Lasekuqaleni kakhulu ekutalwa umfana

Kulesi sihloko, sizokhuluma kafushane sixoxe ngendlela engcono ukubingelela abantwana bobudala obungefani. Siyakuhalalisela ujabule lokuzalwa umfana Kufanele kukhethwe ngokucophelela. Abaningi cishe uyazi ukuthi ingane siyashintsha njalo ngonyaka, ngaphezu, zikhona izinyathelo ezimbalwa eziyisisekelo, engaba yisikhombisa ngamunye. Ngakho-ke, siyobe iveza izigaba ezimbalwa ubudala eziyisisekelo.

Eyokuqala kokuqala ubudala, okuyinto thina uthinte - iminyaka engu-10. Uma iqhawe lakho maduze weminyaka engu siyakuhalalisela ngowokuqala umfana ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa kumele akhethe ngokucophelela. ingane yakho ayinaso umfana omncane, kodwa ngempela bayazi, sekunesikhathi eside phakathi esikoleni, ukuxhumana nontanga, unomsebenzi omningi kwezinhloso zenzuzo. Ukwelapha kufanele athathwe ngokungathi sína.

ungakwazi ukuhalalisela kanjani oneminyaka engu-10?

Ngalesi ubudala, izingane bakhuthele they nyakazo okuningi, futhi ngezinye izikhathi kunomuzwa, njengokungathi othile waqala, futhi aphathe konke sekuphelile. Ngakho-ke, okokuqala kunakho konke, siyakuhalalisela ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa umfana kufanele bajabule futhi kumethuse. Ngakho qiniseka ukuthi ukwenza ihlaya, bajabule hero, futhi khona-ke uyoba ajabule, futhi kuba - into ebaluleke kakhulu.

Okuningi ungaphawula emyalezweni wakhe congratulatory ukuthi ukhona umuntu omdala, ukuthi ekugcineni kuba indoda. Wayezoba uyaziqhenya kakhulu futhi sibonga for la mazwi:

Wena, othandekayo wami, ayisekho ingane,
iminyaka engu-10 - kungcono i yokugubha usuku!
Ube nosuku lokuzalwa oluhle, umuntu wethu!
Zikhula, othandekayo, ugijimele!

Eyesibili yokuqalisa - engu-14

Very interesting yobudala isikhathi, njengoba kungenzeka uye waqaphela, njengoba umfana kancane liphenduka eseyinsizwa, kufika yisigaba esibaluleke kakhulu - amahloni ubudala. ukunakwa kwakho lesi sikhathi kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi, yebo, siyakuhalalisela ukuze usuku lokuzalwa kumele abonise eniwuphathisiwe nokunakwa, kanye nokuqondisisa ukuziphatha kwengane yakho.

sekudlule iminyaka elitshumi lane wena namuhla,
Adventures ezikulindele!
Ngakho ake inhlanhla kuwe, othandekayo,
Njalo, kungezona zonke izinkolo eziholela!

Ukubingelela engcono kuyoba yilowo ongeke umtshele ukuthi yingane nje qha. Ngokuvamile ngalesi yobudala izingane zikhula ngokushesha, ngakho-ke kungcono lokumjabulisa, ukuze abonise ukuthi uyakwazi ngempela wakhula waba uyakufanelekela ukuba ulalele umbono wakhe. Ngesikhathi esifanayo kumelwe singakhohlwa ukuthi manje olujabulisa, ubudala kumnandi kakhulu, kodwa ngoba umyalezo wakhe congratulatory futhi ungenza ihlaya. Siyakuhalalisela umfana lokuzalwa zingenziwa zibe amahle ikhadi ngaphezu izipho.

engu-14 - yobudala elikhulu:
Ngiphuphe eningi entsha evulekile
Futhi zonke zifakazela ukuthi unga uqobo
Impumelelo Its kusimangaze emhlabeni!

yamathenda Ubudala

Esesithathu isikhathi yobudala iba nesikhombisa ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa. Enye ngonyaka, futhi ngeke zisaba ingane. Kulesi sikhathi izingane namuhla akuyona neze into ekubeni ezincane, abaningi banambitha izinto ezahlukene ukuthi ziguge ukuzama okwamanje. Ziyakwazi manje a look ezahlukene ngesikhathi ukuphila, futhi ajabulise zona, futhi, kufanele ihluke.

ungakwazi ukuhalalisela kanjani umfana eminyakeni 17? Inketho engcono kungaba, mhlawumbe, sina lokuzalwa imikhonzo umfana ukuthi izokubonisa ncamashi kuye futhi aphathe. Yiqiniso, siphathelene nezihlobo. Kodwa uma ufuna ukuhalalisela nomunye ukuthi ubudala, udinga beveza umcabango elikhulu. Kungaba kuhle ukuba beze okuthile okuhlekisayo, abanye ihlaya engavamile, okuyinto kunoma yiliphi icala akufanele ukumzwisa ubuhlungu.

Amavesi enaye umfana lokuzalwa kuyoba ngaphezu kakhulu isipho sakho, nakho kufanele akhethwe ngokucophelela. Akukubi, futhi lapho ekhona, futhi siyakuhalalisela basonta nesitayela esifanako. Ngokwesibonelo, izipho ezibizayo kumele ibe mibi, iholele ukubingelela ozothileyo;

17 - beza okungcono sezinsuku:
zonke izifiso zagcwaliseka!
Zonke bhá empilweni yakho
Namuhla ake ku!

Futhi amazwi amaningi ungakwazi ukuhalalisela umfana. Okubaluleke kakhulu, lokubingelela kwakho kufanele kube qotho, futhi konke kuzolunga!