Kungani kukhona inzondo abantu, futhi kanjani ukulwa naso

Wonke umuntu owazi yindlela ethandwayo, lathathwa "iBhayibheli" mayelana lokuthi udinga uthande umakhelwane wakho, okungukuthi umuntu ngomqondo ebanzi izwi, njengalokhu uzithanda wena. Kungani-ke nje manje lwaluvame ngakho ihaba phambili ekukhulumeni kwabezindaba, futhi ngisho abavamile enkulumweni yansuku zonke?

Ngoba abaningi ngokuvamile umphakathi wakithi iqiniso ezishaqisayo zenzondo abantu phezu konqenqema! Freaks notshwala hooligans - kuyacaca, ukuthi zonke izifundo ezinokuphazamiseka engqondweni. Kodwa manje kuragela imisinga ahlukahlukene lapho insimbi nolokubhujiswa ngokwabo ungathandi abantu nje evamile, kodwa nge liphinyiselwe ukuziphatha "efanele".

Ngokwesibonelo, subculture intsha, elimalungu alo ngokuthi streyteydzherami, izimiso nokuziphatha kwabo kuyinto zokwenqaba ezidakamizweni utshwala, ukubhema kanye nobuhlobo bobulili ngaphandle uthando. Badumisa ukwethembeka, ubuqotho kanye nenhlonipho ezilindeleke kubadala, ukuvikela amalungelo izilwane kanye nemvelo. Konke lokhu Yiqiniso, inconywe kakhulu. Futhi ngisho akucaci ukuthi ingxoxo iqhutshwa futhi baphi inzondo kubantu. Ukuba nobuhlobo iyona kakhulu futhi kuyinto umugqa oqondile.

Ikakhulukazi ozinikele emibonweni ngendlela enempilo kanye nokuvikelwa izilwane ukuthuthukisa biocentrism amakhulu kangangokuthi lize aqale ukwenza izenzo ezingekho emthethweni ukuze ushintshe konke okuzungezile. Bona ukushayisa izitolo, okuyinto ukuthengisa inyama noma uboya, ukushaya abantu ukubhema phambi kwabo noma aphuze. Leyo mikhankaso ngokuvamile iphele ngemuva kokulimala kabi futhi kungaholela ngisho kokushona komuntu. Ngokwabo njengoba amalungu inhlangano bakholelwa ukuthi lowo ongasibonisi bakwazise ukuphila kwabanye (isib, inkukhu noma inhlanzi), akayena asikufanelekeli ukwamukelwa. Akukhona yini lokhu inzondo yabantu?

Kuyefana nasendleleni le mbumbulu alwa. Nge kwesiqubulo esithi "eRussia Russian!" Izigilamkhuba smash nezitebele zamahhashi kanye izimakethe, washaywa wabulawa, abantu abanesikhumba amnyama futhi izinwele umbala. Fall ngaphansi "ukusatshalaliswa" hhayi izivakashi zakwamanye amazwe kuphela, okungukuthi, abantu abavela kwamanye amazwe angomakhelwane, kodwa futhi lenqwaba wazalwa wakhulela e-Russia, labo cabanga ke lakubo, futhi kuncane noma akukho nhlobo wokushisekela izwe ngaphansi. Lokhu inzondo kubantu eminye ayobhebhethekisa bamaqembu ezinjalo, kwamandla balawula intsha ngokubona kwayo. Kulesi simo, kunzima ukusho kabani indima mubi kakhulu: izikhumba zabo noma isiqondiso esivela kumuntu omdala.

Umbuzo ngemindeni ngokwayo: yiziphi izimbangela sonya? Kungani omunye umuntu uzimisele ukunikela abangenamakhaya shirt zokugcina, futhi omunye ubumnandi pnot unyawo ezingcolile kid - isinxibi nje. Hhayi sikufanele konke umugqa shayela efanayo: ukulahlekelwa emakhaya abo kanye nezimpilo kungaba ubani. Kodwa ukusebenzisa ubudlova kubantu ababencishwe amathuba ngaphambilini kakade, okungenani - oziphethe kabi futhi unonya.

Kwabe sekuvela ukuthi, isizathu ungephansi kwemandla phezu! Isimo sengqondo esinjalo sokuthanda yenu, namacebo enu kubantu emi phezu ezingeni leliphasi zokuziphatha noma ingahambelani nalo kokwethula ubuqotho ngazinye, kuyinto ugula ngengqondo futhi libizwa misanthropy. Futhi ngokuvamile abantu behlupheka ekukhuleni, kwezamasiko, ngisho abanamakhono futhi zokudala. Bona zingagcina embuthanweni emincane nengangibajwayele, bezama ukugwema imibuthano womuntu. Futhi imisebenzi yakhe (ngezinye izikhathi abahlakaniphe kakhulu) laba bantu kancane kancane ukukhuthaza ubudlova nenzondo owayehlala kule ndawo.

Indlela ukuqeda inzondo? Indlela ukuhlanza izwe kokubi? Lona umbuzo ongadinge mpendulo. Misanthropy akunakuphulukiswa, abaningi bathi odokotela bengqondo. Kepha uma ezala intombazana namanje nje uzama ukubeka emphefumulweni wakho izimpande, likhiphe zenhliziyo yakho ngaphandle ukuzisola! Phela, uma wonke umuntu oyedwa ukuba bazihlanze kusukela inzondo futhi okubi, khona-ke bonke ngothi lwabo siyoba enomusa futhi ihlanzeke.

Umphakathi wethu wonke awuphelele kakhulu. Ukulungiswa ngisho zidinga isijeziso zomphakathi uhlelo eklanyelwe kabusha osutupivshihsya. Nokho, okuyiso okuphambene: ngisho hit phansi, abantu "esingekude ngakho" abaye icala ngokuba budedengu, kungekho okubi umphefumulo emuva lapho uthukuthele. Futhi indlela kabusha kudala eyodwa ngaphezulu round ngobudlova.