwesaba ukwehluleka, isizungu, ukululazeka, impumelelo, izinkulumo zeningi. Futhi ukuze sigcine isimo sabo ngokwengqondo lizama ukuzivumelanisa nendawo izimo zinzima ngokwedlulele, kumelwe nikwazi ukuzabalaza yokwesaba.

Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo Soviet KK Platonov, akhonjwe 3 izinhlobo isibindi: isibindi, ngokungesabi nangokuba nesibindi. indoda Abanesibindi ukufeza imiphumela kunoma isiphi isimo, uyaqaphela babecabanga zonke izingozi nasezingosini. Kungenjalo kwenzekani namadoda abanesibindi: bajabulela ingozi nosizi olungokomzwelo. Ngokuqondene eyiqhawe ke, ngokuvumelana nencazelo wezifo Soviet, ngomuntu onjalo ezizwa ebophekile ngenhla yokwesaba.

Ukungesabi nesibindi - kukhona antipodes ukwesaba ukuba a ukuletha impumelelo nokunqoba. It ngokuba kuqondakala isibindi nekhono ukulawula ukuziphatha lapho babenakho ukwesaba.

Izincwajana zemininingwane isibindi

Umzimba womuntu kubonisa imizwa yakhe ejulile. Umfanekiso umuntu onamahloni ubukeka udidekile: Gait engaqinisekile, ukuntuleka ukuthinta uma ekhuluma, ngithukulule ukubukeka nesimilo. Ngakho-ke, ukuqeqesha ngokwakho ukuba banqobe ukwesaba e kudingekile hhayi kuphela okufinyelela imigomo, kodwa futhi ukuze kwakhiwe ngomzimba omuhle.

Ukuqeqeshwa iqala sinqobe ukwesaba encane. Kukhona nokwesaba zeningi? Bese qala ne ubugagu phambi kwabangane. Uma lokhu okutholakala kalula, ukubutha iqembu ezingaphezu kuka Ngokwesibonelo, abantu abangu-20, futhi ukukhuluma phambi kwabo inqobo uze ukujwayela ungesabi.

Uma kukhona ukwesaba okukhulu zokuxhumana nabo namantombazane, qala qala ingxoxo ogogo babo noma bazame smile emgwaqweni bathandile umuntu.

Ukuqeqeshwa lokuqala abafundi abasha angase abe isaga isibindi azosiza osemusha ukuba sibhekane ngokuphumelelayo yezinxushunxushu kuqala. Nazi ezinye izibonelo: "Ngubani siphikelele phambili, kanye lokho kwesaba akuthathi"; "Ngubani nesibindi, futhi injongo"; "Umuzi kudinga isibindi," nabanye.

ifomula singesabi

Isibindi - yikhono isinyathelo naphezu kokwesaba, ukunqoba lapho kuyadingeka ukuze babe nezimfanelo:

1. Ukuzithiba - ikhono ukucindezela imizwelo okuphazamisayo futhi uthathe isinyathelo okunengqondo.
2. Okuhlushwa ukubala. Lezi izimfanelo ukusiza ukuthola isimo elilungile ngokulungiswa kwalo futhi uqaphela yonke imininingwane yezimo.
3. Ukugqugquzela - lokuhlushwa imithombo yangaphakathi ne ekuqhumeni okwalandela amandla ukuze silwe, isibindi, isibindi.
4. Ukuthembela - Ikhono ukungaxhamazeli babuye babone kutsi phela konke kuleli zwe isixazululekile, zonke izithiyo zinganqotshwa futhi besabe.

Isibindi ngaphandle kokwesaba - uhlanya

Ukwesaba ekuhloleni izimo ezingaphephile evame ukubuzwa yibo bonke abantu abaphendula ngokunengqondo. Kuyinto yokusabela ukuzivikela ukuthi kwenzeka esimweni esiyingozi futhi odala ukudazuluka ngokomzwelo, okuyinto ithumela amaza kagesi sibe nengqondo yanoma isidingo sokugwema usongo. Sizokwehlelwa ukwesaba kusiqede intando, kusenze sibe izisulu ezilula futhi yahluleka ukumelana.

Abekho abantu elinesibindi. Khumbula okungenani ahlekisayo ifilimu "indiza omthende" lapho uhlamvu, enqaba ukuhamba ku yezinyoni izilwane eziphila - ihlosi, wathi: "Angiyena. Igwala, kodwa ngiyesaba"

Umuntu onesibindi - nakuba hhayi kusengaphambili singesabi futhi venturesome kokwazi ingozi ngokugcwele leli thuba. Kodwa ikhono ukuba banqobe ukwesaba, esabe, kubhekwa kwakwakhiwa.

Ngakho, isibindi - lokhu akulona ukungabikho kokwesaba, kodwa ikhono ukulawula imizwelo, ukuphatha ngokwabo, izenzo zabo, umuzwa alamu senzo.