Kukangaki ubhekana isiko ukushaqeka?

Wake wazithola usesimweni lapho ungase ungaceli indlela, noma ngingazi ukuthi ngingaqhubeka kanjani, ukuthi, ukusebenzisa ifoni pay emgwaqeni? Noma, nobunzima wazithatha e inqubo ukugcwalisa imoto yakho noma uma uzama ukuthenga imikhiqizo esitolo? Isimo sibe sibi nakakhulu ukuthi kwakudingekile ukuba qiniseka ukuthola indlela yokuphuma, okungukuthi, ucingo esiphuthumayo othile, ugcwalise imoto, ukuthenga ukudla? Kwenzekeni? Ngakho, singasho ngokuqiniseka ukuthi kwadingeka ukuba ezwe okufanayo isiko ukushaqeka.

Ubani Uyakuzwa kwasekuqaleni? Njengomthetho, abo ayizifiki, abafundi sitadisha phesheya, izivakashi noma osomabhizinisi, baqala ngaphandle kwezwe lakini.

Kulesi sihloko Ngithanda ukuchaza kulo mqondo, khuluma ngezinto izimbangela ivela khona, kanye sendlela lula ukungena endaweni omusha ongumuntu.

1. Isiko ukushaqeka. Inchazelo

Isiko ukushaqeka ibizwa ngokuthi uhlobo ngokomzimba noma (ezimweni eziningi) ukungakhululeki ngokomzwelo ephakama ngenxa Sangena ehluke ngokuphelele, ezingajwayelekile imvelo kwamasiko.

Kungenzeka yini ukuba ukujwayela leli imvelo? Ungakwati kukukhombisa loko! Nokho, lokhu lithathelwe kwamasiko ezimweni eziningi kuyoba okuthakazelisayo, ezicindezelayo, Isimanga siwukuthi, kumnandi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kufanele kube ukulungele yini engase ibonakale futhi akazange aphile isikhathi eside kuze kube kulokho esikulindele noma enye into exakayo.

By the way, umqondo nje onjalo akukho ngezinye izikhathi lisetshenziselwa ukubonisa isimo jikelele, kanye kwalokho, abantu nje ukujwayela indlela entsha kanye nenqubo, azi ukuthi akukho ngaphambilini wafunda amasiko noma ukuziphatha akukho msebenzi eside.

2. Isiko Shock kanye izizathu okungenzeka lapho ivela khona

Njengomthetho, umuntu ahlangabezane lokhu isimo lapho eza ezweni elisha bona, amasiko okuyinto zihluke lawo masiko ayekubona kulendzawo yangaphambilini, ekhaya futhi endaweni evamile ngaye.

Nakuba uma uthatha, isibonelo, ezweni elifana ezinkulu njengale Russia, ungakwazi kalula ufikelwe ukushaqeka isiko, ezihambayo, isibonelo, bahlala inhlokodolobha, noma, kunalokho, asemaqaqasini we muzi ophithizelayo ne isigqi ocebile zokuphila. Vele imvelo yezenhlalakahle Ungashintsha kangangokuba ukubhekana nesimo ngokufanele kuthanda kuphela nesibindi kakhulu nokunenjongo.

Into wukuthi e Ngezikhathi ezinjalo phakathi umuntu ngamunye kukhona umzabalazo abadala nabasha zengqondo kwamasiko kanye nezinkambiso. Ngohlobo Lomuntu Okufanele Ube ukungqubuzana ezingeni ukwazi sakhe.

Kungenjalo uyazi kobukhulu umthelela, wonke umuntu ehluke ngokuphelele ungathola isiko ukushaqeka. Kungabe kusiya? Ngokuvamile kusukela izici ezimbalwa ezinkulu, okungukuthi - izici ngamunye, lizinga ukufana kanye nezinga umehluko lamasiko, kanye izakhi eziningi ezengeziwe engikuhlakazele eyenziwa ukudla, isimo sezulu, nenhlalakahle ngezinto ezibonakalayo, amasiko, isakhiwo izingubo, inkolo, umndeni, futhi izinga lemfundo, limi.

3. olunamandla isiko ukushaqeka. Izibonelo nobukhulu nokuma okuhlukahlukene,

Wazi kanjani ukuthi ngabe uhlangabezana real isiko ukushaqeka? Ingabe kunendlela ukubikezela uma lokhu kuzophela isimo esithile kabuhlungu futhi esibuhlungu?

odokotela bengqondo Modern ukuhlukanisa izigaba eziningana ngale nkathi, ngokuvamile kubangelwa ukuthuthela kwelinye izwe:

• "Honeymoon". Ngalesi sikhathi, umuntu eqala ukubona okwenzekayo ngokusebenzisa okuthiwa "izibuko rose-ezinemibala." Zonke imvelo yakhe entsha ibonwa ngenjabulo nangomdlandla. Ngokwesibonelo, njalo ukuvakashela izindawo ezintsha kithi, thina okokuqala ziqala ubunyoninco ukudla ongakujwayele, ubungcweti obumangalisayo, imikhuba ezihlekisayo sabantu bendabuko.
• "Ukubuyisana", ngokuvamile kwenzeka emva ezimbalwa izinsuku, amasonto, futhi kwezinye izimo izinyanga. Sesiyaqala bheka ajwayelekile kithi indilinga labangane, likhale kuze abangane, nengangibajwayele kanye nezihlobo, ukulungiselela izitsha zakho ozithandayo kusukela ebuntwaneni.
• "Ukuzijwayeza." Kulesi sigaba, umuntu uyayeka ngokomzwelo abasabela ngayo kulokho okwenzeka emhlabeni. Life iba eduze ngangokunokwenzeka esimisweni evamile yansuku zonke ekhaya.
• "Buyela emuva isiko ngenxa yokushaqeka." Kuleso simo, uma ungenawo bashiye amakhaya abo kuze kube phakade, cishe uyobe unendaba ukubuyela, futhi ngenxa yalokho, kuba ngaphambili kudingekile ukuba balungele inhlokomo entsha ngokomzwelo.