Kunganjani ukugubha iminyaka engu-40, amadoda nabesifazane abaningi?

Ngiqinisekile abaningi bangathanda ukuwususa umbono ukuthi kungani hhayi njengoba kubungazwa iminyaka engu-40. Phela, bonke abantu baqaphela ngaphezu kwesikhathi esisodwa ukuthi lolu hlobo wejubili abantu abaningi ubona esibi kakhulu. Ngayiphi isizathu?

Manje-ke kwenzeka kudala, ukuthi kwaba iminyaka engu-wamashumi amane wokuphuma amadoda amaningi kukhona izilonda, okuyinto baye bathola zonke eminyakeni eyedlule yendlela yakhe yokuphila kokuthanda izinkathazo futhi sengqondo lula impilo yakho. Ngakho-ke, ngalesi yobudala, iningi labo ababhekene naso ungubani esibucayi, njengoba umbuzo lokuvukela ukuthi bakwazi ukufeza okuthile ngokusebenzisa kwababusi, ukuthola lapho umkhaya siqu ezinhle, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kukhona emizini yabo, oda ukuthi umsebenzi wocansi, okungase futhi kancane kancane ingahluleka kuleli yobudala. Okungukuthi, lena engu-abantu abaningi waqonda njengoba uhlobo ejwayelekile yenkabazwe, efingqa imiphumela kwenkathi ethile izinhlelo ukwakhiwa zekusasa futhi ukuhlolwa ongokoqobo ngokuphila wahlala nengxenye.

Njengoba for amasiko isonto, ukugidinga iminyaka engu-wamashumi amane komuntu Kusengenzeka, nje musa ukukwenza ekhaya. Ngokwesibonelo, abantu kakhulu ngendlela ebonisa ukukholelwa ezeni angaya yokudlela noma ukuhlela uhambo emaphandleni. Lolu hlobo lwe-iholide namanje ewusizo kakhulu futhi ezithakazelisayo kuka ukudla okuzenzela. Aint it?

Ukuze ugweme umthelela ongemuhle izifo empilweni kungaba indlela enhle kakhulu yokuphila. Kufanele kube yinto engenzeka ukuthi ukhawule reception utshwala, zama ukuyeka ukubhema, ngiziphoqe ukwenza ezemidlalo, ukuzuza impilo yabo futhi umzimba. Futhi kudlala indima ocansini kubalulekile njalo. Uma indoda engu-amane unomkhaya, lokhu yikona uqala indiva ngabaningi, futhi akulungile.

Ingabe iminyaka engu-40 abantu abavamile ukugubha? Wonke umuntu uyazinqumela. Futhi akachazanga ukuthi kungani hhayi njengoba kubungazwa iminyaka engu-40, singakunikeza eziningi. Ngokwesibonelo, amaJapane bayaqiniseka ukuthi inombolo ezine - isibalo namabutho amnyama. abantu Slavic ayekholelwa ukuthi ekugcineni umphefumulo womuntu ngosuku wamashumi amane emva kokufa eshiya kuleli zwe yasemhlabeni. Lezi ukukholelwa ezeni ezivamile walabo ezinikeza incazelo yokuthi kungani hhayi njengoba kubungazwa iminyaka engu-40. Yiqiniso, umuntu angabona zilandise eziningi nezinye izinto ezihlobene izikhathi lobuqaba futhi ukuthuthukiswa bendabuko kwesikhathi Christian. Uma lolu lwazi kusuka esidlule ongakhanyiselwe ngeke bakwazi ukwanelisa ngokugcwele isithakazelo yomuntu yesimanje kule ezeni.

okwenziwa zezenhlalo Russia ngesihloko: "Kunganjani njengoba kubungazwa iminyaka engu-40." I Umbono-poll wathatha ingxenye abesifazane futhi amadoda abo bonke ubudala. ethakazelisayo wabonakaliswa ucwaningo. Ayisishiyagalombili nesikhombisa amaphesenti angu-interviewers, ogama yobudala wayeneminyaka engaba ngamashumi amathathu ubudala, kubhekwa into ukukholelwa ezeni kwesikhatsi lesengcile kanye uhlela ukugubha unyaka wayo wamashumi amane ngendlela enkulu esikhathini esizayo. Futhi abaphendulayo abangaphezu kweminyaka engu-ngamashumi amathathu anamahlanu - amabili nantathu per cent - namanje linombono wokuthi akunakwenzeka ukugubha iminyaka engu-40. Bathi uxhumanise impendulo yakho inkolo futhi impilo yakho. Abamdeleli yini ukuphendula umbuzo, kungani hhayi njengoba kubungazwa iminyaka engu-40 hhayi. Eqinisweni, besaba ukugubha lolu suku ngenxa yokwesaba ukufa, futhi abesifazane ubone kulesi ekugubheni umugqa othile njalo lapho sishumayeza umhlalaphansi.